Zamkati
- Nthawi yachisangalalo ikatha
- Zoyembekeza zosiyanasiyana
- Zoona zowululidwa
- Magalasi amtundu wa rozi amatuluka
- Apongozi
- Fufuzani chisankho
- Phunzirani kulankhulana
- Osangotenga zinthu mopepuka
- Khazikitsani malire oyenera
- Pezani chithandizo cha akatswiri
Kupereka uphungu asanakwatirane kumalimbikitsidwa kwa aliyense amene akufuna kukwatirana kuti akonzekere zosintha zomwe zidzachitike m'banja. Zitha kukhala zopindulitsa kwambiri.
Ngakhale zoyesayesa za mnzake zowonjezera mwayi wokwatirana bwino kapena maziko olimba omwe banja lingakhale nawo, chaka choyamba chaukwati ndichosintha ndipo chimadza ndi zovuta. Ngakhale anthu amene sanakwatirane asanakwatirane, nawonso amakhala ndi mavuto ena.
Ili sili mndandanda wonse wamavuto, koma limafotokoza zina mwamavuto omwe akumana nawo kwambiri.
Nthawi yachisangalalo ikatha
Kutsogolera kuukwati weniweni, pakhala pali chisangalalo chochuluka ndikuyembekezera tsiku lalikulu. Banja likamabwerera kuchokera kokasangalala kapena kokasangalala, zenizeni zaukwati zimakhazikika, zomwe zimatha kukhala zosasangalatsa poyerekeza ndi kukongola kwa ukwati ndi tchuthi. Izi zitha kuchititsa kukhumudwa.
Zoyembekeza zosiyanasiyana
Abwenzi sangakhale pa tsamba limodzi pokhudzana ndi kukwaniritsa udindo wa "mwamuna" ndi "mkazi". Maudindo apakhomo adzagawidwa; Pakhoza kukhala kusintha kwakanthawi kogwiritsa ntchito amuna kapena akazi ena akangokwatirana ndipo izi zitha kubweretsa mavuto. Nthawi zambiri zogonana komanso momwe ndalama zidzasamaliridwire (maakaunti ophatikizana motsutsana ndi maakaunti aku banki) ndi malo omwe anthu omwe angolowa kumene m'banja sagwirizana nawo.
Gawo lina losiyana pakuyembekezera mwina ndi nthawi yocheza limodzi. Kupeza mgwirizano wathanzi komanso kudzipatula kumakhala kovuta kuyenda. Okwatirana ena amayembekeza kuti azikhala zofunika kwambiri komanso kuti amuna awo kapena akazi azikhala nthawi yayitali kunyumba kapena limodzi nawo osakhalanso bachelor / bachelorette; winayo sangakhale wofunitsitsa kusintha zomwe amakonda komanso moyo wawo atangokwatirana.
Zoona zowululidwa
Pomwe ali pachibwenzi, wina samatha kukhala kwathunthu chifukwa chodandaula kuti wokondedwa wawo adzathamangira kumapiri ngati akudziwa zolakwika zawo. Mphete itangokhala pachala, m'modzi kapena onse awiri atha kuzindikira kuti ali ndi ufulu wololeza kuti adziwike zenizeni. Wokondedwa wawo angaganize kuti anyengedwa ndipo wanyengedwa ndi "nyambo ndikusintha". Iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yovuta pomwe wina samva kuti akudziwadi munthu amene adadzipereka moyo wawo wonse.
Kudzisamalira kumatha kutenga mpando wakumbuyo pambuyo paukwati.Atakwatirana, mwina wina amadzimva kuti safunikira kupitiliza kuwoneka bwino kapena kudzisamalira monga adachitira kale pomwe panali zovuta zakuti aziwoneka bwino kwambiri paukwati kapena kudera nkhawa za kukopa mnzawoyo poopa kutaya chidwi . Zachidziwikire kuti mawonekedwe sizinthu zonse, koma kuchepa kwa njira yodzisamalira kumathandizira pamavuto abanja. Ukhondo, kudya bwino komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandiza kwambiri kuti munthu akhale ndi thanzi labwino komanso thanzi la mnzake aliyense ndilofunika m'banja.
Magalasi amtundu wa rozi amatuluka
Mwina wokwatirana sasintha, koma zododometsa ndi zikhalidwe za mnzake watsopano zitha kuwakhumudwitsa mwadzidzidzi, pomwe kale anali ololera. Zinthu izi zimatha kukhala zovutitsa kwambiri zikaikidwa pamalingaliro azomwe mungachite nazo kwa nthawi yayitali.
Apongozi
Onse awiri apeza banja (la apongozi) latsopano. Momwe mungasamalire apongozi anu atsopano akhoza kukhala opsinjika chifukwa amadzimva kuti ali ndi ufulu wolowerera muubwenzi kapena mikangano yomwe idalipo ingakulireni atakwatirana. Wina akhoza kumverera ngati wasweka kuti atenge mbali pakakhala kusamvana pakati pa mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo watsopano ndi banja lawo; zotsatira zake, kukhulupirika kudzayesedwa.
Pansipa pali malangizo omwe angakuthandizeni kupulumuka chaka choyamba chokwatirana mukakumana ndi zovuta pamwambapa kapena zina zowonjezera.
Fufuzani chisankho
Osapanga cholakwika chongoganiza kuti zinthu ziziwonongeka kapena kuti zitheke. Palibe amene amakonda kukhala ndi mikangano koma ithetsa mosavuta ngati atafunsidwa liti
ndi yaying'ono osati kuti ikangolowa chipale chofewa kwambiri. Kusintha kungaphatikizepo zokambirana ndikusankha kukhala achimwemwe m'malo molondola.
Phunzirani kulankhulana
Molimba mtima komanso mwaulemu dziwitsani malingaliro, malingaliro, zoyembekezera zanu, ndi zopempha zanu. Palibe wokwatirana amene amawerenga. Kumvetsera kuli ngati
gawo lofunikira pakulankhulana monga kugawana; khalani womvera wabwino.
Osangotenga zinthu mopepuka
Izi zikuphatikizira wina ndi mnzake komanso banja. Zingakhale zophweka kukhala osasamala komanso osayamika. Onetsani momwe mungaonetsere chikondi kwa anzanu ndikuchita izi pafupipafupi.
Khazikitsani malire oyenera
Maluso olumikizirana amathanso kuthandizika pochita ndi apongozi ndi ena omwe angakhale osokoneza. Wina ayenera kukhala wosankha mokhudzana ndi anthu omwe sali pabanja nawo omwe angasankhe kugawana nawo mavuto awo m'banja popeza si onse omwe angakhale osakondera.
Pezani chithandizo cha akatswiri
Sikumachedwa kwambiri kupeza thandizo, koma mwatsoka nthawi zina kumachedwa. Mabanja ambiri amadikirira mpaka patadutsa zaka zambiri akumangokhalira kukangana komanso kusakhutira asanapite upangiri pabanja. Pakadali pano amakhala pamphepete mwa chisudzulo ndipo nthawi zina kuwonongeka kwakukulu (mkwiyo, kutaya chikondi) kwachitika. Katswiri wophunzitsidwa bwino atha kukhala othandiza kuthandiza okwatirana kuthana ndi magawo onsewa, kwinaku akupereka cholingacho, kusalowerera ndale.
Monga china chilichonse choyenera kukhala nacho pamoyo, banja labwino limatenga ntchito. Khalani okonzeka kuyesetsa.
Chidziwitso ndi mphamvu; tikukhulupirira kuti chidziwitsochi chimapereka mavuto omwe angakhalepo (koma osapeweka) oti ayang'anire mchaka choyamba chaukwati komanso njira zothetsera mavutowa posachedwa.