Zamkati
- 1. Sankhani suti yangwiro
- 2. Dulani tsitsi
- 3. Kugona mokwanira ndi kudya moyenera
- 4. Lembani zolemba zazing'ono zachikondi
- 5. Konzani zoyeserera
- 6. Konzekerani malonjezo anu
- 7. Khalani okonzekera zochitika pamoyo wanu
Tsiku lanu laukwati likhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanu. Ngakhale mkwatibwi ndiye wofunika kwambiri patsiku laukwati, kuyang'ana bwino paukwati sikuyenera kungokhala kwa mkwatibwi yekha. Monga mkwati, inunso nthawi yanu kuti mukhale m'gulu la owonekera.
Kuyambira pamankhwala odzikongoletsa mpaka pakodzola zodzoladzola, amuna akhala olimba mtima komanso owongoka akakhala owoneka bwino. Kukonzekera kosanachitike ukwati usanachitike kapena kukonzekera ukwati usanachitike kungakonzedwe kwa mkwati.
Kuwoneka opanda cholakwika si ntchito yazimayi yokhayokha, ngakhale amunawa adziyesera okha kuti aziwoneka opanda cholakwika.
Pamene tsiku lalikulu likuyandikira, chilichonse chaching'ono chikukonzekera kukhala changwiro. Ngati ndinu wamasiku ano mwina mungadzifunse kuti:
“Kodi mkwati amakonzekera bwanji ukwati?”
"Malangizo asanakwatirane kapena malangizo aukwati kwa mkwati ndi ati?"
Nawa maupangiri 7 okonzekera ukwati usanachitike kuti akuthandizeni kuyankha funsoli.
1. Sankhani suti yangwiro
Malangizo oyamba asanakwatirane ndikuwoneka bwino tsiku lomwelo ndipo suti yanu idzakhala chovala chofunikira kwambiri atavala mkwatibwi, kumene. Onetsetsani kuti mwapeza suti yoyenerera bwino yomwe imakwaniritsa kalembedwe ndikumverera kwaukwati komanso mtundu wamitundu.
Khalani suti yachikale kapena yamasiku ano sankhani nsalu yoyenera malinga ndi nyengo, simukufuna kuzizira kwambiri kapena kutentha kwambiri. Kumbukirani malo ndi ukwati wanu komanso. Kumbukirani kutero sankhani zovala zoyenera kuti zithandizire pa sutiyi monga tayi, lamba, komanso ma cufflinks.
2. Dulani tsitsi
Palibe chonga kumetedwa bwino kukupangitsani kuti muwoneke okonzeka. Koma osazisiya mpaka dzulo lake. Pitani kwa akatswiri ometa tsitsi kuti mudulidwe ndikumeta pafupi sabata limodzi ukwati usanachitike ndipo ngati nthawi ikuloleza muchepetse pang'ono m'mawa waukwati limodzi ndi omwe mumawakonda kwambiri.
Monga gawo lakukonzekera ukwati usanachitike kwa mkwati, ndikofunikira kuti udziwe mawonekedwe a nkhope yako ndikumetedwa komwe kungakuyamikire kwambiri. Pamodzi ndi kumeta tsitsi, mutha kunola ndevu zanu, popeza muli nazo.
Inu sangayende bwino ndi mawonekedwe atsopano a nkhope yoyera koma ndevu zosetedwa bwino zitha kukupangitsani kuyang'ana kwanu m'mphepete momwe mukufunira.
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
3. Kugona mokwanira ndi kudya moyenera
Onetsetsani kuti mwapumula bwino tsiku lalikulu likadzafika. Palibe makanema apakatikati komanso ndandanda zosasinthasintha. Maola osachepera asanu ndi awiri mpaka asanu ndi anayi ogona amalimbikitsidwa komanso kudya chakudya chopatsa thanzi komanso chopatsa thanzi zipatso, ndiwo zamasamba, tirigu wathunthu, ndi nyama yopanda mafuta. Uku ndikofunikira kukonzekera chisanachitike ukwati kwa mkwati aliyense.
Imwani madzi ambiri ndipo ngati mumasuta mwina mungasiye kanthawi kapena osazisunga mpaka ukwati wanu. Zonsezi zidzawonjezera kumverera kwanu kokhala bwino patsiku lanu lofunika.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pang'ono. Musayese kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi mopitilira muyeso kapena kuwonjezera mphamvu zanu zolimbitsa thupi. Kukhala ndi mawonekedwe kungakupangitseni kuwoneka bwino koma osapitirira malire kapena kungasokoneze thanzi lanu.
4. Lembani zolemba zazing'ono zachikondi
Pulogalamu ya Nthawi yokonzekera ukwati usanakhale nthawi yopanikizika, makamaka kwa bwenzi lanu. Chifukwa chake musaiwale kulemba zolemba zake zazing'ono zachikondi nthawi ndi nthawi. Kungonena kuti “Ndimakukondani” kungathandize kwambiri kusandutsa nthawi yokonzekera iyi kukhala chikumbutso china chamtengo wapatali choti mugawane limodzi.
Mutha kuyambitsa cholembacho ndichikondi chapadera monga 'chodabwitsa cha moyo wanga' ndi nenani china chake motsimikiza kuti musonyeze chikondi chanu za iye. Yesetsani kuti iperekedwe m'manja ndi wina kuti ikhale yapadera kwambiri.
Onetsani kukonda kwanu kwachikondi, pangani tanthauzo lake komanso tanthauzo, ndipo nthawi zonse muzimalize ndi mawu achikondi momwe muli okondwa kukhala naye pamoyo wanu.
5. Konzani zoyeserera
Ukwatiwo umakonzekera limodzi ndi mkwatibwi komanso munthu yemwe azikachita nawo ukwatiwo ndi gawo lofunikira pokhazikitsa aliyense kumasuka kuti nonse mudziwe nthawi komanso malo oti muchite ndikunena zonse. Monga mkwati, mutha kukonza madzulo ano, ndikudya pambuyo pake mwina, ngati phwando laling'ono chisanachitike ukwati.
Muziyeseza ukwati wanu mwachangu, mosavuta, komanso mosapita m'mbali. Kumbukirani kuti ndikubwereza kotero simuyenera kuchita mbali iliyonse yamwambowu. Onetsetsani kuti aliyense ali m'malo mwake kuti adziwe momwe aliyense angasinthire.
Mwamsanga yambirani mwambowu powerenga kuti muwone ngati pali zofunikira zilizonse zomwe zingachitike pamwambowo. Yesetsani kuyenda ndikutuluka kuti aliyense athe kuzolowera komwe ayenera kukhala ndikukhoza kulowa ndikutuluka bwino.
6. Konzekerani malonjezo anu
Ndipo pamenepo pali malonjezo! Masiku ano, ndizodziwika bwino kuti okwatiranawo alembe malonjezo awo. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa malonjezo anu, kapena mukhale ndi chikalata chosindikizidwa kuti muthe kudutsa gawo lofunikira mwambowu.
Yesetsani kuchita malonjezo mokweza, pamaso pagalasi ndikuyesera kuyankhula momveka bwino komanso pang'onopang'ono. Lowetsani malonjezo anu nthawi zonse yang'anani m'maso mwa mnzanu pomwe mumawawerenga paukwati.
7. Khalani okonzekera zochitika pamoyo wanu
Mwina gawo lofunikira kwambiri la mkwati musanakonzekere ukwati wanu lidzakhala mumtima mwanu ndi m'maganizo anu kuti mudzakonzekere zochitika pamoyo wanu. Pamene mukulowa nawo mkwatibwi wanu akumwetulira, dziwani kuti ndinu okonzeka kumupatsa chikondi ndi inu nokha pamene mukuyamba mutu watsopanowu wa moyo wanu limodzi.