Zamkati
- 1. Munadutsapo kale
- 2. Mumadzichitira nokha ulemu
- 3. Mwasanduka mkazi amene munayenera kukhala
- 4. Ndiwe wokonda kugonana kuposa kale
- 5. Simuli pachiwopsezo chongowononga nthawi yanu pa bambo olakwika
- 6. Simuyenera kuchita chilichonse panokha
- 7. Mumavomereza thupi lanu
- 8. Mutha kukhala oona mtima nthawi zonse
- 9. Simuyenera kusiya posachedwa
Nthawi zonse chibwenzi chokhazikika, chodzipereka chimatha, chimatha kukhala chovuta kwambiri, makamaka pamalingaliro. Ndipo ngati muli ndi ana, izi zimangowirikiza kakhumi.
Koma ana samangokhala ochepa kwamuyaya. Akamakula, inu monga mayi wopanda bambo mumayamba kupeza nthawi yokwanira yoti mukhale panokha, ndipo pang'onopang'ono mungayambe kulakalaka chibwenzi chomwe munali nacho kale. Kukhala wosakwatira kwa nthawi yayitali ndi ana kumatha kukhala kovuta, inde, komanso zimadza ndi zoletsa zambiri pamene mukuyesanso kuyambanso chibwenzi. “Sindinalankhulepo ndi bambo wina zaka zisanu ndi zitatu!” ndichimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino zomwe malingaliro anu akukumbutsani, koma, siziyenera kukhala choncho. Chifukwa chake, kodi kukhala pachibwenzi kumakhala kovuta kwa amayi osakwatira?
Kwa iwo omwe akufuna kutsata zibwenzi pa intaneti, ndipo akufunsa, amayi omwe ali okhaokha amayamba bwanji chibwenzi, nayi thandizo loyenera limodzi ndi maupangiri abwinobwino ochezera pa intaneti.
Choyamba, nazi zifukwa 9 zomwe simuyenera kuwopa zibwenzi pa intaneti
1. Munadutsapo kale
Chifukwa chiyani amayi ambiri osakwatira samakhala pachibwenzi? Amachita mantha kuti banja, makanda, ndi kulekana kwawasiya iwo ali osokonezeka.
Koma chowonadi ndikuti mudakhala moyo womwe mumakumana ndiukwati, makanda kenako kupatukana, ndinu achikulire. Simukuyang'aniranso munthu woti mukhazikike kapena kufunafuna Y chromosome yangwiro ku X chromosome yanu. Mukungofuna zosangalatsa, ndipo kuchita zibwenzi pa intaneti ndikwabwino kwa inu popeza simukufuna kukhala kwamuyaya, simupitanso tsiku lililonse kuti mulembe mndandanda wazomwe mungayanjane naye.
2. Mumadzichitira nokha ulemu
Chisudzulo chimatha kupweteketsa mtima komanso chimakuphunzitsani mphamvu yakukhululuka. Mumaphunzira kukhala okoma mtima mukamapezeka kuti mumakhululuka wakale wanu, makolo ake kapena anu ndi zina zotero. Nthawi imapita patsogolo ndipo mumakhala achifundo ndipo mumamvetsetsa bwino malingaliro a ena. Izi zimakupatsani inu chidaliro chamtundu wina ndi umunthu womwe ungakope munthu woyenera kwa inu.
3. Mwasanduka mkazi amene munayenera kukhala
Kulankhula za chidaliro-kutuluka pamoto womwe udasokonekera m'moyo wanu, mumaphunzira zambiri za inu nokha ndikusintha kukhala mtundu wabwino kwambiri pamapeto pake.
Mwawona zoyipitsitsa ndipo mwakhala mukukumana ndi zotulukapo zoyipa kwambiri zaubwenzi womwe ulipo. Izi nawonso zimawonjezera umunthu wanu ndipo ndani sakonda munthu wopanda ulemu, akudzizindikira yekha ndikudziwa zomwe sali?
Chimodzi mwamaulangizi ochezera pa intaneti ndikukumbukira kuti ndizambiri pazomwe zimawonetsedwa koyamba, chifukwa chake musaiwale kuyika mtundu wanu wabwino kunja uko!
4. Ndiwe wokonda kugonana kuposa kale
Mwakhala mukukumana ndi zovuta zambiri, mwamalingaliro komanso mwathupi. Thupi lanu lasintha ndipo momwemonso malingaliro anu pazinthu zambiri. M'mbuyomu, mwina simunali womasuka kuvala chovala chothina kapena kukopana, koma tsopano popeza ndinu mkazi yemwe mumayenera kukhala, chidaliro chanu chili pachimake. Dziko lonse lapansi ndi oyisitara wanu ndipo monga Shakira adanenera, musalole kuti mmbulu wake ukabisala pachipinda!
Kuvala chidaliro chanu ngati chowonjezera ndi imodzi mwamalangizo abwino kwambiri ochezera pa intaneti!
5. Simuli pachiwopsezo chongowononga nthawi yanu pa bambo olakwika
Popeza mudakhala kale pachibwenzi, mumadziwa mwachilengedwe momwe munthu wolakwika amawonekera. Mukudziwa zomwe chiganizo kapena manja ena amatanthauza-mwina muli ndi Ph.D. mu manja amphindi pofika pano. Simudzakhala mukung'amba tsitsi ngati angakunyalanyazeni, mungopitilira wina ndikuti munthu m'modzi wakupatsani mzimu sadzakutengani kanthu. Izi zimakutetezani ndikuwonetsetsa kuti simukuwononga nthawi ndi mnyamata wolakwika.
6. Simuyenera kuchita chilichonse panokha
Ana anu ndi diso la diso lanu koma kubwerera kudziko la zibwenzi kumatanthauza kuti mudzakhala ndi nthawi yambiri panja kusiya ana anu osayang'aniridwa. Mungafune kukhala kholo, koma nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kwa inu (ndi iwo) ngati mubwerera mmbuyo ndikupempha thandizo.
Chimodzi mwamalangizo ofunikira pa intaneti ndikufunsa mnzanu wodalirika, woyandikana naye kapena wina wochokera kubanja lanu kuti aziwasamalira nthawi ndi nthawi. Khalani ndi nthawi yanu panokha, ana anu sadzadana nanu chifukwa cha izi.
7. Mumavomereza thupi lanu
Kubereka ndi moyo wobadwa pambuyo pakusintha thupi lanu kwamuyaya. Pali zotambalala, mwina zipsera ngati simunabereke bwino ndipo mutha kudzipeza kuti simungakwanitse kukula kwa ma jinzi omwe mudavala ku koleji. Komabe, mukudziwa kuti mumawoneka bwino kuposa kale ndipo mumavomereza zolakwika zonse zomwe dziko limakuwuzani kuti mubise-mumanyadira nawo ndipo mwawavomereza ndipo kudzidalira kwanu kumakupangitsani kukhala achigololo.
Chifukwa chake musachite mantha ndikutumiza selfie yanu yabwino kwambiri patsamba lanu!
8. Mutha kukhala oona mtima nthawi zonse
Ndiwe mayi wanthawi zonse ndipo uli ndi ntchito, komanso moyo wina wonse woti uzitsogolera. Mulibe nthawi yama shenanigans ambiri omwe amabwera ndi zibwenzi, chifukwa chake mutha kukhala owonamtima za inu nokha ndi moyo wanu.
Chifukwa chake musachite mantha, kunena zowona pa mbiri yanu — nenani kuti ndinu kholo limodzi ndipo muli ndi ana obwera patsogolo pa wina aliyense. Simuyenera kunama kuti mukhale wokongola kwa wina aliyense, ndipo ndani akudziwa, mwina mungafanane ndi bambo m'modzi yemwe mwina akufuna zomwezo!
9. Simuyenera kusiya posachedwa
Pomaliza, khalani oleza mtima.
Padzakhala amuna ambiri omwe adzathamange mbali ina akaphunzira kuti ndinu mayi wopanda mayi ndipo zitha kukhala zokhumudwitsa komanso zokhumudwitsa nthawi zina. Koma sizitanthauza kuti simudzapeza dayamondi, choncho musataye mtima mosavuta. Mutha kupeza wina woyenera inu ndi moyo wanu ngati mungopitiliza kuyang'ana.
Komanso, ndikofunikira kutsatira malangizo aubwenzi pa intaneti kwa amayi osakwatira monga kupanga dzina losiyananso muma mbiri anu azibwenzi, kudalira zomwe mumachita ndikusiya zokambirana ngati zikupangitsani kuti musakhale omasuka, ndikukonzekera masiku mdera lodzaza ndi anthu, kupewa malo akutali palimodzi. Zomwe ndizosangalatsa kulowa nawo zibwenzi pa intaneti, osatumiza zithunzi zachiwerewere kwa anthu omwe mwangoyamba kumene kucheza nawo.
Kudumphira kudziko la zibwenzi pa intaneti ngati mayi wopanda kholo kungakhale kovuta popeza pali anthu ena (mwachitsanzo, ana anu) omwe mungaganizire, chitetezo chanu chomwe mungadandaule nacho ndipo mukudziwa kuti nthawi yanu ndiyofunika.
Komabe, ndizosangalatsa kwambiri ngati simutenga chilichonse panokha kapena kuwononga umphumphu wanu. Mapulogalamu azibwenzi pa intaneti akhoza kukhala njira yodabwitsa yokumana ndi anthu atsopano chifukwa chakuti mumatanganidwa ndi ana anu ndikugwira ntchito! Pomaliza, kumbukirani mfundo yofunika iyi yokhudza zibwenzi pa intaneti: mwakhala mukukhalapobe pambuyo pa chibwenzi chanu chomaliza, kuti muthe kuchita izi.