Zamkati
- 1. Simumvana ndi apongozi anu, ndipo amakhala mtawuni yanu
- 2. Inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana pa momwe mungamulerere ana
- 3. M'nyumba monse ndimosokonekera
- 4. Nkhondo zako zimakula msanga. Mawu amakweza ndipo palibe chomwe chingathetsedwe
- 5. Mwatopa, mwapanikizika komanso mumagwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kotero mumakonda kuthana ndi mavuto akunyumba
Tikakwatirana ndikukhala ndi banja, timakonda kuganiza kuti zonse zidzakhala zosavuta komanso zosavuta. Tidzakhala okondana komanso ogwirizana, mnyumba tidzadzaza kuseka ndi kukumbatirana, ndipo ana athu azimvera mawu athu anzeru osawatsutsa. Zowona sizabwino kwenikweni. Anthu ndi zolengedwa zovuta, ndipo pamakhala malingaliro osiyanasiyana, mphindi za mikangano, mikangano ndi kupsa mtima, komanso zopunthwitsa zambiri zomwe zimafunikira kuyendetsedwa mwanzeru kuti athane ndi mavuto asanakwanike. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti mavuto amabwera m'mabanja onse, ngakhale nyama. Taganizirani izi ngati maphunziro oti muphunzirepo — zomwe zimapatsa kuleza mtima, kulolerana, luso lomvetsera bwino komanso maluso oyankhulirana bwino. Ndili ndi malingaliro, tiyeni tiwone upangiri wothana ndi mavuto am'banja kotero kuti chisankhocho ndi masewera omaliza, osati zochita zosatheka.
1. Simumvana ndi apongozi anu, ndipo amakhala mtawuni yanu
Ili ndi vuto lovuta kubanja, ndipo lomwe lingatenge zokambirana zambiri ndikukhazikitsa gawo lanu. Simukufuna kuthamangitsa apongozi anu, chifukwa ndi makolo a mnzanu komanso agogo a ana anu. Nthawi yomweyo, mufunika kuwadziwitsa kuti zina mwa zomwe amachita kapena zolankhula zawo zimakupweteketsani ndipo muyenera kukhazikitsa malire. 
Yankho: Pezani njira yathanzi, yosawopseza yolumikizirana ndi apongozi anu zosowa zanu. Chitani izi anawo atakhala kuti alibe; mwina m'malo osalowerera ndale. Nanga bwanji kuwaitanira ku brunch yamlungu? Lembani ma mimosas kuti mpweya uzikhala womasuka. Kenako, pogwiritsa ntchito mauthenga oti "Ine", agawireni malingaliro anu. “Ndili wokondwa kuti nonse awiri mumakhala pafupi kuti ana akhale ndi mwayi wokhala pafupi ndi agogo awo. Koma ndikuganiza kuti ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe kuti sindingalole kudzudzulidwa kulikonse momwe timalerera ana, makamaka akamati kudzera mwa ana. Ndine womasuka kuti ndimve zomwe mukuganiza kuti tikuchita molakwika, koma ndibwino kungobwera kwa ife osagwiritsa ntchito ana ngati amithenga. ”
2. Inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana pa momwe mungamulerere ana
Yankho: Aliyense wa inu alembe mndandanda, olemba malingaliro ake okhudzana ndi madera ofunikira polera ana: kulanga (kukwapula? Kutaya nthawi? Kupindulitsa mayendedwe abwino ndikunyalanyaza zoyipa?); - iwo a ntchito zapakhomo?), Ndi maphunziro (sukulu yaboma kapena yabizinesi?). Pogwiritsa ntchito mindandanda yanu ngati maziko azokambirana, fotokozani chifukwa chake mukuganiza kuti mfundo zanu ndizofunikira, koma khalani ololera kuti musinthe. Kupatsa ndikutenga nthawi zonse kumakhala kofunikira mwa awiriwa polera ana, chifukwa chake mufunika kuganizira zomwe zingakambirane ndi zomwe sizingachitike.
3. M'nyumba monse ndimosokonekera
Mwatopa ndi kukhala nokha amene mumatsuka. Palibe amene akuwoneka ngati akuchita chilichonse pokhapokha mutakweza mawu, kenako ndikuchita monyinyirika ndipo mkhalidwe wanyumba umakhala wosakhazikika komanso wosasangalala. 
Yankho: Sonkhanitsani banja lonse pamodzi; Mwamuna ndi ana. Pangani mpweya kukhala womasuka komanso wosangalatsa, ndikudya pang'ono ndi soda patebulo. Khalani ndi pepala komanso cholembera, chifukwa mupanga Tchati cha Chore. Kutsogolera zokambirana, ndikuuza banja mokweza mawu kuti aliyense akuyenera kuthandizira kuti banjali likhale labwino. Lemberani aliyense pa ntchito zonse zofunika kuchita kuti banja liziyenda bwino. Kenako funsani yemwe angafune kukhala ndiudindo sabata yoyamba. Ntchito za aliyense zimasinthasintha kotero kuti palibe munthu m'modzi yemwe amangokhalira kuchita zosasangalatsa, monga kutaya zinyalala kapena kusintha khola la mbalame. Pangani mphotho yamtundu wina kumapeto kwa sabata ngati ntchito zonse zachitika popanda kudandaula; mwina banja litapita ku malo odyera pizza kapena pikiniki kunyanja. Musati nitpick ngati ntchito sizinamalizidwe monga momwe mungafunire: mfundo ndikugawana udindo.
4. Nkhondo zako zimakula msanga. Mawu amakweza ndipo palibe chomwe chingathetsedwe
Yankho: Pali zinthu zambiri zokuthandizani kuti muphunzitse kumenya nkhondo mwachilungamo ndikugwiritsa ntchito bwino mikangano kuti mufike pamalingaliro. Mukufuna kupewa chilankhulo chotsutsa, gwiritsani ntchito ma "I" anu, gwirizanani ndi munthu amene mukulimbana naye kuti zokambiranazo zizingokhala zothetsera mavuto osati zodzudzulidwa, ndikusungitsa zokambirana zanu pazovuta zomwe zilipo osazemba mpaka zovuta zapitazo.
5. Mwatopa, mwapanikizika komanso mumagwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kotero mumakonda kuthana ndi mavuto akunyumba
Yankho: Choyamba, phatikizani njira zina zokutetezani muzomwe mumachita tsiku ndi tsiku. Osadikira kuti vutolo litulukire; mukufuna kukhala ndi zida zambiri mu "bokosi lazida" lanu kuti muthe kugwira limodzi mukapeza nkhani. Chifukwa chake yesani kusinkhasinkha, kapena masewera, kapena mverani chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe zikupezeka zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukhazikitsa kasupe wamtendere, wokonzeka kubwera nthawi yovuta ikadzachitika. Kumbukirani: Simungathe kuwongolera zochita za mnzanu kapena ana. Mutha kuwongolera momwe mungachitire ndi iwo. Chitani chifundo; wachibale wanu akachita zinazake zomwe zimakupsetsani mtima, pumani mpweya ndikuyesa kuwona chifukwa chomwe akuchitira zomwe akuchita. Kugona maola okwanira usiku uliwonse; Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungachite kuti muthandizidwe kukhala wodekha komanso wokhoza kuchita. Dyetsani thupi lanu ndi zakudya zabwino, zonse, kupewa zakudya zopanda pake ndi caffeine, zakudya ziwiri zomwe zatsimikiziridwa kuti zimasokoneza malingaliro athu.