Zamkati
- 1. Amafuna kulumikizana nthawi zonse
- 2. Akufuna zambiri
- 3. Amatembenuza ofufuza nthawi ndi nthawi
- 4. Ali ndi lamulo la 'osakhala atsikana mozungulira'
- 5. Kuchepetsa nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu
- 6. Nthawi zonse amayembekezera yankho lachangu
- 7. Amachita PDA mopitirira muyeso
- 8. Amachita masewera a digito
- 9. Amawoloka malire aumwini
- 10. Imafuna kuwongolera kwathunthu
Nthawi zina chikondi chimalemekezedwa m'mafilimu.
Zonse zomwe amawonetsa ndi gawo limodzi chabe la ubale. Amatiuza kuti mitengo iwiri imakopeka ndikukula, chikondi chimachitika. Makamaka, timakhulupirira zomwe timawona m'mafilimu. Timawona kuti izi ndizowona ndikuyamba kukhala m'dziko lamaloto. Komabe, malotowo adasokonekera pomwe zenizeni zidachitika.
Muubwenzi, anthu awiri okhala ndi mikhalidwe komanso zokonda zosiyanasiyana amabwera limodzi. Amapeza kufanana kwina ndipo amapita patsogolo ndi izi. Anthu ena ndiopepuka, ena amatha bwino kulumikizana, ndipo ena amakhala olowerera kapena otukuka. Mutha kuyamba kusintha zina ndi zina, koma kukhala ndi zinthu zambiri mopitirira muyeso ndi mkhalidwe wowopsa ndipo muyenera kulira mabelu.
M'munsimu muli zizindikilo za bwenzi lokhala nalo kuti mutha kuzizindikira mosavuta ndikuwongolera zomwezo munthawi yake.
1. Amafuna kulumikizana nthawi zonse
Tonsefe sitikhala ndi mafoni athu nthawi zonse. Pali nthawi zina pomwe foni yanu imasungidwa kapena mumakhala pamsonkhano wofunikira.
Palibe vuto kuyembekezera kuti bwenzi lanu limvetse momwe zinthu zilili ndikukhala moyenera. Komabe, pali ena omwe amakwiya pamene mafoni awo samayankhidwa kapena amapita ku voicemail. Amayamba kukhulupirira kuti mukusiya chidwi chawo kapena muli ndi munthu wina. Ngati izi zimachitika pafupipafupi, ndiye kuti mukuchita ndi bwenzi lanu.
2. Akufuna zambiri
Sizachilendo kudumpha zina zosafunikira mukamafotokozera tsiku lanu kwa bwenzi lanu. Simukufuna kuyankha pa mphindi iliyonse yamasiku anu. Msungwana wanu wokhala naye, komabe, angayembekezere kuti mugawane zonse zomwe mudachita tsiku lanu. Zomwe mudadya, omwe mudakumana nawo, zomwe mudalankhula, komwe mudapita, zonse.
Sangakonde kuti mudumphe chilichonse.
3. Amatembenuza ofufuza nthawi ndi nthawi
Ntchito ya ofufuza ndi kupeza wolakwayo.
Amawerenga zikwangwani ndikuyang'ana umboni wa zolakwazo ndi cholinga choti apatse zigawenga m'ndende. Ngati bwenzi lanu ndi Sherlock pa inu ndipo akukuzondani kapena kukuchitani ngati wachifwamba, muli ndi chibwenzi chambiri. Amatha kununkhiza mabodza ndipo nthawi zonse amakhulupirira kuti simukunena zowona kwa iwo. Izi pamapeto pake zidzatsogolera ubale wanu munjira yolakwika. Ndi bwino kufunafuna yankho munthawi yake zinthu zisanathe.
4. Ali ndi lamulo la 'osakhala atsikana mozungulira'
Palibe vuto kukhala ndi bwenzi komanso abwenzi abwino amnzanu. Ngakhale mutakhala muofesi, muyenera kucheza ndi amuna kapena akazi. Simulamulirako ndipo ndizovomerezeka. Osati pamaso pa bwenzi lanu lomwe muli nalo.
Kwa iwo, simukuyenera kulankhula ndi atsikana ena, ngakhale mutakhala akatswiri. Adzayang'anitsitsa nthawi zonse ndipo azikayikira nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, pafupi ndi bwenzi lanu lopondereza kwambiri, tsanzirani anzanu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzanu.
5. Kuchepetsa nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu
Chimodzi mwa mikhalidwe yotchuka ya bwenzi lokhala nalo ndikuti amafuna kuti muzicheza nawo momwe mungathere.
Akapatsidwa chisankho, sangakulolere kuchita china chilichonse koma kungokhala nawo. Amayamba kukuchepetserani nthawi yakuchezera ndipo nkhaniyi imatha kufikira nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu. Amakuletsani kukumana ndi makolo anu kapena abale anu kapena kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabanja.
6. Nthawi zonse amayembekezera yankho lachangu
Tonse takumana ndi munthu m'mafilimu momwe msungwanayo akulemba mwachangu kwambiri ndipo akuyembekeza kuti bwenzi lake liyankha nthawi yomweyo. Ngati sangachite izi, malembo ake samayima ndipo amatembenuka mwachangu kukambirana kuti awopseze ngakhale mpaka 'kulekanitsa' malemba. Ndizowopsa chifukwa mungafunike nthawi kuti muwerenge, mumvetsetse komanso kuyankha.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zakubwenzi zomwe siziyenera kuphonya.
7. Amachita PDA mopitirira muyeso
PDA ndiyabwino, pokhapokha ngati itachitika. Monga akunenera, kuchulukitsitsa kwa chilichonse ndi koyipa, momwemonso PDA. Msungwana wanu yemwe akukondani amakukakamizani kuti mumugwire dzanja ndikuwonetsa manja achikondi pagulu, ngakhale simukuchita bwino kapena manyazi. Amasangalala ndi izi.
8. Amachita masewera a digito
Kuyenda mthupi kumakhala koletsa chifukwa choti nonse muli ndi malo osiyanasiyana ogwira ntchito komanso m'malo osiyanasiyana mumzinda. Komabe, kutsata kwa digito nthawi zonse kumatheka.
Msungwana wanu yemwe mukukhala naye adzakukakamizani kuti mugawire achinsinsi anu pazama media. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti azikayang'ana pafupipafupi papulatifomu iliyonse, osasaka komwe muli komanso ndi ndani, ndipo azikufunsani patsamba lililonse lomwe mumagawana. Nkhani yanu ya Instagram itha kukhala yodzaza ndi zithunzi zake.
9. Amawoloka malire aumwini
Ndi chikhalidwe chofala cha bwenzi lokhala nalo lokha kudutsa malire ake ndikupanga mawonekedwe ngati akukumbutsidwa. Amayiwala kuti mumafuna nthawi yanu ya 'ine' ndi nthawi yanokha ndi okondedwa anu kapena anzanu. Chiyembekezo chawo chokhala ndi inu nthawi zonse kudzabweretsa mavuto osamvetsetseka.
10. Imafuna kuwongolera kwathunthu
Pakadali pano muyenera kuti mwamvetsetsa kuti bwenzi lomwe muli nalo likufuna kuwongolera moyo wanu wonse. Zomwe akufuna kuti muchite ndikumvera malamulo awo, kuwalemekeza, ndikuyankha mafunso awo onse. Sazengereza kupita pazinthu zowopsa kuti akuwonetseni kuti ali nazo.
Ndiye muyenera kuchita chiyani mukawona kuti bwenzi lanu lili ndi zonsezi kapena zambiri mwa izi? Chinthu chabwino kwambiri choti muchite ndikuti musakhale chete pazomwe amachita. Lankhulani naye modekha ndikukhazikitsa malire. Muuzeni kuti machitidwe ake ena samayamikiridwa ndipo zimakupangitsani kumva kuti simukondedwa. Yesetsani kudziwa chifukwa chake akuwona kuti ndi zoyenera kukhala nanu komanso chifukwa chake chosowacho chilipo kuti nonse mugwire ntchitoyo. Onani momwe amachitira ndi izi. Zikatero, amangozembera ndipo sagwirizana ngakhale mutayesetsa chotani, mutha kuyesa kutuluka muubwenzi chifukwa chikondi sichigwira ntchito koma ngati mumamuwona akuyesetsa, pitirizani kutero.