Zamkati
- 1. Ubwenzi
- 2. Kulankhulana bwino
- 3. Kudalilika ndi kudalilika
- 4. Kuthandiza
- 5. Mumalimbana, kukhululukirana ndi kuiwalirana zolakwa zanu
Ubale wathanzi ndi gawo lofunikira pakukhala ndi moyo wathanzi komanso wopambana. Ubale umalemeretsa miyoyo yathu ndikuwonjezera kusangalala kwathu pokhala amoyo, koma tonse tikudziwa kuti palibe ubale wabwino.
Kodi ubale wabwino ndi chiyani?
Ubale wabwino ndi ubale womwe umadzaza ndi chisangalalo, chisangalalo, ndipo - koposa zonse - chikondi. Anthu amapangidwa kuti azilankhula ndi anzawo m'njira yabwino komanso yolimbikitsira koma ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. M'malo mwake, nthawi zina, timaloleza anthu olakwika kulowa m'moyo wathu, ndipo ubale wathu ndi iwo siwothandiza, wathanzi, kapena wolimbikitsa ndipo makamaka, siwopanganso.
Pali zina zomwe zimawoneka momwe ubale wabwino umawonekera-
1. Ubwenzi
Mukakhala paubwenzi wabwino, mumamuwona mnzanu ngati mnzanu wapamtima. Mutha kumuuza chilichonse chomwe chikukusowetsani mtendere. Nonse mumakhala ndi malingaliro othetsera mavuto omwe angakhale okhudzana ndi chibwenzi kapena chibwenzi chonse. Othandizana nawo omwe amakhala abwenzi ndikukhala ndiubwenzi wolimba amakhala ndi mphamvu. Amakondana ndipo amakondanadi ngati anzawo apamtima.Amakonda kucheza limodzi, kupita ku picnic, kuonera mafilimu pamodzi komanso amasangalala kuchitira zinthu limodzi.
2. Kulankhulana bwino
Muli pachibwenzi chabwino mukamatha kufotokoza momasuka malingaliro anu ndikupewa kubisa zopweteka kapena mkwiyo. Nthawi zambiri nonse mumakumana ndi mavuto popanda kuwononga nthawi.
Ubale wathanzi uli ndi kulumikizana kwabwino komanso kothandiza. Maubwenzi oyipa amakhala ndi njira zoyankhulirana zoyipa pakati pawo.
Ndichizindikiro kuti muli pachibwenzi chabwino ngati inu ndi mnzanu mumalankhula chilankhulo chimodzi, kuyankhula motengeka mtima, kuyankhula mwakuthupi komanso mwaluntha- izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kufotokozera zosowa zanu, zokhumba zanu, zowawa zanu, ndi zoyembekezera zanu moyenera.
Palibe wokondedwa amene ayenera kukhala wamanyazi, wamanyazi kapena wamantha podzinenera pakufunika kutero.
3. Kudalilika ndi kudalilika
Kukhulupirirana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi, chifukwa, popanda kukhulupirirana, sipangakhale ubale wabwino. Kudalirana ndikofunikira kwambiri pakudziwitsa ngati chibwenzi chili chabwinobwino kapena chosayenera. Muyenera kukhala okhulupilira komanso kudalira wokondedwa wanu, ndipo mnzanuyo akuyeneranso kukukhulupirirani.
Nonse muyenera kupatsana chifukwa chokhulupirirana.
Kudalirika ndiko tanthauzo la ubale wabwino. Anthu omwe ali paubwenzi amafuna kudalirana. Ngati anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi amatha kuchita zomwe anena ndikunena zomwe amachita, zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kudalirana ndi kudalilika podziwa kuti zomwe akunena ndi zochita zawo zikutanthauza china chake kwa mnzakeyo. Maanja omwe amadalirana amatha kupuma modekha kudziwa kuti wokondedwa wawo ali ndi msana wawo.
Chifukwa chake, kuti mumange kukhulupirirana ndi kudalirika muubwenzi, musasunge zinsinsi kwa wina ndi mnzake, musamanamizane wina ndi mnzake ndipo makamaka muzichita zomwe mumanena ndikunena zomwe mumachita zomwe sizimapanga lonjezo lomwe mukudziwa kuti simungakwaniritse.
4. Kuthandiza
Ndichizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti muli pachibwenzi chabwino ngati wokondedwa wanu akuthandiza moyo wanu kunja kwa chibwenzi. Ndikofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi wabwino kuti inu ndi mnzanu muthandizane pa zolinga za wina ndi mnzake pamoyo wanu.
Maubwenzi amatenga ntchito nthawi zonse ndipo amafuna kuti inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mukhale ndi chidwi chogwira ntchito limodzi, kuthandizana kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo, kupanga malingaliro limodzi ndipo koposa zonse kukulira mchikondi limodzi. Wokondedwa wanu akuyenera kukulangizani, kugwira ntchito, kuthandizira ndikuthandizani kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe mukufuna komanso zokhumba zanu pamoyo wanu.
Muubwenzi wabwino, wokondedwa wanu amakulandirani momwe muli. Amavomereza ndikuthandizira moyo wanu, mnzanu, komanso banja lanu ndipo koposa zonse, akuthandizira kwathunthu zolinga zanu
5. Mumalimbana, kukhululukirana ndi kuiwalirana zolakwa zanu
Muubwenzi wathanzi, mikangano, kusagwirizana, ndi ndewu sizithetsa mgwirizano. Chifukwa choti simukugwirizana kapena kukangana ndi wokondedwa wanu sizitanthauza kuti ndi nthawi yoti mupatukane ndikupitilira. M'malo mwake, mkangano ukuwonedwa ngati mwayi wophunzira zambiri za mnzakeyo ndikukula limodzi mchikondi ndi mgwirizano.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti yemwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu, amene mumamukonda komanso amene amakukondani akhoza kukuvulazani chifukwa amakhala pafupi nanu kuposa wina aliyense. Palibe wangwiro kuphatikiza inu. Ngati mukudziwa ndikumvetsetsa izi, muyenera kukhululukirana, zolakwa zawo ndi zosagwirizana. Kukhululuka ndi kuyiwala kumatanthauza kulekerera zolakwa ndi zopweteka; osalankhula mawu onyoza kwa iwo nthawi zonse.