Zamkati
- 1. Muzicheza nawo nthawi zonse
- 2. Pitani mdima
- 3. Mauthenga ofanana ndi choko
- 4. Ayamikireni pagulu
- 5. Tsukani mapazi ake
"Chikondi chilichonse chachikulu chimayamba ndi nkhani yabwino."
Nicholas Sparks, mlembi wa buku logulitsa zogulitsa kwambiri Bukuli anali nazo pomwe ananena izi. Zachikondi zonse zimayamba ndi nkhani yapadera komanso yapadera. Zina ndizoseketsa, zina ndizodabwitsa, ndipo zina ndi zamatsenga. Ngati mungaganizire koyambirira kwa chibwenzi chanu mupeza nkhani yomwe idakupangitsani kuti muzimva okondedwa, apadera komanso osangalala ndi zamtsogolo.
Tsoka ilo, pazaka zambiri okwatirana ambiri amaiwala nkhani yawo. Amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndi zovuta ndi zovuta zammoyo sangathe kukumbukira zomwe zidawasonkhanitsa poyamba. Chiyanjano chimasunthira kumbuyo komwe kumawotchera kumbuyo ndipo mphwayi imayamba pomwe akupita m'njira zomwe zingapangitse mtunda womwe sangakwanitse kuthana nawo.
Kukondana - kamodzi mwala wapangodya waubwenzi - sikupezeka.
Koma siziyenera kukhala choncho. Kaya mwakwatirana zaka zitatu kapena 30 mutha kupitiliza kukondana mbanja lanu. Zimatengera kudzipereka komanso khama koma ndizotheka.
Nazi njira zisanu zapaderadera zopititsira patsogolo chibwenzi chanu.
1. Muzicheza nawo nthawi zonse
Chimodzi mwazinthu zachikondi kwambiri zomwe mungachite ndikuwonetsa kwa mnzanu kuti ndiopambana. Palibe china chapadera kuposa kudziwa kuti ngakhale ndinu osiyana mnzanuyo akusowani. Apa ndipomwe "kulumikizana kosalekeza" kumachitika. Mlungu uliwonse konzekerani kufikira mnzanu mukakhala kuti simuli pabanja ndikuwadziwitsani kuti akufuna. Izi zitha kuchitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana kuphatikiza: mameseji; maimelo achidule; kapena kuyimba foni. Siyani mphatso zing'onozing'ono, notsi kapena makadi kumbuyo kuti mupezeke, kapena kuziyika m'thumba lanu, chikwama kapena galimoto. Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungapangire kuti mukuyenera kupanga zaluso. Konzani malumikizidwe anu pogwiritsa ntchito kalendala yamagetsi kotero imakupatsirani chidziwitso kuti ndi nthawi yoti muchitepo kanthu ndikufikira. Izi zimafuna khama pambali yanu koma muyenera kuchita bwino.
2. Pitani mdima
Usiku umodzi zitsani chilichonse kuphatikiza magetsi, mafoni, TV, makompyuta ndi Go Mdima. Pogwiritsa ntchito kuwala kounikira makandulo, khalani ndi nthawi yogawana nawo momwe mukumvera ndikuseka limodzi. Slip vinyo, khalani pafupi ndikugawana zabwino, nthawi yayitali limodzi.
3. Mauthenga ofanana ndi choko
Kugwiritsa ntchito choko chamagalasi kuti mulembe uthenga wokongola, wachidule wotsimikizira ndizodabwitsa kuti wina adziwe kuti mumamukonda. China chophweka monga "Sindingadikire kuti ndidzakuwoneni usikuuno" kulonjera mnzanu m'mawa akamayang'ana pagalasi la bafa ndichinthu chomwe chikhala nawo tsiku lonse.
4. Ayamikireni pagulu
Mawu okoma mtima kwa mnzanu amatha kupita kutali, makamaka akagawidwa pakati pa anthu ena. Osazengereza kuuza dziko lapansi kuti mumakhulupirira kuti mnzanu ndiwopadera kapena wapadera. Gawani mawu olimbikitsa pakati pa abale anu, abwenzi, oyandikana nawo ndi ena kuti muwonetse chikondi chanu ndi kudzipereka kwanu.
5. Tsukani mapazi ake
Izi ndi za anyamata. Pali zochitika zokongola kuchokera mu kanema chipinda chankhondo, pomwe mwamunayo amatenga poto lamadzi ofunda ndikusisita bwinobwino ndikusambitsa mapazi a mkazi wake. Ngati simunachite izi musanakhale chokumana nacho chodzichepetsa kwambiri chomwe chingakugwetseni misozi, ndikupangitsani nonse awiri kumvana kwambiri kuposa kale.
Yesani maupangiri achikondi awa muukwati wanu ndipo mundiuze kusiyana komwe kwapangitsa pachibwenzi chanu.