Zamkati
- Kubwerera m'mbuyomu
- Manja achichepere
- Anadutsa malingaliro anga zaka zingapo pambuyo pake
- Kukumbukira zowawa-zokoma
- Kutenga zinthu m'manja mwanga
- Zotsatira zosayembekezereka
Ndakhala pano, ndikuganizira limodzi mwa mafunso ovuta kwambiri nthawi zonse - Kodi ndizotheka kukhalabe abwenzi ndi wakale?
Anthu ambiri amafulumira kunena kuti atha kukhala abwenzi a Lord Voldemort kuposa anzawo omwe anali nawo pachibwenzi.
Kaya ndichifukwa choti kutha koyipa kapena kungokhala chete kukambirana pang'ono za nyengo ndi munthu yemwe amakutchulani kuti ndi wokondedwa wawo, sizovuta kukhulupirira kuti anthu ambiri amangoti azaka zawo ngati gawo lawo moyo wakale m'malo mokhala "bwanawe".
Ndizosavuta motere, zimayambitsa chisokonezo komanso kupweteka. Koma kodi njira yosavuta nthawi zonse imakhala yoyenera?
Kubwerera m'mbuyomu
Kubwerera ku koleji, bwenzi langa lazaka zitatu adazindikira kuti sakufuna chibwenzi ali ku University.
Zinandiwawa koma ndinatsimikiza mtima kukhalabe naye pafupi, chifukwa chikondi chonse chomwe ndinali nacho pa mnyamatayo chidalipo.
Patatha miyezi ingapo, adakhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe anali wotsutsana nane kwambiri. Sikuti sankafuna chibwenzi, koma samangofuna chibwenzi ndi ine.
Pamenepo, chikhumbo changa chokhala mzanga ndi iye chidasinthiratu mwa ine kufuna kunamizira kuti sanakhaleko.
Zachibwana? Inde- Koma kusakhwima kumayembekezereka mukamakumana ndi vuto lanu loyamba.
Manja achichepere
Ndimakumbukira ndikumusata pamitundu yonse yapa media media ndikuchotsa zithunzi zathu zonse pa Facebook, kuphatikiza zithunzi zokongola.
Unali ntchito yanga kuti ndimufafanize pamoyo wanga komanso zikumbukiro zanga mwachangu momwe anthu angathere.
Ngati ndikamuwonapo akudutsa pakona la msewu, ndimatha kubisala ngati munthu wina wozonda.
Ndidatsimikiza mtima kuti sindizamuyang'ananso, osati mosasamala kanthu, koma ndikumva kuwawa kodziwa kuti mnyamatayo ndimamukonda kwambiri adasamukira mutu wake wotsatira.
Sizinachitike mpaka nditamuchotsa m'moyo wanga (inde, zomwe zimaphatikizira zoulutsira mawu), pomwe ndidakwanitsadi kupitiriza.
Anadutsa malingaliro anga zaka zingapo pambuyo pake
Pakadali pano, ndimamugonjera kwathunthu, koma ndimayamba kupeza kuti zinali zovuta kuti sitinali abwenzi.
Tidakhala tikukumana ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zosiyanasiyana pamoyo, iye ndi ine, ndipo tinali okonda platonic tisanakhale pachibwenzi.
Mwanjira ina, kwa ine, zidawona kuti ndizokakamizidwa kuti tikupewa wina ndi mnzake osati kukhala mabwenzi.
Kukumbukira zowawa-zokoma
Uyu anali munthu yemwe adafinya dzanja langa pamaliro a agogo anga. Uyu anali mnyamata yemwe ndidamusisita kumbuyo pakati pa chisudzulo cha makolo ake.
Uyu anali munthu yemwe adandizungulila usiku wa Prom ndikundigonesa kangapo.
Pokhala kuti adakhala gawo lalikulu kwambiri pamoyo wanga, bwanji sindingamufune? Kodi anzanu enieni si anthu omwe amakudziwani bwino?
Kutenga zinthu m'manja mwanga
Chifukwa chake, ndidaganiza zomutumizira meseji. China chosavuta, komanso mizere ya: "Hei, uli bwanji moyo?"
Izi zidabweretsa zokambirana zazing'ono zomwe samawoneka kuti akufuna kukhala nazo. Sikuti adangokakamizidwa, koma zinali zowonekeratu kuti kutengera mayankho ake, analibe chikhumbo chobwezeretsanso ubale wina.
Zotsatira zosayembekezereka
Ndimalemekeza chisankho chake. Ndimayenera kutero.
Sindikufuna kumukakamiza kuti avale zofanana ndi za BFF za Life! malaya, kapena kumugwira mpaka titabwera ndi chanza chachinsinsi.
Inde, ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi ubale wabwino.
Nthawi zina sitiyenera kusankha ngati tingakhalebe anzathu kapena ayi.
Ngati akuwonekeratu kuti alibe chidwi choti mukhalebe gawo la moyo wawo, ndiudindo wanu kuvomereza zofuna zawo.
Ndizochepa zomwe mungachite, momwe zingakhumudwitsire.
Kupatula apo, ubwenzi wokhala ndi munthu m'modzi umakhala wokhumudwitsa kwambiri kuposa kusakhalako konse.
Ndiye yankho lake apa ndi liti? Kodi muyenera kukhalabe bwenzi la wakale wanu, kapena ndizovuta kwambiri?
Yankho liri kwathunthu ndi kwathunthu kwa inu ndi chikondi chanu chakale. Ngati nonse awiri mutha kupanga chisankho chokhazikika mu platonic, ndikunena chifukwa chiyani?
Chofunikira chimodzi chofunikira ndikupatsa nthawi.
Ngati simupatsa mabala anu mpweya wofunikira kuti apume, ubwenziwo udzawonongeka. Komabe ngati zaka zidutsa ndipo nonse awiri muli omasuka nazo, zitha kukhala ntchito zaubwenzi wabwino.
Mukuganiza chiyani? Kodi ndizotheka kukhalabe abwenzi ndi wakale wanu?