Zamkati
- Muzikondana ngakhale pamene mukulimbana kuti muzikondana
- Kulankhulana ndichinsinsi
- Gwiritsani ntchito zizindikiro zosalankhula
- Kulemekezana ndikofunika kwambiri kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino
- Ganizirani zoseka ngati banja lanu nyimbo
- Kumbukirani kuti sipadzakhala “wopambana” ndi “wotayika”
Mukangolowetsa mphete zala za wina ndi mnzake, kumbukirani kuti upangiri waukwati uyamba kutsanulira mkati ngati mukufuna kuwamva kapena ayi. Nthawi zambiri malingaliro am'banja limodzi ndi mawu am'banja atha kukhala zomwe mwina simukufuna kumva (izi zitha kukhala choncho nthawi zonse), atha kukunyozani ndipo angakupangitseni kukhala ozizira. Komabe, ena mwa malangizowa ndiofunikira mtsogolo; zitha kukuthandizani kuti mulimbikitsane komanso zingalimbitse ubale womwe muli nawo ndi mnzanu,
Upangiri waukwati nthawi zonse umayamba ndi nthabwala zambiri kuphatikiza nthabwala zofala kwambiri, "Nthawi zonse pamakhala magulu awiri muukwati- umodzi umakhala wolondola nthawi zonse, winayo ndiwamuna," koma kudzipereka kwakukulu ndikuyamba moyo watsopano Sikuti nthawi zonse ndimakamba za nthabwala, utawaleza, ndi zipembere.
Muyenera kumvera mwatcheru malangizo omwe amakupatsani ndi anthu omwe adakwatirana ndipo amadziwa zomwe zimakhudza.
Muzikondana ngakhale pamene mukulimbana kuti muzikondana
Ili ndiye lingaliro lofunsidwa kwambiri pabanja komanso lofunikanso kwambiri. Masiku omwe mumakangana, ndikukhala kovuta kuti mugone limodzi ndi mnzanu, imani pomwepo ndikukumbukira ngakhale kuti mkanganowo udalidi woyipa komanso ndani anali wolakwa; kumbukirani kuti mukukangana ndi munthu wofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wanu.
Mumakonda munthu amene mwangomenya naye nkhondoyo m'malo mongomuyang'ana mukamakangana, tsekani maso anu ndikuyamba kulemba zomwe mumakonda za iwo. Chinyengo ichi chimakupangitsani kukondana.
Kulankhulana ndichinsinsi
Awa ndi upangiri wofunikira kwambiri komanso ndiwothandiza kwambiri. Simuyenera kungoyang'ana pa zomwe mnzanu akunena, koma inunso muyenera kudzilankhulira nokha pamene mukuganiza kuti nthawi ndiyabwino. Palibe cholakwika pofotokoza malingaliro anu, koma momwe mumafotokozera ziyenera kukhala mwanjira 'yosatsutsana'.
Komanso, kumbukirani kumvetsera zomwe zikunenedwa ndipo ngati simumva kanthu kenaka funsani kulongosola m'malo moyesa kulingalira zomwe mwina simunamve. Malingaliro awa akuyenera kukupangitsani kutsutsana
Gwiritsani ntchito zizindikiro zosalankhula
Kafukufuku wa Psychology amati zokambirana zambiri pakati pa maanja sizolankhula. Mukamalankhula ndi mnzanu wapamtima, yesetsani kuwonetsa zizindikilo zathupi kuti mnzanu adziwe kuti mukumvetsera. Zizindikiro zina zopanda mawu zitha kukhala, kufinya dzanja lawo, kuyang'ana pa iwo pamene akuyankhula kapena kutsamira pang'ono patsogolo.
Kulemekezana ndikofunika kwambiri kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino
Nambala 1 chinthu mutatha kulumikizana ndi ulemu. Malangizo ambiri am'banja omwe akuyesera kumveka oseketsa ndizongokupangitsani kuti mumveke ngati njira yolemekezera mkazi wanu, koma sichoncho.
Ulemu ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri muukwati, ndipo ndichoposa mawonekedwe abwino, zokopa komanso ngakhale zolinga zomwe tidagawana. Padzakhala nthawi zina pamene simungakonde mnzanu mochuluka, koma simukufuna kusiya kulemekeza mnzanu wapamtima.
Ulemu ukatayika mwina sungabwerenso ndikuyesera kuti banja liziyenda popanda ulemu ndikuyesera kugwiritsa ntchito foni yam'manja yopanda SIM komanso yopanda pake.
Ganizirani zoseka ngati banja lanu nyimbo
Padzakhala zokwera ndi zosokonekera muukwati wanu, ndipo mudzakumana ndi nthawi zovuta koma zilizonse zomwe zingachitike, yesetsani kupeza zifukwa zazing'ono zosekerera ndikugawana mphindi zachisangalalo wina ndi mnzake.
Kumbukirani kuti sipadzakhala “wopambana” ndi “wotayika”
Monga tanenera pachiyambi paukwati kukhala ndi magulu awiri- zachisoni izi sizili choncho. Palibe wopambana kapena wotayika mu mkangano chifukwa ndinu othandizana nawo pachilichonse kotero kuti mutapambana kapena mutayika muyenera kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mupeze yankho. Musalole kuti kupambana ndi kutaya zifike pamutu panu ndipo m'malo mwake muchite ngati inu nonse muli gawo limodzi lokhala ndi miyoyo iwiri.
Kutenga komaliza
Ukwati si 50/50; ndi 100 yathunthu. Nthawi zina muyenera kupereka 30, ndipo amuna anu adzakupatsani 70, ndipo nthawi zina mumapereka 80, ndipo amuna anu apereka 20. Ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Muyenera kuigwiritsa ntchito, ndipo onse awiri azipereka 100%, tsiku lililonse.