Zamkati
- Zosasangalatsa Pabanja
- Mwayi Wambiri Wobera
- Kupanga Maulalo Paintaneti
- Amamva Kusungulumwa kapena Sanamveke
Anthu akamva zakuti banja latha chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika, nthawi zambiri anthu amaganiza kuti mwamunayo ndi amene ali ndi vuto. Ndiwo omwe amakonda kusochera, sichoncho? Kwenikweni azimayi amabera, nawonso, ndipo manambala ndi zifukwa zake zingakudabwitseni.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa, abambo ndi amai amakhala okongola ngakhale zikafika pobera mnzawoyo. Chifukwa chake zitha kuwoneka kuti amuna akupeza rap yoipa ikafika poti sangakhalebe okhulupirika. Kwenikweni, zinali zowona, koma m'zaka zaposachedwa, malinga ndi kafukufuku waku Indiana University ku Bloomington, 19% ya azimayi ndi 23% ya amuna akuti adabera mkati mwaukwati wawo.
Koma mwina chosangalatsa ndichakuti amuna ndi akazi amanyenga. Nthawi zambiri, amuna amafuna chisangalalo chakuthupi / zogonana kunja kwaukwati. Koma azimayi, pomwe amafuna kuti apeze izi, sikuti amangoyang'ana izi. Nthawi zambiri amalakalaka kusintha kwamalingaliro. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wosiyanasiyana, Nazi zifukwa zina zomwe amai amabera:
Zosasangalatsa Pabanja
Kungakhale china chachikulu, kapena kungoti zinthu zazing'ono zambiri. Koma masiku ano, mkazi akakhala wosasangalala, amayang'ana chisangalalo kwina. Ngati mnzake wakugwira naye ntchito kapena mnzake akumvetsera, atha kusokera chifukwa munthu winayo akudzaza chidebe chawo chachimwemwe m'njira zomwe anzawo sachita.
Maddy amadziwa kuti amuna awo anali munthu wabwino, koma amangokhumudwa tsiku ndi tsiku. “Timangofuna zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Ndikuganiza kuti poyamba tinali ndi malingaliro ofanana, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi tinasiyana. ” Kusasangalala kwake konse kunamupangitsa kuti abwerere m'manja mwa lawi lakale lomwe limakhala monga momwe amalingalira. Koma monga zidapezeka, amuna awo nawonso amabera, kotero adagwirizana kuti asiyane.
Mwayi Wambiri Wobera
Amuna ndi akazi nthawi zambiri samachita kubera akadziwa kuti agwidwa; koma akaganiza kuti sangagwidwe, ziwerengerozi zimasintha. Ndipo masiku ano, azimayi ambiri pantchito, mabanja omwe ali ndi zochita zambiri, osagwira ntchito kutawuni, ndi zina zambiri, pali mipata yambiri yodzitchinjiriza popanda wokwatiwa akuganizira chilichonse.
Kate atamuuza mwamuna wake wazaka zinayi kuti ayamba kukhala ndi seminare yamlungu kuntchito, sanayang'ane. Izi zimamutsegulira Lachinayi lililonse madzulo kuti azicheza ndi mnzake wakuntchito yemwe adayamba kucheza naye. Chibwenzi chidapitilira kwa chaka chimodzi asanamuuze mwamuna wake ndipo adasudzulana.
Kupanga Maulalo Paintaneti
Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti komanso malo ochezera pa intaneti zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kuti mucheze pang'ono ndi bwenzi lakale kapena wina watsopano. Amayi nthawi zambiri samakhala usiku umodzi ndi munthu yemwe sakumudziwa. M'malo mwake, amakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi wina yemwe amalumikizana naye. M'badwo uno pomwe kucheza pa intaneti ndi lawi lakale, kapena kukhazikitsa akaunti yabodza yapaintaneti ndikosavuta, sizosadabwitsa kuti amayi akuyesedwa.
Lacey adadziwa kuti adakwatirana ndi mnyamata wolakwika, koma samadziwa choti achite kuti zinthu zikhale bwino, ndipo adachita mantha kumusiya. Adalankhula kwa maola ambiri ndi mnzake wakale waku sekondale, atamusaka pama TV. Zidangokhala zopitilira kukhala zaubwenzi, ndipo kudzera muubwenziwo adazindikira momwe zinthu zingakhalire zosiyana. Posakhalitsa adasiya mwamuna wake kwa mnzake waku sekondale.
Amamva Kusungulumwa kapena Sanamveke
Amayi amayenera kumva kulumikizana ndi akazi awo kuti akwaniritse. Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo sali pafupi (amagwira ntchito kwambiri), kapena sakupezeka kapena samamupeza, atha kufunafuna wina amene angathe. Zitha kutheka kuti mwamuna wamwamuna amalumikizana naye, koma popita nthawi khungulo lachepa. Kuthetheka kumatha kuyatsa ndi munthu wina ndipo atha kuyesedwa kuti akhale wosakhulupirika kuti amve kuti ndiwofunika.
Sarah anali pa nthawi yosintha ndi ntchito yake; anali atatsala pang'ono kusiya ndikuyamba bizinesi yakeyake. Anali maloto amoyo wake wonse. Kungoti, amuna ake samamuthandiza ndipo samawoneka kuti amasamala za maloto ake. Anamva kupsinjika, samatha kumuyang'ana. Wofuna chithandizo wa Sarah anali wokondwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro ake ndipo posakhalitsa adalumikizana ndi Sarah yemwe wakhala akulakalaka kwazaka zambiri. Iwo anali ndi chibwenzi chomwe chinatha mpaka bizinesi yake itayamba. Pambuyo pake adasiya chibwenzicho ndikukhala ndi amuna awo, popeza amadziwona kuti ndi wolakwa pazomwe adachita. Akukumva kuti akwaniritsidwa kwambiri ndi bizinesi yake yatsopano ndipo mwamuna wake amamuthandiza maloto ake.