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- Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe ndiofunikira
- Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe amakwaniritsidwa
- Malumbiro aukwati wachikhalidwe sakhala akanthawi
- Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe ndi ochititsa chidwi
- Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe amakhala ndi cholinga chapadera
Ganizirani za maukwati atatu omaliza omwe mudapitako. Itakwana nthawi yoti banjali liwerengetse malonjezo awo, mwamva zomwe zimamveka malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe kapena kodi ndizomwe zidalembedwa?
Ngati anali omaliza ndipo mukukonzekera ukwati wanu, ndi chinthu chabwino kuti mukuwerenga nkhaniyi.
Tisanayambe, yesetsani kukumbukira malumbiro aukwati ochititsa chidwi kwambiri omwe mudamvapo ndikudzifunsa nokha kufunika kwa malumbiro aukwati kapena kufunikira kwa malumbiro aukwati.
Ngakhale malonjezo aumwini ndi okoma, achikondi ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale oseketsa, chinthu chimodzi chomwe maanja ambiri amanyalanyaza ndikuti nthawi zambiri sichikhala kwenikweni kuwinda zambiri. Mwanjira ina, amakonda kukhala kusinthana kwa zikumbutso ndi malingaliro koposa china chilichonse.
Ndizosangalatsa (komanso koyenera kwathunthu) kufuna kugawana ndi dziko lapansi zifukwa zomwe mumam'peza wokondedwa wanu kukhala munthu wochititsa chidwi chonchi.
Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, pokhala kuti ukwati ndi chikole chololedwa mwalamulo - chomwe chapangidwa kuti chikhale kwa zaka zambiri zikubwerabe - ndibwino kuti mulingalire kuphatikiza kuphatikiza malumbiro achikwati pamwambo wanu:
“Kodi mudzakhala ndi mkazi / mwamuna ameneyu kuti akhale mkazi wanu / mwamuna wanu, kuti muzikhala limodzi mu banja loyera? Mumukonda, kumulimbikitsa, kumchitira ulemu, kumusunga m'matenda ndi thanzi, ndikusiya ena onse, khalani okhulupirika kwa iye bola ngati nonse mukhale ndi moyo? ”
"M'dzina la Mulungu, ine, ______, ndikutenga, ______, kuti ukhale mkazi wanga / mwamuna wanga, kukhala ndi kusunga kuyambira lero, zabwino, zoyipa, zolemera, osauka, kudwala komanso thanzi , kukonda ndi kusamalira, mpaka titapatukana ndi imfa. Ili ndi lumbiro langa. ”
Nazi zifukwa zisanu malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe kwa iye kapena iye akadali ofunika kwambiri:
Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe ndiofunikira
Tanthauzo la lonjezo ndi "lonjezo, lonjezo, kapena kudzipereka kwanu". Pamene mudapanga chisankho chokwatirana ndi munthu wina, chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe pamakhala mwambowu ndichakuti nonse mupange malonjezo ndi kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Kulankhula pazifukwa zomwe mumawakondera ndichinthu chimodzi. Kulonjeza kukhala nawo mosasamala kanthu kena kalikonse. Nonse ndinu oyenera kumva wina akunena "Ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, ine ndiri mu izi". Izi zimaphimbidwa m'malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe.
Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe amakwaniritsidwa
Pali mabanja ambiri osudzulana omwe nthawi ina adauza loya wawo wosudzula kuti zomwe amaganiza kuti adasainira sizomwe adakwaniritsa. Ndipo pomwe anthu ena amatenga malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe mozama kwambiri kuposa ena, mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, malonjezo amakhala osamalitsa.
Amakukumbutsani kuti ukwati ndi wopatulika (wopatulika). Amakukumbutsani kuti sikokwanira kungokonda munthu amene mukumukwatira; muyeneranso kukhala okonzeka kukhala nawo pamene akudwala komanso atadwala.
Malumbiro achikhalidwe achikwati amalankhulanso mokhulupirika kuubwenzi, zogonana komanso zotengera. Munthu aliyense wokwatira akuyenera kumva zimenezo.
Malumbiro aukwati wachikhalidwe sakhala akanthawi
Zachisoni, kuchuluka kwa chisudzulo ndiumboni kuti anthu ambiri samawona malumbiro achikhalidwe kapena aukwati monga malonjezo okhazikika (kutanthauza, okhalitsa). Koma chinthu china chodabwitsa pamalonjezo achikhalidwe ndichakuti chinali cholinga cha wolemba yemwe adalemba.
China chomwe chiyenera kupangitsa ubale waukwati kukhala wosiyana ndi china chilichonse ndikuti mukuuza amene mumamukonda kuti mudzakhala nawo, kupyola zonsezi, kwa moyo wanu wonse. Ngati izi sizipangitsa ukwati kukhala ubale wapadera komanso wapadera, kwenikweni, chiyani?
Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe ndi ochititsa chidwi
Funsani za banja lililonse lomwe linakwatirana musanakhalepo ndipo munagwiritsa ntchito malumbiro achikwati paukwati wawo zomwe amaganiza pomwe anali kunena ndipo mwayi ulipo, adzakuwuzani kuti zinali zosangalatsa komanso zopatsa chidwi.
Pali chinthu china chosaiwalika pakuyima pamaso pa omwe akutitsogolera ndi anthu omwe mumawakonda mukamanena kuti mudzakhala ndi wina, zivute zitani, mpaka imfa ikugawana zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti mumve kulemera kwodzipereka.
Ndipo mukudziwa chiyani? Ndikofunika kuti munthu aliyense amene akukwatirana azionera izi. Ukwati suyenera kukhazikika pamalingaliro chabe koma kulingalira mozama ndikukonzekera moyenera. Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe thandizani kukukumbutsani za izi.
Malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe amakhala ndi cholinga chapadera
Malonjezo omwe agawidwa munkhaniyi ndi malonjezo achikhalidwe kutengera chipembedzo china (mutha kuwerenga ena pano). Tinawona kuti kunali koyenera kugawana nawo, osati chifukwa choti ndiwotchuka koma chifukwa akuti "75% yaukwati imachitika pachipembedzo".
Koma kaya mumadziona kuti ndinu achipembedzo kapena ayi, malumbiro achikhalidwe amakumbutsani kuti ukwati umagwira ntchito yapadera kwambiri. Siubwenzi wamba.
Ndi mnzake wapamtima yemwe ali ndi anthu awiri omwe akusankha kupereka moyo wawo, kwamoyo wawo wonse. Inde, pamene mukukonza dongosolo la mwambowu palimodzi, ndibwino kuti muganizire zowonjezerapo malumbiro achikwati.
Onani pa intaneti ena zitsanzo za malumbiro achikwati achikhalidwe ngati mukuvutika kuti mupeze omwe angakulonjezeni ukwati wanu.