Zamkati
- Lankhulani
- Pangani gawo la chitetezo mozungulira wina ndi mnzake
- Kudalira
- Khalani paubwenzi wapamtima
- Phindu lotulutsa mahomoni
- Kutenga kotsiriza
Ubwenzi wokondana kwambiri ndi mulingo wagolide kwa amuna ndi akazi achikulire ambiri. Okwatirana omwe akhala nthawi yayitali amadziwa kuti palibe chomwe chingafanane ndi kukhutira kwakukulu komwe anthu amakhala nako mkati ndi kunja kwa chipinda chogona. Kutha kukhulupirira wokondedwa wanu, kubweretsa moyo wanu pamaso pawo mopanda kuwopa chiweruzo, ndikumangika maubwenzi apamtima ndi zina mwazinthu zomwe maanja adadzinenera kuti ndizofunikira kuti akhale ndi chisangalalo m'malo am'banjamo. Ubwenzi wolimbikitsidwa ndi kulumikizana kwakatikati ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi chimodzi mwazisangalalo zazikulu pamoyo.
Kodi ndi njira ziti zomwe zingapangitse kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi chokhazikika komanso kulimbitsa mgwirizano ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Lankhulani
Momwe mungapangire kukondana kwamaganizidwe?
Kukambirana bwino kumatha kugwira ntchito ngati aphrodisiac. Zidzakupatsani nonse ndikukonzekeretsani zogonana. Patulani nthawi yokhala pansi ndi khofi wofunda limodzi ndikulimbitsa chibwenzi polola kuti mawu azitha kuyenda. Zimitsani mafoni anu, zowonetsera komanso zosokoneza zina ndikuyang'ana zomwe wina ndi mnzake amapereka pazokambirana. Yang'anani m'maso wina ndi mnzake pamene mukugawana tsiku lanu. Kuyankhula mwachidwi komanso kumvetsera kumatsimikizira nonse awiri, kukupangitsani kumva kuti mukumveka, zomwe zimapangitsa matupi anu kulumikizana. Kwa amayi ambiri, zimakhala zovuta kudumphira pabedi popanda mawu ena amawu. (Amuna: zindikirani!)
Pangani gawo la chitetezo mozungulira wina ndi mnzake
Pofuna kumanga maubwenzi apabanja, maanja akuyenera kukhala omasuka pakati pawo. Kodi kukhala otetezeka kumatanthauza chiyani? Zitha kutanthauza ufulu wofotokozera zakukhosi popanda kuwopa kubwezedwa kapena kunyozedwa kapena kudziwa kuti mnzanu "ali ndi msana wanu" zivute zitani. Zimakupatsani mwayi wokhala pagombe lotetezeka mukamakhala ndi mnzanu, kuti nonse muli otetezana ku zinthu zakunja. Mukamakhala otetezeka ndi mnzanu, mukumanga ubale wapabanja ndikupanga kulumikizana kwabwino komwe kudalira kumatha kukula ndikukula.
Kudalira
Kukhulupirirana ndiye mwala wapangodya muukwati wapamtima. Mukakhala ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira, mutha kudzilola kuti mukhale osatetezeka ndipo musadandaule kuti angakusekani kapena kuzimitsidwa mukaulula zinsinsi zanu. Phata lokhulupirirana limakupatsani mwayi woti muzikayikira, kudzikayikira, komanso kusowa chitetezo ndikuthandizira kukulitsa kukondana.
Ubale wabwino sungapangidwe ngati kudalirana kulibe, chifukwa chake ngati mukukhala ndi nkhawa zakukhala ndi mnzanu ndipo mukuvutikira momwe mungapangire chibwenzi, muyenera kuthandizira nkhaniyi ngati mukufuna kupita patsogolo kukondana.
Khalani paubwenzi wapamtima
Kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe kumatengera ulemu, chidaliro komanso chikhumbo choti maanja agwire ntchito kuti apange, ndikupanganso nthawi zonse. Kukhutitsidwa mumtima mwanu kumabwera chifukwa chakuyamikira mnzanu tsiku lililonse. "Zikomo" ndi "thanthwe!" ndi gawo la guluu lomwe limathandiza pakulimbitsa chibwenzi ndikusunga kulumikizana pamodzi. Izi ndizofunikira pakulimbitsa kukondana kwanu.
Osatengera moyo wanu wakuthupi mopepuka, ndipo pangani manja nthawi ndi nthawi kukumbutsa wokondedwa wanu kuti akukuyang'anirani. Finyani mukamadutsa munjira, kupsompsonana kwanthawi yayitali musananyamuke kupita kuntchito ... zinthu zing'onozing'onozi sizinapangitse kuti mugonane, koma ndi njira zosavuta, zopanda mawu zolimbikitsira kukondana. Ntchito zabwino zachikondi zidzatumiza uthenga kwa mnzanu kuti mukumva kuti mukugwirizana nawo.
Phindu lotulutsa mahomoni
Kugonana mwachikondi kumatanthauza kugonana kwabwino, ndipo kugonana kwabwino kumabweretsa ziwonetsero zabwino. Kupambana kwenikweni pazonsezi ndikuti ziphuphu zimatulutsa timadzi totchedwa oxytocin. Hormone iyi imalimbikitsa ubongo kuti uzimva kulumikizana kwambiri komanso kulumikizana ndi mnzako. Pali chifukwa chake amatchedwa mahomoni achikondi! Amuna ndi akazi amatulutsa oxytocin panthawi yopanga zachikondi. Chikhalidwe chimatsimikizira kuti awiriwa amakhala ogwirizana (kuteteza mwana aliyense yemwe angadze chifukwa chogonana). Ndimasinthidwe okondeka: Mukakhala ndi ziphuphu zambiri, mumamvana kwambiri ndi mnzanu. Musaiwale mphamvu zothandizira za gawo labwino pakati pa mapepala!
Kodi mungakulitse bwanji chibwenzi?
Pamene chikhumbo chikuwoneka chikuchepa, yesetsani kukulitsa zosowa zakukondana komanso zosowa zakuthupi.
Mabanja onse amafotokoza kuchepa kwa chikhumbo popita zaka. Koma musalole kuti moyo wanu wogonana uikidwenso kumbuyo! Pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti musamalire gawo lofunikira ili m'banja lanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mwapeza ubale wapabanja.
Sili funso lokhala ndi chiwerewere chambiri. Mukufuna kukhala tcheru kuti mulimbikitse malingaliro omwe amakupangitsani kuti mugonane.
Yesani: Khalani kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi ndi mnzanu komwe mumangokhalira kulankhulana. Chotsani kugonana patebulo. Cholinga sikumangogona pabedi. Idzakupatsani yankho la momwe mungalimbitsire chikondi m'banja.
- Uzani zinthu zisanu zomwe mumakonda za mnzake.
- Afunseni kuti atchule zinthu zisanu zomwe zimapangitsa banja kukhala losangalala.
- Apatsane ufulu wofufuza china chake chokha. (Mukadzalumikizananso, kudzakhala kotentha!)
- Pangani mndandanda wa njira zomwe mungakulitsire kulumikizana kwanu. Zinthu zina zomwe mungaphatikizepo ndi izi: masewera atsopano kapena zosangalatsa zomwe nonse mukufuna kuyesa, ulendo wamoyo womwe mumakhala mukukonzekera limodzi, zinthu zatsopano zoti mubweretse m'chipinda chanu chogona. Lingalirani momwe mungakhalire ndiubwenzi wapamtima ndikuwona zomwe mukugwirizana!
Kutenga kotsiriza
Kanema wafupi pansipa amalankhula za masewera olimbitsa thupi amphindi 6 kuti apange ubale wapamtima. Onani:
Anthu ambiri angavomereze kuti kuwonetsa chikondi chopanda malire kwa mnzake ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri pamoyo ndipo zimathetsa momwe mungakhalire okondana kwambiri. Mukapeza munthu amene mukudziwa kuti mutha kufikira naye pamwambapa, yesetsani kulumikizana bwino. Ndikulimbikitsa moyo komanso kuyenera ntchito yomwe imafunika kuti izi zitheke.