Zamkati
- 1. Pezani mnzanu
- 2. Kuwoneka bwino kwa dzanja
- 3. Kutaya umboni
- 4. Sankhani chandamale chanu
- 5. Musachite piss m'munda mwanu
- Njira sizimakhala zopanda tanthauzo nthawi zonse
Ili ndi funso lomwe anthu ambiri andifunsa pazaka zambiri. Kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndikosiyana ndi kugona ndi anthu angapo mukakhala kuti simukudzipereka. Kusakhala usiku umodzi kuyima ndi munthu yemwe mudakumana naye ku Tinder muli pabanja. Sikumagonana mwachisawawa ndi mahule ndi ena ndikudzipereka.
Zowona, onse ndi mitundu yosakhulupirika, koma kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi nyama yosiyana.
Chibwenzi ndi pamene mumakonda kukhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina pomwe munadzipereka kwa wina.
Ndi chinthu chodetsa komanso chosakhulupirika pomwe munthu m'modzi amangowona wina (kapena maulendo angapo) wina, kwinaku akukondana ndi wina.
Chifukwa chake, ungakhale bwanji ndi chibwenzi osagwidwa? Nawa maupangiri kwa munthu wodziwa zambiri.
1. Pezani mnzanu
Mukufuna wina kapena gulu lonse la abwenzi omwe amayang'ana kumbuyo kwanu. Kukhala ndi chibwenzi kungakhale kuchita panokha, koma kukhala ndi munthu yemwe mutha kumugwiritsa ntchito ngati chowiringula ndikugwirizana nawo ma alibis anu kumathandizira kuti musagwidwe.
Kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndimasewera azondi.
Ndizokhudza chidziwitso ndi zina zabodza. Zidzaphatikizapo kunama kwambiri, ndipo kukhala ndi othandizira omwe angakupatseni chidziwitso ndikuthandizira kuthandizira bodza lanu kumatha kukutulutsani m'malo olimba.
Ngati munthu amene mukumupeza akudziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi, ndiye kuti mupange malamulo, monga osapita kunyumba kwanu kapena osayimba foni kapena kutumizira uthenga pokhapokha mutayamba. Ngati wachitatu sakudziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi, musapereke adilesi yanu.
Chomaliza chomwe mukufuna ndikuti awoneke mnyumba mwanu osavala kanthu koma chovala chambiri panthawi yamadzulo Lamlungu ndi apongozi anu.
2. Kuwoneka bwino kwa dzanja
Othandizana nawo, makamaka azimayi, amatha kununkhira chibwenzi patali mtunda. Monga matsenga onse, ndizachinyengo komanso zosokoneza kuti azingoyang'ana kwina osati komwe zinthu zikuchitikadi.
Chitani izi pang'onopang'ono, kusintha kwadzidzidzi kudzakopanso chidwi chosafunikira. Pangani zochitika zomwe zingapangitse mnzanuyo kuyang'ana china chake kupatula inu.
Nazi zitsanzo:
- Auzeni kuti akonzekere ulendo wopita komwe amafuna.
- Auzeni kuti mukugwira ntchito yayikulu ndipo muwagulira chilichonse chomwe angafune ikamalizidwa
- Yambani zochitika kapena zosangalatsa (Gym and Fitness is good) pamodzi
Zitsanzo ziwiri zoyambirira zipanga chinyengo kuti mukuwononga nthawi yotalikirana nawo chifukwa cha iwo okha. Siyani zonse zazing'ono kuti aziwatanganitsa. Onetsetsani kuti mwapita nawo kumisonkhano / maulendo onse omwe adakhazikitsa ndikuwasangalatsa.
Cholinga chake ndi chophweka - adzawononga nthawi yawo akuchita zina zomwe amakhulupirira kuti zingachititse kuti nonse mugwirizane. Nthawi yonseyi imamasula dongosolo lanu lachitatu. Ndi zoipa.
3. Kutaya umboni
Chitani chilichonse chogonana ngati malo opha munthu.
Kusiya kondomu yogwiritsidwa ntchito ndikofanana ndi mfuti yosuta. Onetsetsani kuti muganizire nthawi yomwe zingatengere kuti muyeretse chilichonse kuphatikiza thupi lanu. Ndizovuta kunena kuti mumakonda Bowling ndi Bob mukamamva fungo ngati Paris Hilton (mafuta onunkhira).
Chotsani mauthenga kulikonse, makamaka pafoni yanu. Ponyani ma risiti onse nthawi yomweyo ndikulipira ndalama mukamapita masiku.
Osadzitenga nokha ndikuziyika pazanema, ndipo musalole kuti chithunzi chanu kapena umboni wina wotsutsana utengedwe. Mutha kunena kuti mukufuna kupanga kulumikizana ndi munthuyo, osapanga chimbale cha IG limodzi.
4. Sankhani chandamale chanu
Ngati mungakhale ndi chibwenzi, onetsetsani kuti muli ndi wina yemwe mnzanu sangakhale nawo mwayi wokumana mwangozi. Kukhala ndi zibwenzi ndi mabanja awo, mwachitsanzo, ndi njira yotsimikizika yodzipezera pa Facebook ngati Jerkwad wa chaka.
Ngati izi "zangochitika, ndipo sizingakuthandizidwe," zithe mwachangu komanso mwakachetechete. Imeneyi ndi njira imodzi momwe mungakhalire ndi zibwenzi zomwe zingadzetse tsoka.
Ngati simunadziwe zokwanira za gulu lanu lachitatu ndipo amapenga ngati Taylor Swift ngati atakhumudwa, bwerani pomwepo ndikuzimaliza.
5. Musachite piss m'munda mwanu
Izi ndizofanana kuti musankhe chandamale chanu, koma ichi ndi cha malo ndi nyumba.
Malo! Malo! Malo!
Osapita kumalo komwe ena kapena anzanu akudziwa kuti atipezekako. Ngati mumakonda kupita kumsika kapena kulikonse komwe kuli mwayi woti mungakumane ndi munthu yemwe mumamudziwa, musapite kumeneko.
Masiku ano aliyense ali ndi kachipangizo kakang'ono kojambulira komwe angagwiritse ntchito ndikutumiza pa intaneti. Izi zikachitika, wakhumudwa. Musakhale opusa ndi kukhala ndi madeti anu kwinakwake kutali kapena kosiyana.
Mumapeza chithunzichi!
Njira sizimakhala zopanda tanthauzo nthawi zonse
Gwiritsani ntchito njira zilizonse pano mwangozi. Palibe njira yopusitsa momwe mungakhalire ndi chibwenzi osagwidwa. Mukamachita zambiri, mpamene wina adzazindikira ndikupanga vuto lalikulu (kapena mlandu).
Pakakhala utsi, pamakhala lawi.
Ngati muli odzipereka ndipo mukupeza kuti mukuganiza kapena mwachita zosakhulupirika, pali alangizi a mabanja omwe angakuthandizeni. Ngati mukufunadi upangiri wanga pamomwe mungapangire chibwenzi, kuchokera kwa munthu amene adakhalapo ndikuchita izi, nali malangizo anga enieni. Palibe chifukwa chovutikira. Kotero musati muchite izo.