Zamkati
- Kodi upangiri wa m'Baibulo asanakwatirane ndi uti?
- Maziko a ukwati
- Lingaliro Labaibulo paukwati
- Kukonzekera ukwati
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu muli ndi chikhulupiriro mu Chikhristu, lingakhale lingaliro labwino kulingalira za uphungu waukwati musanalowe m'banja.
Ngati ukwati wanu watsala pang'ono kutha, muyenera kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndikukonzekera ukwati mphindi zomaliza. Komabe, uphungu wachikhristu musanakwatirane udzakuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse tanthauzo la banja komanso zomwe zimafunikanso.
Ndi uphungu wamuukwati musanakwatirane, simunganene zowinda poyimirira paguwa lansembe, koma mudzazikwaniritsa kuchokera pansi pamtima. Komanso, sizongokhudza miyambo yaukwati yokha.
Ukwati umaposa tsiku laukwati. Ukwati usintha moyo womwe mudakhala nawo mpaka pano ndikufotokozera zomwe zatsala pamoyo wanu.
Kufunika kwa uphungu asanakwatirane sikungafanane. Kupatula apo, ndi njira yake yothetsera zovuta za chochitika chosintha moyo chotchedwa ukwati!
Kodi upangiri wa m'Baibulo asanakwatirane ndi uti?
Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kulandira uphungu wachikhristu asanakwatirane nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa zomwe uphungu usanalowe m'banja, komanso zomwe angayembekezere popereka uphungu asanakwatirane.
Afuna kudziwa za njirayi kuti athe kusankha ngati angapindule kapena ayi.
Kulimbitsa chikhulupiriro ndi upangiri kumathandiza kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito zomwe Baibuloli limaphunzitsa poyesa kuyanjana ndikukonzekeretsa onse awiri kudzipereka komwe kudzachitike mtsogolo. Koma, njira zoperekera upangiri waukwati usanakwatirane zimatha kusiyanasiyana pamatchalitchi.
Mwachitsanzo, kutchalitchi chaching'ono, zinthu zimatha kukhala zowongoka. Mutha kufikira abusa molunjika. Ndipo abusa atha kuyamba kuyankha mafunso anu asanakwatirane nthawi yomweyo.
Mukakhala kutchalitchi chokulirapo, mungafunikire kusonkhana ndi mabanja ena ambiri onga inu ndikupanga upangiri waluso ndi maphunziro.
Kudzera mmagawo angapo, mlangizi (m'busa wodziwa zambiri) amafunsa mafunso angapo, amayamba zokambirana zofunikira, ndikugwiritsa ntchito baibulo ngati chitsogozo pofotokoza mitu yofunikira, kuphatikiza zoyambira zaukwati ndi zina zofunika pakukonzekera ukwati.
Pamapeto pa upangiri, maanja amapatsidwa mwayi woyankha mafunso omwe sanayankhidwe asanakwatirane ndikuwunikanso magawo apitawa.
Ena mwa mitu ya upangiri usanakwatirane imakambidwa mozama m'magawo otsatirawa.
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
Maziko a ukwati
Upangiri wa m'Baibulo asanakwatirane umayamba powunika omwe ali pachibwenzi kuti athandize upangiri pazofunikira zawo. Zofunikirazo zikawunikidwa, awiriwo ndi mbusa apanga zomwe akambirana mbanja.
Chifukwa chake, zimakambidwa chiyani pakalangizidwa asanalowe m'banja?
Mutu wachikondi ufotokozedwanso komanso momwe onse awiri amafotokozera chikondi, kugonana, komanso kukhazikika kwa banja.
Sizachilendo kuti anthu okwatirana aziganiza zogonana asanakwatirane. Chifukwa chake, kugonana musanakwatirane ndi ziyeso zina zotere zimakambidwanso nthawi yolangiza asanalowe m'banja.
Kutsindika kwakukulu kumayikidwanso pakukhulupirirana, kukhalabe ndi chidaliro, ulemu, kumvetsetsa, komanso, gawo lomwe chikhulupiriro chimachita potsogolera ndikuthandizira banja pazaka zambiri.
Lingaliro Labaibulo paukwati
Omwe akukonzekera kuyenda pamsewu nthawi zambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angakhalire okwatirana abwino. Choyamba, magawo onse awiri agawana zomwe kukhala okwatirana oopa Mulungu kumatanthauza kwa iwo pomwe enawo akumvetsera.
Izi zikachitika, abusa amawalangiza onse pamutuwu mothandizidwa ndi mavesi ofanana a mu baibulo. Kuwerenga baibulo ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la upangiri wabanja asanakwatirane.
Nthawi yambiri idzagwiritsidwa ntchito pophunzira malembo mokwanira kuti timvetsetse momwe malingaliro amu Baibulo alili okhudzana ndi banja.
Mwachitsanzo, maanja amaphunzira "zofunikira zaukwati" zoperekedwa mu Genesis 2: 18-24. Komanso, maanja atha kuwona zomwe Aefeso 5: 21-31 komanso nkhani ya mu Genesis imatanthauza pofotokoza kuti awiriwa "adzakhala thupi limodzi".
Kukonzekera ukwati
Anthu amene ali pa chibwenzi amakhala ndi chizolowezi choganizira kwambiri za tsiku laukwati kuposa banja.
Zambiri zimayenera kukambidwa kupatula kusankha diresi laukwati, kusankha zonunkhira za keke yaukwati, kapena kulingalira zokonda zaukwati.
Ukwati umafuna kudzipereka kwa moyo wonse kwa mnzanu. Ngakhale muli pabanja, padzakhala nthawi zosangalala komanso zovuta. Ndipo, kuti athane ndi zovuta nthawi yovuta, muyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale.
Muyenera kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni kuchokera kwa mnzanu, ndikuzilandira ndi zabwino zawo ndi zoyipa zawo.
Komanso, monga munthu aliyense wabwinobwino, onse awiri kapena awiri akhoza kuperewera. Muyenera kukhulupirira muulemerero wa Mulungu kuti muthe kukhululuka mnzanu ndi kumanga banja lolimba.
Kukonzekera maukwati kumapereka mpata kwa okwatirana kuti akambirane zamtsogolo ndi zomwe zidalipo kale zokhudzana ndi chilichonse kuyambira pazachuma kupita njira zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kuthana ndi mavuto amtsogolo ndi mikangano.
Kutengera ndi malangizo omwe abusa anu amapereka, mutha kupemphedwa kuti mukonzekere dongosolo lazachuma limodzi ndi wokondedwa wanu omwe akuphatikizapo bajeti limodzi ndi magawo ena omwe amagwirizana ndi misonkhano.
Komanso Penyani:
Kukulunga
Iyi ndi mitu yomwe ikambirane mwatsatanetsatane pogwiritsa ntchito malembo a m'Baibulo popereka uphungu asanakwatirane.
Uphungu wamuukwati usanakwatirane umathandizira kuzindikira zomwe amalimba ndi zofooka za aliyense asanakwatirane ndikuwathandiza kukhala ndi malingaliro oyenera m'banja lachimwemwe ndi labwino.
Mfundo za m'Baibulo ndizofunikira pamoyo wa Mkhristu aliyense. Kuwerenga malembo mwatsatanetsatane kumathandiza maanja kulota za banja lawo, kulimbitsa chikhulupiriro chawo, ndikukumana ndi zopinga zilizonse zokhala ndi chikhulupiriro chosagwedezeka mwa Mulungu.