Zamkati
- Kodi kutsamwitsa kugonana kapena kukhumudwa ndi zolaula ndi chiyani?
- Kodi okondedwa amakonda kutsamwa bwanji?
- Sungani mchitidwewu mosamala
- Samalani
Moyo sunali wovuta kwambiri pomwe 'zogonana' zimangokhala 'zopanga zachikondi.' Koma, zinthu zidayamba kusokonekera pomwe tidakula.
Tsopano, kuchuluka kwathunthu kwa matchulidwe ndi zilembo zimatisiyira ife chidwi ndi kutipangitsa ife kudabwa. Kusakanikirana komwe kukukulira sikungolowetsa zovala zathu komanso kwadutsa mwakachetechete pakati pa mapepala athu.
Amuna ndi akazi amawonetsa luso lawo pakama ndikubweretsa ziboda zawo m'zipinda zawo.
Chimodzi mwazikhumbokhumbazo mchipinda chogona chimakokomeza wokondedwa wawo panthawi yogonana. Ngati iyi ndi chikho chanu cha tiyi ndipo mukusamala, mchitidwewu umatha kutenga munthu atatsala pang'ono kusangalala.
Kugonana ndi luso, ndipo muyenera maluso oti mumutenge mnzanuyo kupita pachisangalalo chosangalatsa. Ndipo monga maluso onse ophunziridwa, munthu amafunika kuyeserera zolimba kuti azichita bwino pabedi. Kupatula apo, "kuchita sikumapangitsa kukhala wangwiro. Kuchita mwangwiro kokha kumapangitsa kukhala koyenera. ”
Masamba olaula amadzaza ndi makanema pa BDSM, MILFs, Kugonana kwa achinyamata, Stepmom, ndi maubale a Incest. Ngakhale 'kugonana kotsamwitsa' sikunagawidwe mwapadera, mchitidwe wogonana wamtunduwu ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofala kwambiri m'magulu omwe atchulidwa.
Mutha kudabwitsika ndikuti masamba azolaula awa amakoka magalimoto azambiri zanema.
Anthu ena amadabwa kuti kutsamwa munthu kumatha bwanji kupatsa wina chisangalalo?
Kuti tipeze yankho, tiyeni tikumbe mozama nkhaniyi.
Kodi kutsamwitsa kugonana kapena kukhumudwa ndi zolaula ndi chiyani?
Wikipedia limatanthawuza kugonana kotsamwitsa ngati 'kukhumudwa kwa chidwi (kutchedwa asphyxiophilia, hypoxyphilia kapena kupewera kupumira),' chomwe 'ndicho choletsa mwadala mpweya kuubongo pazolinga zodzutsa chilakolako chogonana.'
Zachidziwikire, pali tanthauzo lakuchulukirachulukira pakati pa anthu omwe amasangalala ndi makanema ndi machitidwe ngati 'kukakamiza kugonana,' 'ukapolo ndi kuzunza,' ndi zina zambiri.
Khalidwe la sadomasochist mwa anthu nthawi zambiri limasokoneza ambiri. Anthu ayesa kufotokoza pazifukwa zomwe amasankhazi. Mwachitsanzo -
Dr. Gail Dines, wotsutsa zolaula, komanso pulofesa ku Wheelock College ku Boston, posachedwa adalemba kuti kutsamwa kwa akazi ndi mkwiyo wonse. Amadziwika kuti ndi osangalatsa, osangalatsa.
Mofananamo, mawu a Ian Kerner omwe adasindikizidwa mu Women's Health Magazine akuwonetsanso zamaganizidwe achilendo amunthu omwe amabala zikhalidwe zoterezi.
"Kupuma mofulumira kumene kumabwera pambuyo poti kutsamwitsidwa kumatulutsa ma endorphin, omwe amaphatikizana ndi malo ogulitsa anzawo ogonana kuti apange chisangalalo chachikulu."
Dr. Ian Kerner ndi mlangizi wa zakugonana, psychotherapist, komanso wolemba buku la 'She comes first.'
Kodi okondedwa amakonda kutsamwa bwanji?
Mawu a Dr. Christine Milrod omwe adalembedwa mu 'The American Conservative' akuyankha funso ili pamwambapa.
Kukhala ndi manja amunthu m'khosi mwako, kumasewera mukuganiza kuti ungatengedwe, womwe umadziwikanso kuti kuphwanya.
Dr. Christine Milrod ndi wovomerezeka pa Chikwati ndi Banja Therapist ku California.
Sungani mchitidwewu mosamala
Chiwerengero chachikulu cha imfa chifukwa chobanika ku United States chinali 5,051 mu 2015.
Kuchita zipsinjo kapena kukakamira kugonana ndi imodzi mwazoopsa kwambiri zodzichititsa. Kudula kapena kuchepetsa kupezeka kwa mpweya kuubongo kumapangitsa kuti wolakwayo asinthe chizolowezi chake. Wovutitsidwayo amatha kufa chifukwa chobanidwa kwambiri kapena kulephera kuthetsa njira zosangalatsa.
Samalani
Komabe, Dr. Debra Laino, wochita zachiwerewere / ubale, ananena izi “Nthawi zambiri, timachita zachiwerewere chifukwa timadziwa kuti zimasokonekera. Mfundo imeneyi ingatithandizenso kudziwa kuti (matupi athu) akupereka chisangalalo. ”
Akupitilizabe kunena kuti "kuwongolera kuchotsa moyo wa wina (munthu) ndikuwabwezeretsa ndikusangalatsa ena. Kwa ena, ndikuzama kwakapangidwe kapangidwe kake, komwe kumaphatikizapo kudalira kosiyanasiyana komanso kukondana.”
Kumbali ina, Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones akuchenjeza owerenga kuti 'kukakamira kugonana' kumatha kupha ngati sichikuchitidwa mosamala.
Amanena choncho “Izi zitha kukhala zosangalatsa zowopsa. Musamwe mowa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo mukamachita nawo seweroli. ”
Kumbukirani, kutsamwitsa kugonana kumatha kukhala kovuta kwambiri, komanso monganso zizolowezi zonse. Itha kusiya munthu ndikulakalaka zosowa zochulukirapo kuwakhutitsa.
Chifukwa chake nthawi ina, ngati inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mudzasangalala kuchita izi pankhani yakugonana, samalani, ndipo samalani kuti chisokonezo chanu ndi chisangalalo zisasokoneze malingaliro anu.
Chabwino, ndikwanira kuti! Monga achikulire ovomereza, mudzadziwa zomwe zimakupindulitsani.