Zamkati
- Amakupatsirani zokumbukirani zaumwini komanso zosangalatsa
- Zomwe simuyenera kukonda zongopeka zogonana?
- 1. Kugonana pagulu
- 2. Kugonana pamalo achilendo
- 3. Ulamuliro ndi Kugonjera
- 4. Kudzimvera
- 5. Chiwonetsero
- 6. Voyeurism
'Zopeka zogonana' nthawi zambiri zimangokhala nkhani zongopeka komanso zomwe nthawi zambiri zimatha kunyalanyazidwa kapena kuseseka pansi pa kabati yaubwenzi kuyambira pachiyambi, koma ngati aliyense angamvetse chinthu chimodzi ichi, miyoyo yachiwerewere yokhazikika komanso mitu yankhanza muubwenzi idzakhala chinthu zakale.
Chifukwa chake tifika pofika pomwepo kuti tithandizenso kukonda zodziwika bwino zogonana amuna ndi akazi.
Nayi lamulo lomwe aliyense ayenera kudziwa pongoganiza zogonana; aliyense ali ndi zozizwitsa, ndipo amuna ndi akazi ambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro ofanana ogonana. Zomwe zikutanthauza kuti nonse mwina mukuyimba nyimbo yofanana kuyambira pachiyambi!
Mwinanso mungadabwe kuzindikira kuti zambiri zomwe mumaganizira zogonana ndizofatsa modabwitsa ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kubweretsa muubwenzi wanu.
Amakupatsirani zokumbukirani zaumwini komanso zosangalatsa
Malingaliro akugonana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsira moyo wanu wogonana, ndikudzilimbitsa nokha komanso mnzanu; zimawonjezera kukondana kwambiri, kulumikizana, komanso kusangalala pa moyo wanu wogonana komanso zimakupatsirani zokumbukira zaumwini ndi zokongola zomwe mutha kuwonjezera pokumbukira za banja lanu.
Zolakalaka zakugonana zimayambanso moyo wanu wogonana zimakupangitsaninso inu ndi mnzanu kukhala omasuka, otakataka komanso osangalatsa.
Zomwe simuyenera kukonda zongopeka zogonana?
Mudzadabwa kuwona kuti malingaliro ena wamba ogonana omwe amuna ndi akazi amakhala ofatsa komanso osavuta kupezeka - ngakhale amanyazi. Pali zina zomwe mwina sizingaganiziridwe kukhala zoyenera pa banja, koma sizitanthauza kuti sangakambirane ndi mnzanu kuti mumve zambiri zaubwenzi, kulumikizana komanso kukometsera moyo wanu wogonana pongolankhula zosangalatsa.
Sikuti zopeka zilizonse zogonana zimayenera kuchitidwa.
Nazi zitsanzo 6 za malingaliro otchuka kwambiri ogonana omwe amuna ndi akazi amasangalala nawo. Tili otsimikiza kuti ena mwa awa adzakupatsani magazi, komanso mitima ikuthamanga.
1. Kugonana pagulu
Zitseko, misewu yamdima, minda ya chimanga, malo osungira zachilengedwe, pa khonde la hotelo, mabafa apagulu, ndi malo owonetsera makanema onse atchulidwa kuti ndi malo odziwika bwino a anthu othamanga pakona.
Mwina ndichisangalalo chogwidwa kapena momwe malo atsopanowa amalimbikitsira chidwi chomwe chimapangitsa kuti malingaliro azakugonana awa akhale otchuka kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, ndizosakhalitsa, komanso zowoneka bwino, zoganiza zachiwerewere zomwe mungayesere nthawi yomweyo, ngakhale zitakhala kuseli kwanu tsopano!
2. Kugonana pamalo achilendo
Izi zongopeka zogonana zitha kuonedwa kuti ndizofanana ndi zogonana 'pagulu', koma sizofanana.
Pachifukwa ichi, ganizirani pamwamba pa makina ochapira zovala, kapena m'malo osiyanasiyana omwe si chipinda chogona koma komabe.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, mchitidwe wogonana womwe ukuwoneka ngati wachilengedwe uli pamwamba pamndandanda wazokonda zogonana amuna ndi akazi - sooo, mukuyembekezera chiyani?
Iyi ndi njira yotsimikizika yamoto yokometsera moyo wanu wogonana nthawi yomweyo!
3. Ulamuliro ndi Kugonjera
Chabwino, ndiye kuti izi ndi malingaliro awiri ogonana, koma amuna ndi akazi nthawi zambiri amafuna kulamulidwa kapena kugonjera.
Ena atha kuyatsidwa ndi lingaliro lokhala ndi mphamvu zonse pa wokondedwa wawo; ena atha kuyatsidwa ndikutumiza. Zachidziwikire, zina mwazinthu zomwe zimakhudzidwa zitha kulowa m'malingaliro azakugonana monga voyeurism, kunyalanyaza, kapena kuwonetsa.
Onetsetsani kuti mumadalirana ndikukhala ndi mawu achinsinsi a nthawi yomwe mukufuna kapena muyenera kusiya, ndipo malingaliro azakugonana awa ayenera kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri.
4. Kudzimvera
Kugwiritsa ntchito zotchinga m'maso, mahedifoni oletsa phokoso, komanso zomangira m'manja kuti mnzanu asagwiritse ntchito mphamvu zawo zakukhudza zonse zitha kukulitsa chidwi chazakugonana zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chakumverera kwachisangalalo.
Ngati izi zikukondweretsani malingaliro, ndiye nthawi yoti mukambirane nkhaniyi ndi mnzanuyo!
5. Chiwonetsero
Chabwino, ndiye kuti izi sizingakhale za aliyense, koma ngakhale zitakhala kuti simukuchita zomwe mungachite, mutha kusangalala nazo.
Exhibitionism ndi nkhambakamwa zachiwerewere zomwe zimaphatikizapo kudzionetsera, kaya ndikuvula nokha kwa mnzanu, kutumiza zithunzi zamaliseche, kujambula kanema wapamtima, kapena kukankhira malire mopitilira pogonana pagulu komanso pachiwopsezo chogwidwa.
Muthanso kuganizira zochitika zadongosolo momwe mumagonana mukudziwa kuti mudzawonedwa ndi anthu omwe amasangalala ndi malingaliro azakugonana otsatirawo pandandanda - voyeurism.
6. Voyeurism
Voyeurism ndi malingaliro azakugonana omwe amaphatikizapo kuwonera anthu ena akutsika ndikunyansa. Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino cha voyeurism ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kapena monga tanena kale, palinso mwayi wowonera ena akugonana nawonso m'moyo weniweni ngati mukufuna kutero.
Monga mukuwonera malingaliro azakugonana awa ndiofala, komabe ndi otchuka! Zonsezi zitha kusangalatsidwa pamlingo womwe mumakhala nawo bwino, ngakhale mutangolankhula za izi ndi mnzanuyo zitha kuyatsa zina zomwe mwina kunalibe.
Zomwe mukufunikira pakali pano ndikugawana nkhaniyi ndi mnzanuyo kuti zokambiranazo ziziyenda bwino.