Zamkati
- Lingaliro ndi chifukwa chakunyalanyaza kwathunthu
- Zolingalira zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusagwirizana pakati pa anzawo
- Ikani mlatho wolumikizirana
Moyo ukatipatsa zokambirana zofunikira patsogolo, maudindo olumikizirana m'banja amakhala gawo loyamba la maubwenzi omwe amakhudzidwa.
Pofuna kusunga nthawi ndikuchita zinthu zambiri, mwachibadwa timadalira zomwe zanenedwa m'malo mongonena za mnzathu. Izi zitha kubweretsa kusamvana ndikuwonongeka kwakukulu kwa mphamvu.
Ndi kangati mwakhala mukusewera china m'malingaliro mwanu ndikuganiza zotulukapo?
Lingaliro ndi kutchova juga kwamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro komwe nthawi zambiri kumathera kukuyeretsani ndalama zanu zam'maganizo.
Lingaliro ndi chifukwa chakunyalanyaza kwathunthu
Ndi yankho pakusowa komveka, mayankho, kulumikizana koonekera kapena mwina, kunyalanyaza kwathunthu. Palibe chimodzi mwazinthuzi, zomwe ndizophatikiza ubale wolumikizana, womwe umalemekeza malo pakati pa zodabwitsa ndi mayankho.
Lingaliro limakhala lingaliro lopangidwa potengera zochepa za chidwi chomwe sichinayankhidwe. Mukamaganiza, mukulemba lingaliro lomwe lingakhudzidwe kwambiri ndimikhalidwe yanu yamthupi, yamthupi, komanso yamaganizidwe.
Mumadzitsimikizira kuti atha kudalira malingaliro anu (kumva m'matumbo) makamaka chifukwa cha zomwe mudakumana nazo m'mbuyomu.
Zolingalira zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusagwirizana pakati pa anzawo
Chikhulupiriro chofala chikuwoneka kuti ndikuti kukonzekera malingaliro athu pazotsatira zoyipa kumatiteteza mwanjira ina kuti tisapweteke kapena kutipatsa mwayi.
Malingaliro amathandizira kusiyanitsa pakati pa onse omwe akukhudzidwa. Tsopano, malingaliro angakhale abwino kapena olakwika. Koma kwakukulukulu, malingaliro amatenga zosafunika kuposa momwe amafunira, kuti apange malo otetezeka pakakhala ngozi kapena zowawa.
Ngakhale zili munthawi yaumunthu kupanga malingaliro nthawi ndi nthawi, zikafika pokhudzika kwaukwati komanso maubale okhalitsa, zitha kubweretsa mkwiyo ndi zokhumudwitsa zomwe zimasiya onse akumva kuti samamvetsetsa.
Nazi zitsanzo zochepa za malingaliro omwe anthu ambiri amaganiza omwe amabweretsa chisokonezo:
"Ndimaganiza kuti upita kukatenga ana.", "Ndimaganiza kuti mukufuna kutuluka usikuuno." "Ndimaganiza kuti mwandimva.", "Ndimaganiza kuti mundibweretsera maluwa chifukwa mwaphonya tsiku lathu lobadwa.", "Ndimaganiza kuti mukudziwa kuti sindipanga chakudya.", Ndi zina zambiri.
Tsopano, tiyeni tiwone zomwe tingasinthire malingaliro.
Ikani mlatho wolumikizirana
Malo oyamba omwe mungafune kudalira ndikulimba mtima kwanu kuti mufunse mafunso. Zimangokhala zododometsa kuti kangati kufunsa kosavuta kufunsa kwanyalanyazidwa ndikuchotsedwa chifukwa malingaliro amunthu ali otanganidwa kupanga zochitika zingapo zopweteka komanso zopanda cholinga poyesa kutetezera.
Pofunsa timayika mlatho wolumikizirana, makamaka, ngati siwotopetsa zomwe zimatsogolera pakusinthana kwa chidziwitso.
Ndichizindikiro cha luntha, kudzilemekeza, komanso kulimba mtima kuti mulandire zidziwitso zomwe mnzanu amapereka kuti apange chisankho chazovuta zilizonse. Ndiye timangofunsa mafunso kapena kukulitsa chipiriro kudikirira mayankho?
Kukhazikika pagulu ndichinthu chachikulu chomwe chimapangitsa anthu kumalingalira za zomwe anzawo akuchita kapena zomwe amachita.
Malingaliro ndi mphamvu zomwe zimakhudzidwa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi malingaliro, malingaliro, malingaliro, komanso ubale wapakati.
Chifukwa chake, ndi gawo laukwati wabwinobwino komanso womwe umasinthika nthawi zonse, pomwe mutha kudzakumana nanu ndikulemba malingaliro anu kuti muwonetsetse kuti zomwe mumakonda sizikutsogolera zomwe mungaganizire.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri m'maubwenzi aliwonse kuti anthu adzifunse mafunso asanu ndi awiri otsatirawa:
- Kodi malingaliro omwe ndimapanga amatengera zomwe ndakumana nazo m'mbuyomu komanso zomwe ndawona zikuchitika pafupi nane?
- Kodi ndamva chiyani abwenzi anga apamtima akunena za kufufuza zosadziwika?
- Kodi ndikukhala bwanji pakadali pano? Kodi ndili ndi njala, wokwiya, wosungulumwa komanso / kapena wotopa?
- Kodi ndili ndi mbiri yakuchepa ndi zoyembekeza zosakwaniritsidwa muubwenzi wanga?
- Kodi ndimawopa chiyani kwambiri pachibwenzi changa?
- Kodi ndili ndi miyezo yanji pachibwenzi changa?
- Kodi ndalankhulapo za bwenzi langa ndi mnzanga?
Momwe mungayankhire mafunso amenewa zimatsimikizira kuti ndinu wokonzeka kapena wofunitsitsa kuti muyambe kukambirana ndi mnzanuyo ndikulola malo ndi nthawi kuti mumve.
Monga Voltaire ananenera motere: "Sizokhudza mayankho omwe mumapereka, koma mafunso omwe mumafunsa."
Ndichizindikiro chaukwati wokhazikika kukhazikitsa maziko okhulupirirana komanso kutsegula njira pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.