Zamkati
- 1. Ubwana wozunza
- 2. Ubale
- 3. Ziyembekezero zapamwamba
- 4. Kutengera zochita za anzako
- 5. Mbiri ya nkhanza
- 6. Palibe chithandizo kuchokera kwa abale apabanja
- 7. Kusokonezeka kwamaganizidwe
- 8. Ana omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera
- 9. Chuma
Ndizovuta kulingalira za kukhalapo kwa makolo omwe amakuzunza. Komabe, pali makolo ochepa omwe amakhala pakati pathu omwe amachitira nkhanza mopanda tanthauzo. Monga munthu wachitatu, ndikosavuta kuwaweruza ndikufunsa zochita zawo, koma ndikofunikira kuti timvetsetse ngati akuchita zomwe sayenera kuchita.
Tiyenera kufunsa kuti 'Chifukwa chiyani makolo amazunza ana awo?' tisanayambe kuwaweruza.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi nkhani. Pali chifukwa chake kuti azichita chonchi. Kungakhale kukakamizidwa kosaoneka komwe akumva kapena zotsatira zaubwana wawo. Tiyeni timvetse chifukwa chake makolo ena amachita izi.
1. Ubwana wozunza
Ngati kholo lakhala likuzunzidwa ndi kholo lawo ndiye kuti ali ndi mwayi woti abwereza zomwezo ndi ana awo.
Awona mtundu wa banja lawo ndikukhulupirira kuti ana akuyenera kuchitiridwa momwe amachitiridwira. Komanso, mwana akakula movutikira, amakhalanso achiwawa. Yankho la izi litha kukhala makalasi a makolo ndi chithandizo chomwe chidzadzaza mipata ndikuwathandiza kukhala kholo labwino.
2. Ubale
Nthawi zina, makolo amazunza mwana wawo, chifukwa amafuna kudziyika okha kukhala osiyana ndi ana awo.
Amafuna kuti aziwopa komanso azilamulila. Izi zitha kukhalanso chifukwa chaubwana wawo kapena akufuna kukhala kholo labwino kwambiri lomwe limadziwa kuwongolera ana awo.
M'malo mwake, amasiya kukhulupiriridwa ndi ana awo omwe amakula akuwadana chifukwa chamakhalidwe oipa.
3. Ziyembekezero zapamwamba
Kukhala kholo sikophweka.
Ana ali ngati timitengo tomwe timafunikira chisamaliro ndi chikondi nthawi zonse. Makolo ena amanyalanyaza izi ndikuzindikira kuti ndizochulukirapo. Izi zosayembekezereka zimawapangitsa kutaya malingaliro ndipo ana awo amalandila mkwiyo. Zinthu zosayembekezereka zimachititsanso makolo kuchitira nkhanza ana awo.
Amangoyesa kuyang'anira chilichonse koma pamapeto pake amakhala kholo lozunza lokhumudwitsidwa ndi ana awo komanso zofuna zawo nthawi zonse.
4. Kutengera zochita za anzako
Kholo lililonse limafuna kukhala kholo labwino kwambiri.
Akakhala paphwando amafuna ana awo azichita bwino ndikuwamvera. Komabe, ana ndi ana ndipo mwina sangamvere makolo awo nthawi zonse.
Makolo ena amanyalanyaza izi pomwe ena amazitenga ngati malingaliro awo. Amakhulupirira kuti mbiri yawo ili pachiwopsezo. Chifukwa chake, amazunza anzawo kuti ana awo awamvere, zomwe pamapeto pake zidzasokoneza mbiri yawo komanso kuwasangalatsa.
5. Mbiri ya nkhanza
Chizunzo chimayamba mwana asanabadwe.
Ngati aliyense mwa makolo amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndiye kuti mwanayo amabadwira m'malo ozunza. Iwo sali mmalingaliro awo kuti amvetse mkhalidwewo. Sadziwa momwe mwanayo akuyenera kuchitidwira. Apa ndipomwe amakhulupirira kuti kuchitira nkhanza nkwabwino kwambiri ndipo amawona ngati zachilendo.
6. Palibe chithandizo kuchokera kwa abale apabanja
Kukhala kholo ndi kovuta.
Ndi ntchito ya 24/7 ndipo nthawi zambiri imakhumudwitsa makolo chifukwa chakusowa tulo kapena nthawi yanokha. Apa ndipomwe amayembekezera kuti abale awo apabanja alowererapo ndikuwathandiza. Popeza, adutsa gawo ili atha kukhala chitsogozo chabwino pamomwe angathetsere zovuta.
Komabe, sizili choncho makamaka.
Makolo ena samalandira thandizo lochepera kuchokera kubanja lawo.
Popanda thandizo, osagona komanso osakhala ndi nthawi yawoyawo, kukhumudwitsidwa kumawonjezeka ndipo amakwiya ndi ana awo.
Nthawi zonse amalangizidwa kuti mupemphe thandizo pakafunika kutero.
7. Kusokonezeka kwamaganizidwe
Aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi vuto lamaganizidwe.
Ngakhale ali ndi ufulu wokhala mwamtendere, zinthu zimatha kusintha atakhala kholo. Popeza akudwala matenda amisala kumakhala kovuta kwa iwo kuyang'anira moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku.
Kuphatikiza pa izi, kukhala ndi mwana kumatanthauza udindo wowonjezera. Anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lamaganizidwe akakhala kholo zimawavuta kuti athe kulinganiza pakati pa zosowa zawo ndi zosowa za mwana wawo. Izi, pamapeto pake, zimasanduka nkhanza.
8. Ana omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera
Kodi nchifukwa ninji makolo amazunza ana awo? Ili lingakhale yankho lina lofunika ku funsoli. Ana, ambiri, amafunikira chisamaliro chapadera ndi chisamaliro.
Ingoganizirani makolo omwe ali ndi ana apadera. Ana apadera amafunikira chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro chowirikiza. Makolo amayesetsa kugwiritsitsa zinthu ndikuchita momwe angathere koma nthawi zina amaleza mtima ndikupanga nkhanza.
Sizovuta kukhala kholo la mwana wapadera. Muyenera kuwasamalira komanso kuwakonzekeretserani tsogolo lawo. Makolo ali ndi nkhawa ndi tsogolo lawo komanso chithandizo chomwe akupitilira.
9. Chuma
Palibe chomwe chingachitike popanda ndalama.
Nthawi iliyonse mumafunikira. Kusamalira ana m'maiko ena si ndalama. Ngati makolo akuvutika kuti akwaniritse zofuna zawo, ana amatha nkhawa zawo zowirikiza. Zikatero, makolo amagwira ntchito kuti apatse ana awo zabwino koma zokhumudwitsazo zikawonjezeka, amazunza ana awo.
Kuweruza ndi kufunsa ena zochita ndizosavuta koma tiyenera kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe makolo amazunza ana awo.
Malingaliro omwe atchulidwawa akunena zamavuto ena omwe makolo amakhala nawo omwe nthawi zambiri amawapangitsa kuzunza ana awo. Zomwe amafunikira ndikuthandizidwa pang'ono komanso kuthandizidwa.