Zamkati
- Chifukwa chiyani ma ex amabwerera mukasamukira?
- 1. Lamulo Losayankhulana
- 2. A Exes Abwerera Chifukwa Chansanje
- 3. Ndi chikhalidwe cha umunthu
- 4. Amuna Ena Sali Olimba Mtima
- 5. Amayi Atha Kukhala Okwanira
- 6. Ees Atha Kubweranso Pomwe Osayembekezera
- Signs Ex wanu Sadzabweranso.
Anthu akamakhala opanda pake m'moyo wanu, ayenera kukhululukidwa ndikuiwalika. Ndikofunikira kupatula malo m'miyoyo yanu kwa anthu ena ndikupanga zokumbukira zatsopano nawo.
Mmodzi mwa 'anthu' otere akhoza kukhala mnzake wakale.
Wakale nthawi zonse amakumbukira zomwe zimakupanikizani nthawi zambiri pakati pachinthu chilichonse chofunikira.
Chowonadi ndichakuti, kuchotsa anthu m'moyo nkovuta, koma kuchotsa zokumbukira m'malingaliro ndizovuta kuposa zovuta.
Nthawi zina, simungathe kudziletsa pokumbukira zinthu zopweteka.
Ngakhale mutayesa kuiwala kupezeka kwawo m'moyo wanu, nthawi zina, amatha kusankha kubwerera, ndipo mumasiyidwa ndikudabwa chifukwa chomwe abwerera atasiyana.
M'nkhaniyi, tiwona zina mwazifukwa zomwe exes amabwerera atapatukana, kuphatikiza udindo wamunthu.
Chifukwa chiyani ma ex amabwerera mukasamukira?
Nthawi zina, zochitika zina m'moyo zimabwezeretsa achimwene ndi cholinga choyambitsa chilichonse mwatsopano. Izi zitha kubweretsa zovuta komanso chisokonezo chifukwa amene akuyesera kuyiwala wakale atha kukhala osakonzekera.
Anthu omwe akukumana ndi izi amafunsabe funso, bwanji ma ex amabwerera?
Ndi kwachibadwa kukhala ndi matani a mafunso m'maganizo mwanu ngati wakale amawonekera mwadzidzidzi ndikupempha kuti agwirizanenso kapena afunseni kukumananso.
Apa tikuyankha ena mwa mafunso anu, ndikuyimitsa kusokonezeka kwanu kosatha. Ngati mukufunitsitsa kudziwa chifukwa chomwe ma exes amabwerera, werengani pa!
1. Lamulo Losayankhulana
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa chifukwa chomwe akale amabwerera patapita zaka, muyenera kudziwa kuti wakale akaganiza kuti simungathe kupitiliza ndikusiya zokumbukira zawo, amalimba mtima kuti abwerere.
Wakale amatha kubwerera ngakhale atakhala kuti sakudziwa za ubale wanu. Mwinanso, ndi zinthu zochepa zomwe zinawakumbutsa za iwe mwamphamvu kwambiri kotero kuti sangathe kupitiriza.
Komanso, sikofunikira kuti muzilumikizana. Komabe, anthu ambiri amasunga malo awo akale kudzera mwa anzawo wamba kapena pazanema.
2. A Exes Abwerera Chifukwa Chansanje
Nthawi zambiri ma exes amakhala zinthu zabwino kwa anthu ena, pomwe anthu ambiri olimba mtima amapitilira zakale zawo munthawi yabwino.
Funso lofala kwambiri pakati pa iwo omwe apezanso mwayi wina wokumananso ndi bwenzi lawo lakale ndi loti, bwanji ma ex amabwerera?
Akakuwonani mukukula modumpha m'moyo, atha kukhala ndi nsanje.
Amamva ngati ataya china chake chomwe chinali chawo. Amakonda kuwona okondedwa awo akusowa ndipo sangathe kudikirira kuti akhale nawo kachiwiri.
3. Ndi chikhalidwe cha umunthu
Ngati tilingalira za chifukwa chomwe obwerera adzabweranso kapena akhoza kudzalumikizananso patapita zaka, timapeza kuti okonda okhazikika nthawi zambiri samatha zaka zawo, ngakhale timadziwa kuti zimawononga ndalama zingati.
Anthu ena amatenga nawo mbali muubwenzi kuti akhale ndi phewa la wina wolira.
Samapha opondereza kuti abwerere ndi wakale.
Chifukwa chake, kukumananso patadutsa zaka sizachilendo.
Moyo umapitilira anthu otere. Amakondananso, amakondanso, amakhala pachibwenzi ndi anzawo mobwerezabwereza, koma china chake chimapangitsa chikhumbo chowabwezeretsa okondedwa awo.
Ndiponsotu, chikhalidwe chaumunthu chotsatira zomwe sakanakwanitsa.
4. Amuna Ena Sali Olimba Mtima
Atsikana ali ndi nkhawa kudziwa, kodi zibwenzi zakale zibweranso patatha miyezi?
Amuna ambiri amayamba kuphonya anzawo kwambiri atasiyidwa okha.
Amatha kudzifunsa ngati bwenzi lawo lakale lidzatha kudzisamalira popanda chitetezo chamunthu ngati iwo m'moyo wake.
Kodi nthawi zonse amakhala wokonda kudalira mnzake kuti amuthandize? Ndiye mwayi wobwereranso ndi wakale yemwe amakhumba kulumikizana kwakanthawi komwe kulipo alipo.
Koma ngati ali yekhayekha mtundu wa nkhandwe, ndiye kuti mwayi wake ndi wochepa pomwe akuganiza kuti ali bwino osakwatiwa kapena kuchita zibwenzi mwamwayi.
Onaninso: Malangizo 6 oti athane ndi munthu wosadzidalira pachibwenzi.
5. Amayi Atha Kukhala Okwanira
Kodi mudadzifunsapo zomwe akazi amachita mukamayenda ndi munthu wina, makamaka, atsikana amabwerera kangati?
Muyenera kudziwa izi ngati muli ndi chibadwa choti abwerera. Atsikana ena amabwerera akawona zibwenzi zawo zikuyenda ndi wina. Izi zimawapangitsa kukhala ndi mwayi wokhala nawo wakale.
Tsopano anthu ambiri amafunsa, chifukwa chiyani zibwenzi zakale zimabweranso mukasamukira?
Mukakhala achimwemwe kuposa kale, mumapanga chisoni chanu chifukwa chakusiyani.
6. Ees Atha Kubweranso Pomwe Osayembekezera
Ngati tilingalira za chifukwa chomwe abusa abwerera, tifotokoza zifukwa zingapo zosankhira izi.
Pakapita nthawi yayitali, zomwe mumakumbukirazo zimasokonekera, ndipo mumayamba kuzilakalaka ndi cholinga chopeza wina wabwino.
Mphindi ngati izi, simukuyenera kuti muwafunenso m'moyo wanu, koma zabwino, akale amabweranso pomwe simukuyembekezera.
Signs Ex wanu Sadzabweranso.
Musanaganize zowalandiranso kapena kutsazika, muyenera kudziwa ngati mukulandiranso kapena ayi.
Nazi zizindikilo zingapo zomwe mungadziwe kuti mnzanuyo watsanzika zabwino:
- Amachita zibwenzi ndi wina mofulumira atasiyana.
- Sadzawona konse mauthenga anu.
- Amakondwerera kutha pagulu ndikupita patchuthi ndi anzawo.
Ngati mungadzifunse ngati wokondedwa wanu adzabwerako pambuyo poti apatukana kapena ngati sanapite patali, kuyang'anitsitsa zifukwa izi, chifukwa zimatha kubweretsa kumveka bwino m'malingaliro anu.
Ingokumbukirani kuti anthu amabwera m'moyo wanu pazifukwa, kutalika kwake kumatha kusiyanasiyana nyengo mpaka moyo wonse.
Kulekana sikungakhale kumapeto kwa macheza, koma zimatengera momwe ubale wanu udaliri poyamba.