Zamkati
Anthu ambiri okwatirana amadziwa kufunika kokhala ndi zibwenzi m'banja lawo, koma ena sangamvetse kukula kwakuthupi komwe kumalimbitsa banja lawo.
Sizinyumba zinayi zokha za chipinda chanu chogona zomwe zimafunikira kukhudzika ndi kukondana. Pali madera ndi mphindi m'moyo wanu zomwe zingagwiritsenso ntchito chikondi china chakuthupi. Kuyambira ndi chipinda chogona kenako ndikusunthira panja, tiyeni tiwone zina mwazachikondi chanu zomwe zimalakalaka kukhudzidwa.
Chipinda chogona
Izi zitha kukhala zowonekeratu, koma tonse tikudziwa momwe kutentha komwe kumakhudzira ubale wanu kumatha kuzirala pakapita nthawi. Khalani owona mtima ndipo mukudziwa kusowa kwanu pachibwenzi zaka zikamapita ndipo mudzakhala okonzeka kukonza moyo wanu wogonana. Mukanyalanyaza kusowa kwaubwenzi, kapena mukukhulupirira kuti ibwerera momwe idakhalira, mudzakulitsa kusowa kwakuthupi pachibwenzi chanu. Njira yokhayo yomwe isinthike ndikuchita mwadala kuchokera kwa inu ndi mnzanu.
Zosachita zokha
Njira yokhayo yothetsera kugonana ndiyofunika kuti muzitha kuchita zogonana. Khalani wamtchire kwambiri. Khalani openga kwambiri. Ndinadabwa ndi wokondedwa wanu monga momwe mukanakhalire mukanakhala ndi zaka 20. Sikuti uwu ndi upangiri woyipa, koma tivomerezane; tikamakula, luso lathu lodzipangira chabe limangotuluka.Chaka chilichonse chikamadutsa, timakhala omasuka ndikumachita zinthu. Zomwe "sungaphunzitse galu wakale zidule zatsopano" sizikugwira ntchito kwa anzathu a canine okha. Lamulo longa "Khalani Wokha!" sizingalimbikitse kusintha kwakukulu pamachitidwe anu.
Ndandanda yogonana
M'malo mongonena kuti ndikumva kuti simukuchitapo kanthu, tiyeni tikambirane za njira yomwe imakopa chidwi cha munthu yemwe ali m'njira zawo: konzani zogonana kwanu. Tsopano, ndikudziwa kuti izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zotsutsana ndi kugonana komweko, koma khalani ndi ine. Anthu ambiri amawona kugonana ngati chinthu choyenera kukhala chochitika mwachilengedwe, ndipo mwakukhala ndi ndandanda yake, mungakhale mukuchotsa izi. Komabe, ngati simukuyanjana ndi mnzanu, kupanga ndandanda kungakhale kofunikira kuti zinthu ziyambenso kuyenda bwino.
Kukhudza kwakuthupi sikuli kwa masewera monga momwe kunaliri ku koleji. Muukwati wanu ndi chida chofunikira kuti inu ndi mnzanu mukhale ogwirizana. Kukonzekera kugonana kwanu kumatha kukhala kovuta pachiyambi, koma mukadzakhala gawo lanu lazomwe mungachite, kumadzakupatsani mwayi wopambana pachibwenzi chanu. Limbikitsani kukhudza kwanu m'chipinda chanu powonetsetsa kuti chimachitika. Chotsani ndondomekoyi ndikukonzekera gawo lanu lotsatira zogonana lero.
M'nyumba mwanu monse
Pali malo ambiri m'nyumba mwanu momwe inu ndi mnzanu mungapangire kukhudzana kwakuthupi. Anthu ena okwatirana amangogwiranagwirana ndi kupsompsonana m'mawa wabwino ndikupsompsona usiku wabwino. Sikuti awa ndi mwayi wokhawo masana kukhala okondana, ndikuti chizolowezicho chawonongeka chifukwa cha zochitika izi.
M'malo mofikira pang'ono, yang'anani madera ena m'nyumba mwanu omwe mungayandikire. Ngati mukuphika chakudya chamadzulo limodzi, pakhoza kukhala kukhudzika kwakanthawi kachitidwe konse! Sayenera kukhala yogonana, mwina. Kungakhale kukupsompsonani tsaya lanu la mkazi wanu pamene mukungoyendayenda pamene amakonzekera kudya. Mwina ndikukupukuta amuna anu kumbuyo kapena m'mapewa pomwe akuyimirira pamwamba pa chitofu. Kukhudza kwakuthupi ndikungolumikizana kwa mphamvu pakati panu. Ndi mawu osafotokoza kuti "Ndabwera nanu." Popanda zovuta zazing'onozi, mumangotsala pang'ono kukambirana. Ngakhale mutakhala mphamvu yanu, kukhudza pang'ono pakati pa kusinthana kumakulitsa kukondana kwa zokambirana.
Pezani mphindi ngati izi kuti muwonjezere kuchuluka kwakukhudza kwanu. Zitha kukhala pomwe mukugwira ntchito zapakhomo, kuwonera TV, kapena kuwerenga buku. Nthawi zosavuta zimatha kupitilizidwa ndikungogwira, kukumbatira, kapena kupaka mwachikondi.
Kunja kwanyumba yanu
Njira imodzi yolimbikitsira ubale wanu wakunja ndikunyumba ndikuyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi. Kuphatikizana wina ndi mnzake kukwera, kuthamanga, kapena kulimbitsa thupi kulimbitsa thupi kumatha kukhala chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri. Mutha kulimbikitsana m'maganizo ndi mwakuthupi pamene nonse mukuyeserera kumapeto amodzi. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kwawonetsedwanso kuti ndi aphrodisiac, chifukwa chake mukamachita zolimbitsa thupi, ndiye kuti mudzakhala wamphamvu kwambiri kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Njira ina yothandizira kukhudzana kwanu mukakhala kunja kwa nyumba ndikupanga PDA. Tikamakula, timakonda kupewa anthu omwe amawonetsa chikondi pang'ono pagulu. Koma ndikuganiza kuti gawo lodana nalo limabwera chifukwa cha kusatetezeka kwathu komwe sitingathe kutero ndi anzathu. Timamva ngati zingakhale zosayenera. Timaganiza kuti ndife okalamba kwambiri pamakhalidwe oterewa. Ndizo zomwe zina 20 zimachita, sitingakhale ngati iwo, sichoncho? Cholakwika.
Kuwonetsa chikondi cha mnzanu pagulu kumatha kuchita zinthu ziwiri zodabwitsa:
- Amamva chikondi kuchokera pakukhudza kwanu, kaya kukumbatirana, kupsompsona, kapena dzanja lomwe likugwiridwa. Zidzawasangalatsa ndi kuwapangitsa kumva kuti ali pafupi nanu.
- Amadzimva ngati chuma chamtengo wapatali. Ngati mukuwonetsa mnzanu chikondi pagulu, mukuwonetsa anthu okuzungulirani kuti ndinu wonyada kuti munthu ameneyo ayime pafupi ndi iwe. Mukuwawonetsa ndipo ziwapangitsa kukhala osangalala ndi kupembedza kwa inu.
Osapeputsa mphamvu ya PDA yoyikidwa bwino. Sindikukuuzani kuti muvule wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala njira yanu wina ndi mnzake pakati pa kanema. Ingopanganani mfundo yolumikizana. Ndi liti pamene mwampsompsona mkazi wanu pagulu? Ndi liti pamene munayenda limodzi ndi amuna anu?
Ziribe kanthu komwe mukupanga mfundo yoti muzilumikizana kwambiri, mvetsetsani kuti zonsezi zidzapangitsa kuti mukhale ogonana kwambiri mchipinda chogona. Pogwirana panja pa chipinda chogona, simungamve kuti ndinu omangika kapena osayanjananso poyambitsa kulumikizana kuchipinda. Yambani kugwira anthu anzanu! Amafuna kumva chikondi ... kwenikweni.