Zamkati
- Kukhudzidwa mwachindunji
- Kukhala osatetezeka
- Kudzimva kuti ndinu amembala
- Kuyenda kuchokera pamasewera amodzi okhaokha kupita kumasewera amtimu
- Kusintha kwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri
- Zosintha m'moyo wogonana
Mwayankha kuti "inde" pofunsira bwenzi lanu, ndipo tsopano mwakonzeka kukonzekera ukwati.
Pali zambiri zoti muzisamalire, kupeza malo ndi wovomerezeka, kusankha ndi kuyitanitsa makhadi osungira-tsikuli ndi maimidwe, kusankha mindandanda, alendo angati omwe angawaitane, komanso kavalidwe!
Koma pali china chake mwina chofunikira kwambiri kuposa zonsezi kuti muganizirepo: Zosintha zomwe banja lidzabweretse m'moyo wanu.
Tapempha maanja angapo kuti afotokozere zomwe awona momwe banja lasintha miyoyo yawo. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe ananena.
Kukhudzidwa mwachindunji
Virginia, 30, akutiuza kuti samayembekezera kuti zisintha motere pamoyo wake. "Kupatula apo, ine ndi Bruce tidakhala limodzi zaka zingapo tisanamange mfundo," akutiuza.
Mwadzidzidzi, ndinali ndi khungu pamasewera. Pamene timangokhala limodzi, ndimakhala ndi lingaliro loti ndimatha kutuluka pachibwenzi nthawi iliyonse popanda kutulutsa zinthu zambiri.
Koma titakwatirana, zonsezi zinasintha.
Zonse zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe, kwenikweni! Katundu wathu anaphatikizidwa, ndi mayina athu onse tsopano kumaakaunti akubanki, kubweza ngongole, maudindo agalimoto. Ndipo tinkakondana kwambiri monga mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kutengeka kokhala ndi khungu pamasewera, kuti pamtengo panaliokwera chifukwa panali kudzipereka kwalamulo komanso chidwi chachikulu. Ndipo ndimaikonda kwambiri. ”
Kukhala osatetezeka
"Kusakwatira kapena kukwatiwa kumandipangitsa kuti ndizikhala wosatekeseka ndi mkazi wanga," akutero Bob, wazaka 42. "Ukwati udatipatsa mwayi wodziwonetsera wina ndi mnzake, motetezeka komanso kwathunthu.
O, zedi, tikamakhala pachibwenzi tidaywonetsa mbali zathu zenizeni, njerewere ndi zina zonse, koma titakwatirana ndidamva kuti mkazi wanga analidi munthu wanga wotetezeka, munthu patsogolo pake yemwe sindingakhale "wolimba mtima" guy ”komanso - ndipo izi zinali zofunika kwambiri kwa ine - onetsani mantha ndi nkhawa zanga.
Ndikudziwa kuti akhala ndi msana wanga nthawi zonse. Sindinakhalepo ndi chidaliro chokwanira pamene tinali pachibwenzi. Ukwati udasintha moyo wanga mwanjira imeneyi.
Kudzimva kuti ndinu amembala
"Sindinachoke kubanja lililonse kupita kubanja lalikulu," a Charlotte, 35, amagawana nafe. "Tili pachibwenzi ndimadziwa kuti Ryan amachokera kubanja lalikulu, logwirizana, lachikatolika, koma sindinamvepo gawo lakale nthawi imeneyo. Ngati sindinkafuna kupita ku umodzi wa madyerero awo kapena maphwando, sizinali zazikulu kwenikweni. Tinali chibwenzi chabe. Ndinali ndekha mwana ndipo sindinadziwepo kwenikweni momwe zimakhalira ndikukhala ndi banja lalikulu.
Titalowa m'banja, zinali ngati kuti sindimakwatirana ndi Ryan komanso banja lake lonse. Ndipo adanditenga ngati kuti ndine m'bale wawo. Zinali zodabwitsa kumva malingaliro amtunduwu. Ndikumva kukhala wodalitsika kuti anthu ambiri ali ndi ine. Khalidwe langa lokhala membala ndilomwe lidasintha kwambiri kuyambira pomwe ndidakwatirana ndikuyamba kukwatiwa. ”
Kuyenda kuchokera pamasewera amodzi okhaokha kupita kumasewera amtimu
Richard, wazaka 54, akulongosola kusintha kwake kwakukulu monga "kuchoka pa sewero limodzi kupita ku masewera a timu". Iye anati: “Poyamba ndinali wodziimira payekha. “Ndinkaganiza kuti kukhala mfulu ndi chinthu chachikulu padziko lapansi. Palibe amene ndiyenera kudzinenera, nditha kupita ndikadapanda kuyankha mlandu.
Ndipo kenako ndinakumana ndikumukonda Belinda ndipo zonse zinasintha. Titakwatirana, ndinazindikira kuti tonse awiri tinkagwirizana, ndipo ndinkasangalala ndikakhala kuti sindili ndekha.
Amuna ena amadandaula za 'mkazi kukhala mpira ndi unyolo kuzungulira bondo lawo', koma kwa ine, ndizosiyana. Lingaliro loti tonse awiri timagwirira ntchito limodzi, kwa ine, ndilo kusintha kwakukulu nditakwatirana, ndipo ndichisangalalo changa chachikulu. ”
Kusintha kwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri
Walter, wazaka 39, akutiuza kuti zomwe adaziika patsogolo zidasintha atakwatirana. "M'mbuyomu, ndinkangokhalira kuganizira za kupita patsogolo kwanga pantchito. Ndinagwira ntchito maola ochuluka modabwitsa, ndimalola kusamutsidwa ngati zikutanthauza ndalama zambiri komanso udindo wapamwamba, ndikupatsa moyo wanga kampaniyo.
Koma nditakwatirana, zonsezi zimawoneka ngati zazing'ono.
Ukwati umatanthauza kuti sizinali za ine zokha, koma za ife.
Chifukwa chake, zisankho zanga zonse pantchito ndimapanga ndi mkazi wanga, ndipo timaganizira zomwe zingathandize banja lathu. Sindikuikanso patsogolo ntchito yanga. Zomwe ndimaika patsogolo kunyumba, ndi mkazi wanga ndi ana anga. Ndipo sindikanakhala ndi njira ina iliyonse. ”
Zosintha m'moyo wogonana
"Mukudziwa chomwe chidasintha ndikakwatirana?" akufunsa Rachel, wazaka 27. "Moyo wanga wogonana! Monga mayi wosakwatiwa, sindinamve kuti ndili otetezeka mokwanira ndi anzanga kuti titha kumasuka ndikusangalala ndi zinthu zogona.
Ndinkadzidera nkhawa ndipo ndinali ndi nkhawa kuti bwenzi langa lingakhale likuganiza chiyani. Koma okwatirana ndi china chosiyana.
Mumakhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu amene mumamukondadi ndi kumkhulupirira.
Izi zimandilola kuti ndikhale ndi mwayi wokumana ndi zokumana nazo zatsopano, ndikupangitsani zinthu zatsopano zosangalatsa, ndipo ndisachite mantha kuti andiganiza zoipa. Zachidziwikire, sitikuzembera paphwando kuti tigonane m'chipinda chogona, koma tikugona maola kumapeto kwa sabata kuti tipeze chisangalalo chomwe chilipo pakugonana.
Sindingasinthanitse izi ndi moyo wanga wogonana ndisanakwatirane ndi ndalama zambiri padziko lonse lapansi! ”