Zamkati
- Zokangana nthawi zonse zimayambitsa mikangano m'banja
- Kusakhulupirika kumayambitsa kusakhulupirirana
- Udindo wokhala naye chipinda chimafanana ndi vuto laukwati
- Kuganizira zopatukana
- Chikondi ndi kugonana sizimaperekedwa ngati chilango
- Mumakhala ngati magulu omenyana
- Kusungirana chinsinsi
Patsiku laukwati, mwadzipereka kwa mnzanu kuti mudzakhalepo nthawi yabwino komanso yoyipa - sichoncho? Mawu monga chithandizo chokwatirana kapena upangiri wa m'banja samadutsa m'maganizo mwanu nthawi imeneyo!
Tilibe vuto kutsatira zabwino, koma zoyipa zikakwera, malumbiro aukwati amayesedwa. Upangiri wa maukwati nthawi zambiri anthu ena amauwona ngati wopanda pake, koma thandizo lakunja lochokera kwa munthu wina wodziyimira pawokha komanso wopanda tsankho lingathandize kwambiri maanja pamavuto awo am'banja.
Ngati mukupeza kuti mukufunsa, "kodi tikusowa chithandizo cha maanja", "ndi liti nthawi yoti upeze upangiri waukwati?", Nazi mfundo zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kudziwa ngati mukufuna uphungu pamavuto am'banja.
Zizindikiro zowala mumafunika upangiri waukwati
Zokangana nthawi zonse zimayambitsa mikangano m'banja
Anthu awiri akaphatikizana muukwati, pamakhala kusiyana kwa malingaliro, malingaliro, ndi njira zochitira zinthu. Kulankhulana bwino kumatha kusiyanitsa pakati pa zokangana ndi zokambirana zomveka.
Ndi kulumikizana koyenera, chipani chilichonse chimatha kufotokozera mfundo zawo ndipo onse maphwando atha kukhala pachivomerezo.
Kukangana pakati pa okwatirana kumabweretsa kuyesayesa "kupambana" ndi malingaliro awo wina ndi mnzake zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azimva kupezereredwa komanso kudziteteza. Izi zimapangitsa kuti malowa akhale osasangalatsa ndipo akapitilira mosasinthasintha, upangiri wa maukwati uyenera kuganiziridwa mwachangu.
Kusakhulupirika kumayambitsa kusakhulupirirana
Malumbiro aukwati amatengera lonjezo lodzipereka ndikudzipereka. Ngati m'modzi kapena onse awiri muukwati aphwanya lonjezo ili, zitha kubweretsa kusamvana kwakukulu m'banjamo.
Kusakhulupirika kumalola kukhumudwa, kukanidwa komanso mkwiyo. Zimakhala zovuta kuti wochita chiwerewere amvetsetse kapena kupereka chithandizo chofunikira kwa wozunzidwayo kuthana ndi malingaliro awa ndikuphunzira kudaliranso malumbiro aukwati.
M'malo moyesetsa kuti muchitepo kanthu, ndi nthawi yoti mupemphe thandizo la mlangizi wa mabanja yemwe angabwezeretse chisangalalo muukwati wanu mothandizidwa ndi upangiri wa maanja.
Udindo wokhala naye chipinda chimafanana ndi vuto laukwati
Kusamvana kwa nthawi yayitali komanso kusathetsedwa kapena kupsinjika kumatha kubweretsa banja lomwe limakhala limodzi. Dzikoli likhoza kupitilira kwakanthawi ndipo makamaka komwe ana akukhudzidwa; moyo uwu ndi njira yosavuta yokhazikika popanda kutsutsana.
Koma izi zikuyimira kuphulika kwakachetechete kokonzekera kuphulika. Upangiri kwa maanja ingakhale njira yokhayo yopulumutsira banja lomwe lasokonekera ndi izi. Chithandizo cha maubwenzi otere chitha kukhala chida champhamvu choukitsira banja losangalala ndikubwezeretsanso kukwaniritsidwa ndi kudalira ubale wosweka.
Isanafike nthawi imeneyo, ndi nthawi yoti mupemphe thandizo kwa mlangizi wamaukwati yemwe adzagwiritse ntchito zida zoyenera za upangiri waukwati kuyesa kuyambiranso chikondi, chikondi, ndi chisangalalo cha banja lanu.
Izi zimayankhanso funso, nthawi yoti upeze upangiri waukwati.
Kuganizira zopatukana
Pambuyo pa nthawi yayitali ya mikangano ndi mikangano, banja lingasankhe kupatukana. Koma pali chiyembekezo nthawi zonse kuti kulekana kumalimbikitsa ndikubwezeretsanso chikondi - kusowa kumapangitsa mtima kukulirakulira!
Komabe, kupatukana kungayambitsenso kusudzulana.
Chifukwa chake, upeza liti upangiri waukwati? Kumene anthu akuganizira zopatukana, awiriwo ayenera kulingalira mozama za kupita kukaonana ndi anthu okwatirana kukafunafuna chithandizo cha mabanja kapena upangiri waukwati.
Ngati mukupeza kuti mukufunsa, "Ndikufuna wina woti ndiyankhule naye zaubwenzi wanga" ndipo mukuyang'ana thandizo la momwe mungapezere mlangizi wazokwatirana kungakhale kothandiza kuwona omwe angakuthandizeni kwambiri paukwati pano.
Chikondi ndi kugonana sizimaperekedwa ngati chilango
Wina mwa mnzake atagundana ndi mnzakeyo ndikuganiza zomulanga mnzakeyo pomuletsa kugonana kapena chikondi, banja limatha.
Kusoweka kolinganizika konse muzochitika zaubwenzi zikaletsa izi. Pofuna kupezanso chikondi cha wokondedwa wawo, kupambana kulimbana mwamphamvu, kapena kuwalimbikitsa kuti azichita momwe angafunire, mnzake amatha kumazunza mnzake m'maganizo.
Mnzanu akamalandira chizolowezi chankhanza chonchi amadzimva wamanyazi, kunyengedwa, kapena kunyozedwa nthawi zina.
Ngati chibwenzi chanu chafika poti wina wa inu akugwiritsa ntchito kugonana kapena kukondana ngati chida kuti apeze zomwe akufuna, yankho la funso loti, "nthawi yokaonana ndi mlangizi wa maukwati" ndi - mwachangu.
Mumakhala ngati magulu omenyana
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti inu ndi mnzanu muli gulu limodzi.
Funso, "ndi liti pamene mukufuna uphungu waukwati" lilibe yankho lililonse. Koma, ngati ngati banja mukumva kuti mwang'ambika ndipo nthawi zonse mumakhala mbali zosiyana, ndi nthawi yoti mupeze chithandizo mwaupangiri waluso paukwati.
Ndikofunikira kuti nonse mugwire nawo ntchito limodzi osati otsutsa kapena otsutsana. Kulowererapo kwa anthu ena mothandizidwa ndi upangiri waukwati kungakuthandizeni kupeza njira zosinthira zolinga zanu, malingaliro anu, ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti mukhale osangalala kwamuyaya.
Kusungirana chinsinsi
Ufulu wachinsinsi sikuyenera kusokonezedwa ndi kusunga zinsinsi muubwenzi.
Maanja omwe amasungirana chinsinsi cha zachuma wina ndi mzake, amachita mochedwa kukhulupirika, kuchita zachinyengo mokakamiza komanso kubisila anzawo zomwe akuyenera kudziwa, akuyenera kuyankha funso loti, "kodi ndikufuna upangiri wa maukwati?" inde.
Ndizotheka kuti ubale ukhale wopambana komanso wopambana ngakhale pali zovuta zonse, koma muyenera kukhala omasuka ku lingaliro la kupeza upangiri waukwati. Othandizira banja angakuthandizeni kukhala ndi zida zoyenera kuti muphunzire zambiri za kasamalidwe ka maubwenzi ndikuwonjezera chisangalalo muukwati wanu.
Ngati nonse mwadzipereka kukalandira upangiri waukwati ndipo mwatsimikiza kupulumutsa chibwenzi chanu, ndiye kuti katswiri wazachipatala yemwe ali ndi mwayi wachiwiri ndiye kuti ubale wanu uyenera kuyambiranso.