Zamkati
- 1. Kuvomereza
- 2. Kusamala
- 3. Kudzipereka
- 4. Chifundo
- 5. Kuganizira
- 6. Kukhutira
- 7. Mgwirizano
- 8. Ulemu
- 9. Chilimbikitso
- 10. Chilungamo
- 11. Chikhulupiriro
- 12. Kusinthasintha
- 13. Kukhululuka
- 14. Kupatsa
- 15. Kuyamikira
- 16. Kuthandiza
- 17. Kukhulupirika
- 18. Chiyembekezo
- 19. Chimwemwe
- 20. Kukoma mtima
- 21. Chikondi
- 22. Kukhulupirika
- 23. Kuleza mtima
- 24. Kudalirika
- 25. Ulemu
- 26. Udindo
- 27. Kudziletsa
- 28. Kuchenjera
- 29. Kudalira
- 30. Kumvetsetsa
Banja lililonse lachikhristu liyenera kudziwa kuti ukwati wachikhristu wopambana kapena ukwati wachikhristu wabwino ungabwere pokhapokha pakupanga Yesu kukhala malo amoyo wawo limodzi.
Makhalidwe abwino achikhristu, komanso Makhalidwe abwino a m'banja kuti watipatsa tonse, ndi zida zamphamvu zopangira ubale wogwirizana komanso wokhalitsa.
Nkhaniyi ili ndi ziphunzitso zachikhristu 30 pazinthu zofunika m'banja zomwe ndizofunikira kuti mumange banja laumulungu.
1. Kuvomereza
Palibe munthu wangwiro. Tonsefe tili ndi zofooka zathu. Landirani mnzanu momwe alili, ndipo musayese kusintha wina ndi mnzake.
2. Kusamala
Khalani ndi nthawi yokwatirana, kulankhulana, ndi kugwirana chanza ndi mnzanu monga momwe mudali pachibwenzi. Nenani kuti "Ndimakukondani": tsiku lililonse ndikuchitirana zinthu zabwino wina ndi mnzake kuti musonyeze kuti mumasamala.
3. Kudzipereka
Chidutswa cha malangizo aukwati aumulungu kuti banja liziyenda bwino Kwa anthu okwatirana ndikuti ayenera kudzipereka kwathunthu ku banja ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi pakupanga mgwirizano wamphamvu pakati pawo.
4. Chifundo
Maanja akuyenera kutengana ndi maganizidwe a wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala okonzeka kutonthozana ndi kuthandizana pa nthawi ya mavuto, mavuto ndi zovuta.
5. Kuganizira
Mukakwatirana, simusankha zochita paokha. Malamulo a m'Baibulo aukwati amatiphunzitsa kuti maanja akuyenera kulingalira za malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake ndikukambirana zonse zomwe akufuna kupanga.
6. Kukhutira
Wina Ukwati wachikhristu ndi ubale wabwino akunena kuti mutha kulotera zinthu zabwino mtsogolo koma muyenera kuphunzira kukhala osangalala ndikukhutira ndi zomwe muli nazo kale.
7. Mgwirizano
Ubale wachikhristu umakhala wolimba kwambiri ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi wake agwirira ntchito limodzi. Mabanjawa amagwira ntchito limodzi osati kutsutsana wina ndi mnzake pamavuto onse omwe amakumana nawo.
Onerani kanemayo pamakhalidwe achikhristu
8. Ulemu
Kuyesa ulemu wa aliyense kumathandiza maanja kukwaniritsa malonjezo awo chifukwa sakufuna kuchita chilichonse chowononga malonjezo awo.
9. Chilimbikitso
Maanja akuyenera kuphunzira kulimbikitsana kuti azichita zinthu zomwe zimawasangalatsa. Mikhalidwe yotere muukwati idzawathandiza kuti athe kulimbikitsana munthawi yomwe angafunike kwambiri.
10. Chilungamo
Chisankho chilichonse chomwe banjali likuyenera kuchita chiyenera kukhala chachilungamo kwa onse mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chilichonse chimagawana pakati pawo.
11. Chikhulupiriro
Banja likakhala ndi chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu ndipo amatenga nthawi yopemphera limodzi, amamanga chomangira chauzimu chomwe chimawapangitsa kuyandikira kwa Mulungu komanso kwa wina ndi mnzake.
12. Kusinthasintha
Mabanja achikhristu ayenera kuphunzitsana, kusintha, ndi kudzimana kuti azikhala mogwirizana m'banja lawo.
13. Kukhululuka
Aliyense amalakwitsa. Mfundo zachikhristu za muukwati zimasonyeza kuti ngati mwamuna ndi mkazi amakondanadi, amakhala okonzeka kukhululukirana ngati akufuna kuti banja lawo liziyenda bwino.
Kukhululukirana ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti banja likhale lopambana komanso lokhutiritsa.
14. Kupatsa
M'banja lachikhristu, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kukhala okonzeka kukwaniritsa zosowa za okwatirana. Kaya ndi zinthu zakuthupi, nthawi yocheza kapena ngakhale kugonana, aliyense ayenera kuzipereka.
15. Kuyamikira
Pulogalamu ya Malangizo abwino okwatirana achikhristu zomwe ndingakupatseni ndikuphunzira kunena "Zikomo" kwa mnzanu. Kusonyeza kuyamikira kudzachita zodabwitsa paubwenzi wanu.
16. Kuthandiza
Zinthu zimakhala zophweka kwambiri ngati maanja akuthandizana pa ntchito zawo. Monga gawo lodzipereka tsiku ndi tsiku kwa okwatirana, ayenera kukhala okonzeka nthawi zonse kuthandiza okondedwa awo nthawi iliyonse yomwe angathe.
17. Kukhulupirika
Maanja akuyenera kukambirana chilichonse ndi anzawo. Kukhala owona mtima momwe mumamvera pazochitika zilizonse kudzakuthandizani nonse kuthetsa vuto lililonse lomwe muyenera kukumana nalo.
18. Chiyembekezo
Akristu okwatirana ayenera kutero khalani gwero la chiyembekezo ndi chiyembekezo. Izi zimawathandiza onse kupitabe patsogolo ngakhale akukumana ndi mayesero.
19. Chimwemwe
Tengani nthawi yakuseka ndikusewera ndi mnzanu. Pewani kuganizira kwambiri zinthu zoyipa ndikuyesetsa kuti mphindi iliyonse ikhale yokumbukira bwino.
20. Kukoma mtima
Maanja akuyenera kuphunzira kukhala okoma kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pewani mawu opweteka, kufuula, ndi machitidwe okhumudwitsa. Ngati mumakondadi munthu simudzachita chilichonse chowakwiyitsa kapena kuwapangitsa kuti azimva kuti sakondedwa.
21. Chikondi
Ngakhale banja litamenyana, ayenera kukumbutsa za chikondi chawo kwa wina ndi mzake ndikulola kuti izi ziziwatsogolera nthawi zonse.
22. Kukhulupirika
Anthu okwatirana ayenera kukhala okhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake ndipo osachita chilichonse kuti awononge lonjezo lomwe adalichita pamaso pa Mulungu.
23. Kuleza mtima
Pakakhala kusamvana ndi zolakwa, maanja sayenera kulola mkwiyo ndi kukhumudwa kuwagonjetsa. M'malo mwake, ayenera kukhala oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake ndi kuganizira kuthetsa mavuto pamodzi.
24. Kudalirika
Maanja akuyenera kudalirana pa nthawi ya mavuto. Iliyonse ndi njira yothandizira ndi gwero la mphamvu.
25. Ulemu
Okwatirana achikhristu ayenera nthawi zonse muzilemekezana kuwonetsa momwe amathandizirana wina ndi mnzake.
26. Udindo
Amuna ndi akazi omwe ali mbanja lachikhristu ali ndi udindo wawo wawo wawo. Ndipo aliyense achite mbali yake kuti akhalebe ndi ubale wabwino.
27. Kudziletsa
Maanja akuyenera kuphunzira kuletsa zofuna zawo. Ayenera kuthana ndi ziyeso ndikukhala moyo wachilungamo.
28. Kuchenjera
Maanja ayenera nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuyankhulana wina ndi mnzake mwaulemu komanso modekha. Sankhani mawu anu ngakhale mutakhala okwiya kuti musapwetekane.
29. Kudalira
M'banja lachikhristu, onse ayenera kuphunzira kukhulupirirana komanso kuyesetsa kukhala odalirika.
30. Kumvetsetsa
Pomaliza, maanja akuyenera kumvetsetsana. Muyenera kuthetsa chilichonse limodzi mutamverana wina ndi mnzake ndikuvomerezana momwe mulili.
Makhalidwe abwino onsewa ndi ziphunzitso zachikhulupiriro chachikhristu ndipo amadzionetsera ngati Ukwati wachikhristu umathandiza maanja osowa.
Ngati mukukhala moyo wokwatirana ndi maphunziro awa ndiye kuti mutha kupanga ubale wolimba, wachimwemwe, komanso wokhalitsa womwe munganyadire nawo.