Zamkati
- 1. Ufulu woperekedwa kwa anthu okwatirana
- 2. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha salinso nzika zachiwiri
- 3. Kukhazikitsidwa mdziko la kulera
- 4. Zonse ndi zenizeni
Yakhala nkhani yotentha m'makampeni andale kwazaka zambiri. Ndi nkhani yolekanitsa, ndikusiya anthu ambiri mwina chifukwa cha iyo kapena mwamphamvu motsutsana nayo. Ndi nkhani yokhudza ufulu wachibadwidwe. Ndi nkhani yokhudza ufulu wa anthu. Koma sikuyenera kukhala nkhani konse.
Ndipo tili pano, mu 2017, tikulankhulabe zaukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mu 2015, khothi ku United States lidapereka chigamulo kuti mayiko onse 50 ayenera kuteteza ufulu waukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa chake, ziribe kanthu ngati mumakonda, mumadana, kapena simukhala ndi chidwi chokwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zili pano.
M'malo moyambanso mkangano wina pakati pa malekezero onsewa, tiyeni tingolankhula zenizeni zenizeni: amuna ndi akazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sanaloledwe kukhala ndi ufulu wokonda, kulimbana, kulimbikira, komanso kukondananso, muukwati nthawi yayitali.
Tsopano popeza apatsidwa ufulu wofanana ndi banja lina lililonse, tiyeni tiwone ena mwa maubwino omwe azisangalala nawo tsopano ngati amuna ndi akazi okwatirana.
1. Ufulu woperekedwa kwa anthu okwatirana
Pali maubwino 1,138 omwe amaperekedwa kwa anthu okwatirana, mwaulemu waboma. Werengani izo kachiwiri- 1,138! Zinthu monga kupita kuchipatala, chisamaliro chabanja, komanso kulipira misonkho palimodzi zimapezeka pokhapokha mutakwatirana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi ziwalo zoberekera zosiyana ndi zanu. Osatinso!
Kodi mungaganizire kuti simukadatha kuwona wofunika wanu kuchipatala atachita ngozi yayikulu yagalimoto kapena kuchitidwa opaleshoni yayikulu? Mukudziwa kubowola, ndiko banja kumapeto kwa tsiku! Izi zikutanthauza kuti kwa nthawi yayitali, amuna ndi akazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adatsalira mchipinda chodikirira pomwe munthu amene amamukonda kwambiri amachira mnyumbamo. Ufulu ngati uwu nthawi zambiri umanyalanyazidwa pokambirana za maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma ndi chigamulo mu 2015 chololeza maanja okwatirana kuti akwatirane, tsopano anthuwa atha kusangalalanso ndi izi.
2. Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha salinso nzika zachiwiri
Pre-2015, iyi inali malingaliro enieni kapena zokambirana zomwe zikadachitika:
“Wawa bwanji, ukufuna kukwatira?
Inde tikudziwa! ”
“Mumalipira misonkho? Kodi ndinu nzika yaku U.S.? Kodi mumakhulupirira zinthu zonse zokhudza "anthu onse analengedwa ofanana?"
“Inde, inde, inde!”
“Kodi ndinu amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?”
“Ayi, ayi. Ndife amuna okhaokha. ”
“Pepani, sindingakuthandizeni. Mukuwoneka ngati anthu abwino, koma simungakwatire. ”
Zimafikira m'mabuku aku America ndipo ndichikhalidwe kuti amuna onse adalengedwa ofanana. Mapeto a lonjezo la kukhulupirika ndi "... fuko limodzi, pansi pa Mulungu, losagawanika, ndi ufulu ndi chilungamo kwa onse."Ndikulingalira makolo athu oyambitsa, ndi atsogoleri ambiri omwe awatsatira, adayankhula, koma sanayende kwambiri. Anthu aku Africa-America, akazi, ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adakumana ndi chinyengo ichi m'mibadwo yambiri. Koma ndi kayendetsedwe ka ufulu wachibadwidwe, kayendetsedwe ka ufulu wa amayi, ndipo tsopano chigamulo chachikulu mu 2015 chomwe chidapangitsa kuti amuna kapena akazi okhaokha azikwatirana ku United States, zopinga pakati pa nzika zakhala zikuchulukirachulukira.
3. Kukhazikitsidwa mdziko la kulera
Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akhala akulera bwino ana kwazaka zambiri, koma zimawoneka ngati choletsa maphwando ambiri. Izi sizongokhudza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma anthu ambiri (okalamba, achikhalidwe) amakonda kuweruza omwe amalera ana kunja kwa banja. Kukwatirana ndikukhala ndi ana nthawi zonse kumangirirana, choncho banja likamalera ana kunja kwa zikhalidwe, nthawi zambiri limazolowera. Ndi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha tsopano aloledwa kukwatira, atha kulera ana awo ali okwatirana monga momwe makolo amafunira.
Chofunika kwambiri kuposa malingaliro a alendo osadziwika, okwatirana omwe akulera mwana ali pabanja amathanso kuthandizanso mwanayo. Lisanaperekedwe chigamulo chololeza anthu okwatirana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha m'maiko onse, ana atha kuyang'ana makolo awo ndikumverera mosiyana chifukwa makolo awo sanali okwatirana pomwe makolo a anzawo onse anali. Ndikuganiza kuti zingapangitse kuti kukambirana kovuta komanso kosokoneza kukhale kwa kholo ndi mwana pomwe angayese kufotokoza kuti sanaloledwe kukwatira. Masiku ano, palibe chifukwa chokambirana chifukwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angathe kulera ana awo ali okwatirana mosangalala.
4. Zonse ndi zenizeni
Atakwatirana, wosewera John Mulaney adachita nthabwala za kulemera kosintha dzina laudindo wina kuchokera kwa bwenzi, kukhala bwenzi, kukhala mkazi. Adanenanso zakumva mosiyana ndikumuimbira foni mkazi m'malo mongokhala chibwenzi chake. Panali mphamvu inayake kumbuyo kwake; zinamverera ngati kuti zinali ndi tanthauzo lalikulu kwa iye.
Ngakhale zomwe Mulaney adanenapo zakusintha kwa banja lake, kusinthaku ndi komwe amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adatsekedwa kwazaka zambiri. Mpaka pomwe ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha udaloledwa, maudindo omwe anali nawo anali bwenzi, bwenzi, kapena bwenzi. Sanakhale nawo mwayi woti atchule wina kuti amuna awo kapena akazi awo.
Apo ndi china chapadera komanso chachilendo pakusintha kwa maudindowo. Sindinamvepo ngati wamkulu kuposa pomwe ndidayamba kumutcha mayi wanga "mkazi wanga". Zinali ngati ndawoloka malire. Ikhoza kuwoneka ngati nkhani yaying'ono, koma kupatsa mwayi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mwayi wotsatira malowa atha kukhala mwayi waukulu kwambiri womwe alandila kuchokera ku chigamulo cha dipatimenti yazachilungamo.
Palibe amene amakonda kutchedwa "mnzake". Zimakupangitsani kumveka ngati ndinu gawo la kampani yalamulo. Mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi mayina opatulika, mwina chifukwa chake opanga malamulo amawagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri kwazaka zambiri. Sankafuna kuti maanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adziwe kuti zimakhala zapadera kukhala ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Tsopano banja lirilonse lingakhale ndi chokumana nacho chimenecho. Kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi, mwamuna ndi mkazi, kapena mkazi ndi mkazi ndi zinthu zonse zokongola. Apo ndi cholemetsa ku mawu amenewo. Tsopano maanja ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adzakhala ndi mwayi wowayankhula patsiku laukwati wawo.