Zamkati
- 1. Khalani mwamuna wabwino
- 2. Khalani munthu wabwino
- 3. Phunzitsani mwana wanu kugwira ntchito
- 4. Perekani nthawi yanu
- 5. Nthabwala mozungulira
- 6. Perekani dongosolo lokwanira
- 7. Mverani
- 8. Onetsani chikondi
- 9. Muziwalimbikitsa
- 10. Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe
Zikuwoneka ngati Tsiku la Amayi limapeza chidwi chonse. Zachidziwikire, amayi akuyenera kukondwerera pazonse zomwe amachita-zomwe ndizambiri. Koma bwanji za atate? Kodi samachitiranso zambiri kwa ana awo? Zachidziwikire, abambo ambiri amathera masiku awo ali kutali ndi kwawo, akugwira ntchito kuti athandize mabanja awo. Izi mwa izo zokha ndi umboni wa momwe amawakondera.
Koma kukhala bambo wabwino kumafuna zambiri. Ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti munthawi yochepa yomwe muli ndi ana anu yomwe simukuchita zokwanira, musataye mtima. Pafupifupi bambo aliyense amakhala ndi nkhawa zomwezo. Chifukwa chake yesani kuti musadandaule kwambiri. M'malo mwake, yang'anani pa zomwe mungathe. Nawa maupangiri 10 omwe angakuthandizeni kukhala bambo wabwino kwambiri momwe mungakhalire.
1. Khalani mwamuna wabwino
Mutha kudabwa kumva izi, koma kuyika mkazi wanu patsogolo ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera bambo wabwino. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mukuwonetsa mwana wanu momwe ubale wabwino umagwirira ntchito mwachitsanzo. Palibe chomwe chimalankhula zambiri kwa mwana kuposa kuwona momwe china chake chimagwirira ntchito.
Mukayika banja lanu patsogolo, mumatumiza uthenga kwa mwana wanu kuti ndikofunika kwa inu. Mwana ameneyo amakula akudziwa kuti umakonda mkazi wako, ndipo mwana wako adzawona zotsatira zake pamaso pa mkazi wako komanso machitidwe ake.
2. Khalani munthu wabwino
Apanso ndi chinthu chachitsanzo. Mwana wanu amakhala akukuyang'anirani nthawi zonse, akuwona momwe mumachitira zinthu mosiyanasiyana. Mwana wanu amafunika kuwona momwe mumakhalira pamavuto kuti athe kutengera khalidweli. Ngati ndinu munthu wabwino amene mumathandiza ena, kutsatira lamulo, woona mtima, komanso wokoma mtima, mosakayikira mudzakhala bambo wabwino pochita izi. Mudzakhala patsogolo polera nzika yabwino monga inu nokha.
3. Phunzitsani mwana wanu kugwira ntchito
Tsiku lina mwana wanu akachoka panyumba ndi kupita kukakhala yekha, kodi chofunikira kwambiri ndi chiyani? Makhalidwe antchito. Mwana wanu amafunika kuti azitha kudzisamalira kuti azitha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Izi zimatha kubwera chifukwa chogwira ntchito molimbika. Chifukwa chake tulutsani makeke ndikupita kunyumba limodzi. Bambo wabwino amagwira ntchito pafupi ndi mwana wake, kumamuwonetsa momwe angagwirire ntchito ndikumuphunzitsa kufunika kogwira ntchito molimbika. Chitsanzo chanu chimafotokoza zambiri.
4. Perekani nthawi yanu
Ndikosavuta kungobwera kunyumba pambuyo pa ntchito ndi veg. Koma tangoganizirani zomwe mwana wanu amafuna koposa china chilichonse padziko lapansi? Nthawi yanu. Nthawi zambiri, zilibe kanthu kuti nonse awiri mumachita chiyani pamodzi, koma kukhala pamodzi kukuwonetsa chikondi chanu ngati bambo.
Chifukwa chake yambitsani masewera apamtunda, pitani limodzi pa njinga, onerani makanema pa YouTube kuti mwana wanu asekere - sangalalani posinkhasinkha zomwe nonse mumakonda kuchita limodzi ndikupanga chizolowezi.
5. Nthabwala mozungulira
Osapeputsa mphamvu ya nthabwala ya abambo! Ndi zomwe abambo amayenera, sichoncho? Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuseka ndi nthabwala — moyenerera, kumene — chifukwa kwenikweni, moyo ndi chiyani ngati sakusangalala nawo? Kukhoza kuseka ndi nthabwala kungathandize mwana wanu munthawi yamavuto komanso pamavuto. Ndipo palibe ngati kuseka limodzi.
6. Perekani dongosolo lokwanira
Ana amayang'ana kwa abambo awo kuti akhazikitse magawo amoyo wawo wonse. Malamulo ndi malire ndi gawo lofunikira pakukula kwa mwana. Zimawathandiza kuti azimva otetezeka, chifukwa amatha kudalira zomwe zichitike. Ndondomeko za tsiku ndi tsiku, malamulo apanyumba, ndi zina zambiri, ndi zinthu zonse zoti mukambirane ndi mwana wanu. Ndichinthu chofunikira kuti ayesedwe. Ndipo mwana wanu ayesa malire! Kuswa malamulo kuyenera kubwera ndi zotsatirapo, mwina zakulanda mwayi.
7. Mverani
Monga akulu, timangodziwa bwino. Tadutsa kale zonsezi. Ana athu, komabe, ali ndi kuzindikira, ndipo ayenera kukhala amtima. Amafuna kutsimikizika kwanu. Chifukwa chake yesetsani kumvetsera kuposa momwe mumalankhulira. Mukufuna kuti mwana wanu azikukhulupirirani ngati bambo awo, ndipo kudalirika sikungachitike ngati saloledwa kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu. Chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti akumva kukhala otetezeka.
8. Onetsani chikondi
Gwirani ana anu! Auzeni kuti mumawakonda. Chitani zinthu mwachikondi, monga kuwapatsa nthawi yanu, kuwauza zomwe mumawakonda, kuchita zomwe akufuna kuchita, ndi njira zina zambiri. Koposa zonse, mwana wanu amafuna chikondi chanu.
9. Muziwalimbikitsa
Kodi mwana wanu amatha chiyani? Auzeni kawirikawiri. Onani zinthu zazing'ono, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mwatchulapo zomwe mumazindikira. Alimbikitseni pantchito yawo yasukulu, masewera othamanga, luso la tsiku ndi tsiku, luso laubwenzi, ndi zina zambiri. Chilimbikitso chaching'ono kuchokera kwa abambo chithandizira kwambiri kukulitsa chidaliro komanso mwana wachimwemwe.
10. Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe
Kodi mungakhale atate wangwiro? Kodi changwiro ndi chiyani? Zonse ndi zachibale. Chokhacho chomwe mungachite ndichabwino kwanu. Monga bambo watsopano wokhala ndi mwana, sizingakhale zochuluka. Koma mumaphunzira mukamapita. Kodi sizowona? Kukhala ndi ana sikutanthauza kukomoka mtima. Zili ngati kupeza digiri pazaka zopitilira 18+, koma ngakhale mutazindikira kuti mulibe mayankho onse. Koma kodi simungakhale ndi nthawi yodabwitsa kuyesa?