Zamkati
- Kuperekedwa, ndizomwe mkazi amamva atanyengedwa
- Mkazi amamva kuti wasiyidwa
- Mkazi amamva kunyansidwa
- Mkazi amamva kukwiya
- Mzimayi amakhala wokhumudwa
- Mkazi amamva kusokonezeka
Zikumveka ngati funso losaganizira, koma ngati mwamuna amadziwadi momwe mkazi akumvera, ndiye kuti ndi cholengedwa chodzitukumula kapena chosokonekera. Chifukwa chake tiwapatse kukayikira ndi kuwauza momwe mkazi amamvera atanyengedwa.
Nkhani yonseyi ikumveka ngati ikunkha mtengo wolakwika. Kupatula apo, aliyense amene ali ndi theka laubongo angadziwe momwe mayi amamvera atanyengedwa. Ziwerengero zosakhulupirika zimatsimikizira mosiyana, amuna 55% amabera. Izi zikutanthauza kuti zenizeni, kusakhulupirika kuli nthawi 4-5 kuposa momwe zilili. Zikutanthauzanso kuti anthu ambiri amakhala ndi zochepera theka laubongo, ndipo ambiri aiwo amabodza kuthana nawo.
Tiyeni tiyese kuwaphunzitsa ndipo mwina, mwina ena mwa iwo amabwerera ku malingaliro ndikusintha njira zawo.
Kuperekedwa, ndizomwe mkazi amamva atanyengedwa
Maubwenzi onse amachokera pakudzipereka, lonjezo kuchokera kwa munthu amene amamukhulupirira ndi kumukonda. Malumbiro aukwati ndi malonjezano ena amasiyana pamawu, koma makamaka amaphatikizapo china chonga ichi.
Kukhulupirika - Mabungwe ambiri achikristu adzaphatikizira lonjezo lakukhulupirika. Awiriwo akulonjeza kuti apitilizabe kulumikizana komanso kulumikizana.
Chitetezo ndi udindo - Banjali likulonjeza kuti lidzatetezana ndikudzipangira okha kukhala ndi udindo wothandizana wina ndi mnzake.
Kwanthawizonse - Lonjezo limakhala loona bola onse atenge mpweya.
Kukhala ndi chibwenzi, mosasamala kanthu kuti ndi chosaya bwanji, akupereka malonjezo onse atatu. Woyamba ndi womaliza ndi wodzifotokozera. Lonjezo lachiwiri lathyoledwa chifukwa mwamunayo akuzunza mnzake. Ndizovuta kulingalira momwe mkazi amamvera atanyengedwa, atataya chidaliro chake kuti akwaniritse malonjezo atatu osavuta.
Mkazi amamva kuti wasiyidwa
Apa ndipomwe mantha ambiri abodza amachokera. Mayiyo akuwona kuti akalowedwa m'malo ndi wina, sakufunidwanso, kufunidwa, ndipo pamapeto pake adzatayidwa.
Zimapweteketsa kunyada kwake ngati mkazi komanso kufunikira ngati munthu. Amawona kuti chikondi chake chonse komanso khama lake zilibe ntchito. Zili ngati kutaya masewera a Olimpiki mutapereka zonse zomwe mungathe. Choyipa chachikulu cha izi ndi munthu amene amamukhulupirira kwambiri ndi munthu yemweyo amene adawavulaza. Atayika ndalama zambiri pachibwenzi, adatayikanso chipilala chake chofunikira kwambiri.
Mkazi amamva kunyansidwa
Pali zizindikiro zokuchenjezani kuti mukunamizidwa. Kusintha kwamachitidwe, kuwonjezeka kwa zochitika zofunika pambuyo pa ntchito, kusachita chidwi, ndi ena ambiri. Chidziwitso cha mkazi chimachedwa kuzindikira zosintha zonse zobisika zomwe zimafotokoza za kusakhulupirika.
Ngati kukhulupiranabe kukadalipo, mayiyo amanyalanyaza chibadwa chake ndikuyika chikhulupiriro chake mwa mwamuna wake. Adzanyalanyaza mbendera zofiira akuyembekeza kuti akulakwitsa. Kupatula apo, kumuneneza mwamunayo wopanda umboni ndikubweretsa mkangano womwe sangapambane. Zikapezeka kuti mwamunayo sakunyenga, zitha kuwononga chibwenzi.
Pakakhala utsi, pamakhala lawi. Chibwenzi chikakhala motalika kokwanira, chidzapezeka. Kukayika kukangotsimikiziridwa, ndipo mwamunayo akunyenga, kunyansidwa ndi zomwe mkazi amamva ataberedwa.
Amanyansidwa kuti mamuna yemwe amamukonda amangogona. Amanyansidwa kuti ubale wawo ndiwosafunikira, ndipo choyipitsitsa ndikunyansidwa kuti adanyalanyaza zizindikirazo ndipo zakhala zikuchitika kwakanthawi.
Mkazi amamva kukwiya
Anthu ambiri amamva kukwiya akaperekedwa, atasiyidwa, komanso atakhumudwitsidwa ndi mayi wina. Amayi sali okhululukidwa. Pali azimayi omwe amapitilira muyeso monga Lorena Bobbitt. Chifukwa chomwe adachitira izi si chifukwa chopeza chibwenzi, koma pali ena omwe adamutsatira.
Anthu amakono amalankhula zambiri zakusamalira mkwiyo, nzeru zam'maganizo, komanso ufulu wachibadwidwe. Sizimasintha kuti gawo lalikulu la miyoyo yathu limayang'aniridwa ndi momwe timamvera. Zosankha zathu zambiri zosintha moyo zimadalira momwe timamvera.
Chifukwa chake musadabwe ngati mwamuna wakumana ndi lumo lakuthwa.
Mzimayi amakhala wokhumudwa
Mkazi amalowa muubwenzi ndipo banja likhala lonse ndi chiyembekezo cha maloto ndi maloto awo. Kusakhulupirika kumawononga maloto amenewo, ndipo zotsatira zakubedwa pambuyo pake zitha kuphatikizaponso kukhumudwa.
Ngati ana akutengapo gawo, malingaliro osiyanasiyana amabwera m'malingaliro awo momwe ana awo angachitire ndi banja losweka. Kholo lokhalo lokha komanso mabanja osakanikirana sizachilendo, koma pali nthawi ina yovuta kwa ana aang'ono.
Zokumana nazo zosasangalatsa zomwe banja limakumana nazo chifukwa chabodza zitha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo za moyo wanu wonse.
Ndizokhumudwitsa kuti amayi aganize kuti mabanja awo ndi ana awo mwadzidzidzi akukumana ndi tsogolo lopanda chiyembekezo. Palibe mayi wachikondi amene angafune izi kwa ana awo.
Mkazi amamva kusokonezeka
Tinalemba kale zinthu zingapo zomwe mayi amamva atabereredwa. Palinso zina monga manyazi, mantha, ndi nkhawa. Aphatikizeni onse pamodzi, ndipo ndi kusefukira kwamalingaliro komwe kumatha kupangitsa aliyense kukhala wamisala. Ndizovuta kulingalira momwe mungadalire mutabedwa ndi munthu amene amamukonda kwambiri.
Kukhulupirira munthu wina kumakhala kovuta ngati mkazi wasokonezeka ndipo samadzidalira.
Mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro amunthu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika atha kukhala kuyambira pakukhumudwa mpaka kuwonongeka kwathunthu. Mwamuna aliyense amene angaike mkazi yemwe amamusamalira pamavuto otere sangakhulupirire.
Ngati titi tilembere mndandanda wazomwe mkazi amamverera atanyengedwa, titha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro onse osavuta mudikishonale. Zingakhale zosavuta kuzifotokoza ngati zokumana nazo za hellish. Zimasiya zambiri m'maganizo, koma izi ndi zolondola popeza palibe liwu limodzi lomwe lingafotokoze zowawa.