Zamkati
- Banjali limagwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso
- Nthawi imodzi imakhudzidwa
- Ubwenzi wapamtima ndi kudalirana zimachepa
Malingaliro anga, chuma chakuthupi, chuma, ndi umbombo wamtundu uliwonse siziyenera kukhala chinthu chomwe mumakonda. Komabe, ndi ndalama zambiri zimadza ndiudindo waukulu. Ngati mwakhalapo pachibwenzi chachikulu mukudziwa kuti pali zotsatirapo zosankha zopanda nzeru zomwe zimawakhudza onse omwe akukhudzidwa, makamaka ngati awiriwo ali okwatirana. Mwadzidzidzi, kuwononga ndalama kwa m'modzi kumakhudza mnzake ndikukhazikika kumakhala chinthu chakale.
Ndalama ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kusudzulana. Kudutsa umbombo, nsanje, ndi zina zotero ndizofunikira, koma ngati kusasamala kwa mnzake kukhumudwitsa mnzake kapena banja lawo, sizovuta kudziwa chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri kumakhala mavuto m'paradaiso. Palibe kukayika kuti zizolowezi zosagwiritsa ntchito bwino ndalama, ngongole, komanso kusakhazikika kwachuma zitha kuwononga chidaliro komanso chisangalalo muukwati.
Ndikufuna kuwunika momwe ngongole imakhalira ndi maubwenzi ambiri komanso momwe ndingapewere mavuto osafunikira chifukwa cha luso losagwiritsa ntchito bwino ndalama. Mwinanso, pokonzekereratu, titha kuteteza chisokonezo kuti chisamabwerere zomwe tili nazo ndi anthu omwe timawakonda kwambiri.
Banjali limagwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso
Ndili ndi mnzanga yemwe banja lake lili ndi ngongole zambiri. Amagwira ntchito mpaka fupa tsiku lililonse chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito mopanda nzeru zosankha zopangidwa ndi iye ndi mkazi wake ndipo samapeza nthawi yogona. Amagwira ntchito tsiku lonse, amabwerera kunyumba, kenako amagona chifukwa samakwanitsa kutero.
Zachidziwikire, izi sizabwino. Adandiuza kuti adaphonya gawo lalikulu pamoyo wa ana ake chifukwa amayenera kugwira ntchito kwambiri. Mavuto ambiri am'banja lake akhala achisoni chifukwa chazinthu zopanda nzeru zopangidwa ndi mkazi wake ndi iye, ndipo chidwi chowonjezeka cha ngongole zawo changokulitsa zinthu.
Ngongole zimapangitsa mabanja kuti azigwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso. Mukakhala kuti mumalipira ndalama zolipirira, zitha kuwoneka ngati palibe njira ina. Ngati uyu ndi inu, ndikulimbikitsani kusiya ndalama zochepa ndikuyika ngongole yanu. M'malo mochita masewera olimbitsa thupi usiku, inu ndi mnzanuyo muyenera kupita kokayenda ndi kupita kokayenda. Mutha kutha kuchepetsa zina mwa zinthu zofunika pamoyo wanu. Ndikudziwa anthu ambiri, kuphatikizapo ine, omwe amadandaula za ndalama koma samaganiza kuti mwina amalipira kwambiri renti. Ngati mulibe nyumba, ganizirani kupeza malo omwe angakwaniritse zosowa zanu ndikukulepheretsani mavuto azachuma. Khalani anzeru ndi momwe mungasungire ndalama, ndipo mwina mtsogolomo sizingakhale cholepheretsa chachikulu kwa inu.
Nthawi imodzi imakhudzidwa
Ndanena kuti mzanga adapita nthawi yayitali osawona banja lake chifukwa changongole yomwe anali nayo popeza anali kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti asayandikire. Ndipo ndi ana achichepere angapo zinali zovuta kuti mkazi wake azigwira ntchito nthawi yayitali kuti amuthandize pazachuma.
Ndiloleni ndichite momveka bwino, sindikunena kuti kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kapena ngongole kungabweretse chisudzulo. Koma maanja amafunika kukhala okha. Kukondana kwamaganizidwe ndi kuthupi ndikofunikira kuti ubale wathu ukhale wolimba.
Ngakhale m'moyo wanga womwe, ndawona kusowa kwa nthawi yokhala pandekha kumakhudza maubale am'banja mwathu. Mukakhala kuti simucheza limodzi, mumayiwala momwe mungalankhulirane. Ena mwa abale anga samakangana kapena kukambirana bwino ndi anzawo ndipo ndikhulupiriradi kuti kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kwalepheretsa kupita patsogolo.
Ngati mumapezeka kuti mulibe nthawi yocheza ndi mnzanu, kapena mwatopa kwambiri kuti mukambilane za mikangano pakati panu, ndichinthu chomwe mukufuna kusintha ndikuchizindikira nthawi yomweyo. Ndikudziwa kuti sizophweka, koma kugona pang'ono usiku umodzi pa sabata (nonse amene mukunyalanyaza ndandanda zanu) atha kukhala kusiyana pakati paukwati wapabanja ndi womvetsa chisoni.
Ubwenzi wapamtima ndi kudalirana zimachepa
Kudalirana ndi komwe ubale uliwonse wabwino umakhazikikapo. Mchitidwe woipa wogwiritsa ntchito ndalama umakhudzanso anthu omwe sagwirizana. Izi zokha zimatha kusokoneza chiyembekezo, koma muyenera kukumbukira kuti kuwononga ndalama zoyanjana nthawi zambiri kumakhudza kusakhulupirika.Palibe funso loti mufunse: kusachita bwino ndi ndalama zanu kumatha kuvulaza chidaliro chomwe inu ndi mnzanu mumagawana, ndipo zimatero nthawi zambiri.
Posachedwa chibwenzi changa chidandiuza kuti akumva kuti sindimamuganizira kwambiri ndipo ndakhala wotopetsa pochita izi. Sakulakwitsa - ndimagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga yambiri modzikonda ndipo ndimakhala ndi chizolowezi chotanganidwa ndipo nthawi yathu yocheza imakhala yopanda tanthauzo. Tangoganizirani momwe zingakhalire zovuta ngati titakwatirana ndikugawana mavuto athu azachuma. Kumva ngati wina samakuganizirani kwambiri ndikukuyikani pachiwopsezo chotaya kukhazikika kwanu? Komanso kuletsa ufulu wanu komanso zosangalatsa? Umenewo si mtundu wa ubale womwe wamangidwa pakukhulupirirana - ndiwo ubale womwe chidaliro chimasweka.
Ndimawona kuti ndikofunikira kuti nthawi zonse ndizigwira ntchito moona mtima ndikuwonekera poyera pachibwenzi kuti kudalirana konse kuzikhala kolimba. Ndi mnzanu, mwapanga kale moyo wanu wonse pamodzi. Koma ngati simukuchita zowona mtima kapena simuganizira za ndalama zomwe muli nawo, kusakhulupirika kumeneko kuli ndi zotulukapo zenizeni zomwe zimakupezani mwachangu.
Malingana ngati anthu onse omwe ali pachibwenzi amatha kukhala ndi zochita zawo ndikusintha, pali chiyembekezo. Osaganizira kuti chifukwa zinthu izi zikuchitika kuti zikuyenera kukuchitikiranibe. Lankhulanani, khalani owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake, kondanani wina ndi mnzake, ndipo fikani poti mutha kudaliranso wina ndi mnzake! Kunyengerera ndi kudzimana kumatanthauza chilichonse.
Robert Lanterman
Robert Lanterman ndi wolemba wochokera ku Boise, ID. Adawonetsedwa pamawebusayiti opitilira 50 okhudzana ndi bizinesi, nyimbo, ndi mitu yambiri yosiyanasiyana. Mutha kumufikira pa Twitter !.