Zamkati
- Nchifukwa chiyani ozunza anzawo amazunza?
- Zomwe zimapulumuka
- Ozunza anzawo samazindikiranso kuti ali osatetezeka
- Kodi ozunza amasankha bwanji omwe amawazunza
Kuzunza anzawo ndi mawu wamba ofotokozedwera onetsani zoopseza, kunyoza, kudzipatula, kuwopseza, kuzunza / kuchita zachiwerewere, kuzunza m'mutu / m'maganizo ndi zina zotero zimaperekedwa kwa wozunzidwayo mkati mwa zomwe zimatchedwa chibwenzi.
Komabe, kukondana kwamtundu uliwonse kumayenera kukhala malo achitonthozo, chikondi, chikondi, chisamaliro, ndi chitetezo.
Anthu okondana ayenera kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake, kukula pamodzi, ndikutha kudalirana. Ndipo ngakhale maubale amakhala ochepa, ngati alipo, angwiro, kuyembekezera zinthu zofunika kwambiri sizochulukirapo.
Komabe, ozunza ambiri komanso omwe amawazunza amakhala moyo wofanana m'njira yotsutsana ndi maziko awa. Ndipo ambiri sazindikira konse izi.
Chifukwa chake chimakhala pazosintha pakati pa omwe achitiridwa nkhanza ndi omwe akuchita nkhanza, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala oyenerana bwino, komabe zotsutsana zomwe zingamveke.
Nchifukwa chiyani ozunza anzawo amazunza?
Nanga ndi ziti zomwe zimayambitsa nkhanza m'mabwenzi apamtima? Kuzunza kulikonse kuyesa kulamulira wovulalayo.
Wozunza aliyense, mofanana ndi wozunzidwa aliyense, amakhala ndi nkhawa yayikulu. Kusatetezeka kwakukulu, kudziona kuti ndi oyenera, kuzunza ana ndi kunyalanyaza, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndikuyembekezera zosatheka ndi zina mwazomwe zimayambitsa nkhanza m'mabanja.
Wovutitsidwayo nthawi zonse amapeza cholakwa ngati chomwe chidapangitsa kuzunzidwa mwakuthupi kapena kwamaganizidwe. Nthawi yonseyi, kusiya wovulalayo akumenyedwa komanso kutayika.
Kuti tiwone malingaliro a omwe amamuzunza ndi amene amamuchitira nkhanza, choyamba tiyenera kuzindikira kuti anthu ambiri amazunzidwa.
Pafupifupi anthu 20 pamphindi amachitiridwa nkhanza ndi wokondedwa wawo, nazi zina zochepa zowunikira pazomwe zimayambitsa kuzunzidwa kuti zikuthandizeni kumvetsetsa zomwe zimabweretsa nkhanza za maubwenzi.
Koma mwayiwo ndi ukonde wazofotokozera komanso kulingalira pamalingaliro okhudzana ndi nkhanza zaubwenzi ndizovuta kwambiri, mwakuti zimakhala zosatheka kuzimasula.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ambiri omwe amazunzidwa amadzifunsa ngati ali pachibwenzi - chinthu chomwe nthawi zambiri chimamveka chopusa kwa owonera akunja.
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Zomwe zimapulumuka
Ndikosavuta kudzudzula wolakwayo chifukwa chazunza maubale.
Nthawi zambiri kumakhala kosavuta kuweruza wozunzidwayo. Wopondereza ndi munthu woyipa yemwe ali ndi zizolowezi zochitira nkhanza yemwe sayenera kumumvera chisoni. Ndipo wozunzidwayo adayenera kukhala wamphamvu komanso wolimbikira ndipo sayenera kulola kuti izi ziwachitikire. Komabe, ngakhale nkhanza sizingavomerezedwe, nkhaniyi ndiyovuta kwambiri pamaganizidwe.
Wopondereza, makamaka ngati kuzunzidwako kuli kwakumalingaliro, nthawi zambiri samawona zomwe akuchita ngati nkhanza konse.
Zikutheka bwanji? Atafunsidwa kuti afotokozere zamakhalidwe awo, ambiri mwa omwe amachitira nkhanza maubwenzi amamva mwamphamvu kuti amangowongolera anzawo, Kuyesera kuwapangitsa kuchita zabwino - chilichonse chomwe angaganize kuti ndichabwino.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati akuganiza kuti wokondedwa wawo amawabera, nkhanza zomwe zidachitika zidabwera ngati njira yopangira kuti "wonyenga" akhale ndi ulemu komanso ulemu.
Ngati adagwira ntchito molimbika kupatula wovutitsidwayo kwa abwenzi ndi abale kuti athe kuwongolera mosavuta, nthawi zambiri amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti adachita izi chifukwa cha "zoyipa zoyipa" zomwe zimabwera kuchokera kumbali ya anthu amenewo.
Ozunza anzawo samazindikiranso kuti ali osatetezeka
Kupanda kudzidalira komwe amamva kumakhala kovuta, monga ovuta ambiri samadziwa momwe angamverere mosiyana ndi mkwiyo.
Ngati wokondedwa wawo akuwoneka kuti ali kutali, ngakhale zomwe wowachitirayo amachita ndi mantha komanso kuwawidwa mtima, malingaliro awo amakhala olimba kotero kuti sawalola kuti azimva choncho.
Kukumana ndi nkhawa komanso kutaya mtima poyang'ana kuti tisiyidwa ndi amene timamukonda ndizovuta kuposa kungokwiya ndikuchita nawo mkwiyo.
Chifukwa chake, malingaliro awankhanza amawateteza ku zovuta zingapo ndikuwapatsa njira ina yotetezeka - ukali.
Kuzindikira kuti kuchitiridwa nkhanza m'banja nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta. Onerani kanemayu polimbana ndi omwe amakuzunzani chifukwa chakuzunza.
Kodi ozunza amasankha bwanji omwe amawazunza
Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiriro chofala komanso chodziwikiratu chakuti ozunza anzawo amadyera ofooka, osalimba ndi osatetezeka, ozunza anzawo nthawi zambiri amakopeka ndi anthu omwe amaoneka ngati olimba komanso ochita bwino omwe amamvera ena chisoni komanso amawamvera chisoni. Ndi pokha pokha pakulumikizana kukulira kuti athe kuthetsa mphamvu ndi kudzidalira kwa chandamale ndi nkhanza zawo.
Yemwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zaubwenzi nthawi zambiri samadziwa momwe zinthu zimakhalira.
Nthawi zambiri kunja kwawo amakhala olimba mtima nthawi zambiri amachokera m'mabanja omwe adaphunzitsidwa kuti ndi osakwanira, osakondedwa komanso osayenera.
Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri amakhala moyo wawo mosakonzekera kufunafuna anthu ndi zochitika zomwe zingawatsimikizire izi. Ndipo akangokumana ndi owazunza, masewera amayamba, ndipo palibe amene ali ndi mwayi wopewa kuthawa popanda wakunja, makamaka katswiri, wothandizira.
Wovutikayo amapwetekedwa nthawi zonse, akumamva mowirikiza monga iwonso kumira m'nyanja ya liwongo, kudziimba mlandu, kudzida, komanso chisoni. Koma alibe mphamvu yoti athetse (osatinso, miyezi kapena zaka zakumvera nkhani zonyoza izi). Ndicho chimene chimapangitsa kuti banja likhale lozunza komanso loipa.
Kuzunza ndi njira yovulaza yamalingaliro yomwe imatha kuwononga miyoyo yambiri. Kuzunzidwa kwamaganizidwe kapena nkhanza zapabanja ndi njira yophunzirira. Ozunza akula akuwona m'mabanja mwawo, mozungulira anzawo kapena poyanjana.
Ndipo maubale akuyenera kukhala malo omwe izi sizingachitike. Koma zimatero. Kuzunzidwa kwa ubale kumachitika m'njira yodziwika. Pomwe wozunzidwayo azindikira kuti akukhala pachibwenzi ndipo ayamba kuganiza zosiya wozunza, nkhanza zomwe zimachitika mwankhanza zimatha kanthawi. Nthawi zambiri amayesa kupereka zifukwa zochitira nkhanza zomwe zidzawonekere mosiyana ndi wokondedwa wawo.
Wopondereza amakhala munthu wokoma mtima komanso wachikondi yemwe wovutitsidwayo adayamba kumukonda.
Zachikondi zonse zakale zabwerera, ndipo nthawi yaukwati imayambiranso.
Komabe, wovutitsidwayo atangoyamba kuganiza kuti sanasankhe bwino ndikusiya kuwayang'anira, wozunzidwayo adzayambiranso ulamuliro ndipo nkhanza zonsezo zimadzilankhulanso mpaka m'modzi mwa awiriwa atasiya. Ndipo izi zimafuna kulimba mtima, chikhulupiriro, ndipo makamaka - thandizo.
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