Zamkati
- Momwe mungadziwire ngati mwakonzeka kukwatira
- 1. Kodi ndine wodziimira pawokha?
- 2. Kodi uwu ndi ubale wabwino?
- 3. Kodi tili ndi zolinga ndi mfundo zofanana?
- 4. Kodi timakondana?
- 5. Chifukwa chiyani ndikufuna kukwatira?
Kodi mumadzifunsa kuti, "Ndikwatira liti?" Koma musanayankhe yankho la funsoli, muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha ndi momwe ubale wanu uliri ndikuyankha funso lofunika kwambiri - kodi mukukonzekera ukwati?
Koma choyamba, pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa ukwati ndi ukwati?
Ukwati ndi mwayi wokhala wotchuka patsikulo, kusangalala ndi chisangalalo chaomwe akuwonerera, osatchulapo mwayi wokhala nawo phwando lalikulu. Pambuyo pake maluwawo atafota ndipo kavalidwe kako kadzaza ndi fumbi, komabe, uyenera kukhala ndi zenizeni zaukwati.
Momwe mungadziwire ngati mwakonzeka kukwatira
Ngakhale ukwati ungakulemeretseni moyo wanu, ukhoza kukhalanso wopweteka kwambiri ngati mutakwatirana ndi munthu wolakwika kapena simunakonzekere kudzipereka.
Mndandanda wokonzekera ukwati zitha kukhala zothandiza poyankha funsoli, mumadziwa bwanji ngati mukufuna kukwatiwa ndi wina?
- Kusankha zokwatira. Onetsetsani kuti ndinu otsimikiza, Osadalira mnzanu kuti akumalize.
- Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati mukufuna kukwatiwa ndi munthu wina? Anzanu ndi abale anu nawonso akuteteza ubale wanu ndi mnzanu, wopanda mbendera zofiira.
- Inu ndi ofunika wanu gwirani ntchito limodzi ndikuwona njira zothetsera mavuto mwamtendere.
- Muli ndi kuthekera kopepesa kwa mnzanu mukalakwitsa. Umu ndi momwe mungadziwire ngati ndinu wokonzeka kukwatira.
- Inu nonse osaponyera malire kuti musiyane, kungopewa mikangano kapena zokambirana.
- Ngati ubale wanu ulibe sewero, limayankha bwino kwambiri ngati mwakonzeka kukwatira.
- Ngati mukukwatira posachedwa, ndipo mumagawana mgwirizano wazachuma, ndiye chimodzi mwazizindikiro zosonyeza kuti mwakonzeka kukwatira.
- Kukonzekera ukwati? Onetsetsani kuti mwafika pa siteji pomwe simumayika misampha ya booby wina ndi mnzake chifukwa chodzikayikira. Mwachitsanzo, "Bwanji sunandisiyire uthenga m'mawa uno?", "Bwanji osandiuza manambala achinsinsi a foni yanu ndi laputopu ngati mumandikondadi?"
Musanalowe m'banja, muyenera kupeza zifukwa zoyenera zokwatirana ndikudzifunsa mafunso asanu awa.
1. Kodi ndine wodziimira pawokha?
Funso loyamba lomwe kukonzekera kukwatirana limatanthauza kudzifunsa nokha ngati mulibe ndalama.
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji nthawi yokwatira?
Ndikofunika kuti muyesetse kudziyimira pawokha ndikukonzekera ukwati.
Kudziyimira pawokha kumatsimikizira kusintha kosasintha kuchokera ku moyo wosakwatira kupita kuukwati komanso mgwirizano wabizinesi wabwino pabanja.
Makamaka kwa achichepere kwambiri, ukwati umatanthauza kusintha kukhala munthu wamkulu. Ngati simunakhale munthu wachikulire wodziyimira pawokha kusintha kwanu kukhala kosangalala kungakhale kovuta.
Musanamange mfundozo, muyenera kukhala odziyimira pawokha pazachuma — kapena paulendo wanu wodziyimira panokha.
Ndimalingaliro oyipa kukwatiwa chifukwa simukufuna kukhala nokha. Kusimidwa sikutenga gawo pakukhalitsa muukwati wachimwemwe, chifukwa chake ngati ukwati sichinthu china koma njira yolemetsa mnzanu kuti achoke, ndiye kuti simuli okonzeka.
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2. Kodi uwu ndi ubale wabwino?
Chibwenzi chanu sichiyenera kukhala chokwanira musanalowe m'banja, koma chiyenera kukhala chokhazikika komanso chathanzi. Zizindikiro zina zakuti wakodwa pachibwenzi ndi izi:
- Mnzanu yemwe mwa mawu kapena mwathupi akukumenyani
- Mbiri ya kusakhulupirika kapena kusakhulupirika zomwe sizinathetsedwe
- Mbiri ya osachiritsidwa matenda amisala kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo
- Zovuta kukayika za moyo wamnzanu kapena mutha kukhala limodzi
3. Kodi tili ndi zolinga ndi mfundo zofanana?
Ukwati umangochita zambiri osati kungokondana chabe.
Ukwati ndi mgwirizano, ndipo izi zikutanthauza kugawana zachuma, zolinga, masitayilo akulera ana, ndi malingaliro a moyo.
Simuyenera kuvomerezana pazonse, koma muyenera kukhala ndi maloto ofanana mtsogolo.
Zina mwazomwe muyenera kukambirana musanalowe m'banja ndi izi:
- Kaya mukhale ndi ana liti komanso liti, komanso momwe mukufunira kulera ana amenewo
- Makhalidwe anu achipembedzo komanso amakhalidwe abwino
- Zolinga zanu pantchito, kuphatikiza ngati m'modzi wa inu akufuna kukhala kunyumba ndi ana anu
- Momwe mungagawire ntchito zapakhomo monga kuyeretsa, kuphika, ndi kudula udzu
- Momwe mungathetsere kusamvana
- Nthawi yochuluka yomwe mungakhale ndi anzanu, anzanu komanso banja
- Kaya mupita kumisonkhano yampingo nthawi zonse, zochitika zongodzipereka, kapena miyambo ina yobwerezabwereza
4. Kodi timakondana?
Banja labwino limamangidwa pamaziko olimba a kukhulupirirana ndi kumasukirana.
Mabanja achichepere ambiri amaganiza kuti kukondana kumatanthauza kugonana, koma kukondana sikungogonana kokha komanso kumakondana. Ngati simunakonzekere kuyanjana kotereku, simunakonzekere kukwatiwa. Zizindikiro zina zomwe simunachite zokwanira pachibwenzi ndi izi:
- Kulephera kukambirana nkhani zina ndi mnzanu
- Kuganiza zina, monga zambiri zokhudzana ndi thanzi lanu, ndi "zoyipa" kwambiri kapena zogwirizana ndi mnzanu
- Kusungirana chinsinsi
- Osalankhula za tsiku lanu
- Kusadziwa zambiri zofunika pamoyo wa wina ndi mnzake
5. Chifukwa chiyani ndikufuna kukwatira?
Ukwati ndiwamuyaya. Si phwando lalikulu lotsatiridwa ndi "kuyesera" kukhala limodzi.
Ngati simukudziwa kuti mutha kukhala limodzi ndi munthuyu pazabwino kapena zoyipa, zivute zitani, ndiye kuti simunakonzekere kukwatiwa. Ukwati umakhala wovuta mwanjira inayake, ndipo ngati yankho lanu pamavuto onse ndikuchokapo, kapena ngati mukukhulupirira kuti machitidwe ena amabweretsa chisudzulo chokha, ndiye kuti banja si lanu.
Mudzakumana ndi zovuta muukwati wanu, ndipo ngati simungathe kuzipambana, mudzakhala ochulukirapo kuposa chiwerewere china.
Kukonzekera ukwati kumafunikanso kusalaza chilichonse chomwe chingakupangitseni kufunsa pambuyo pake, chifukwa chiyani mudakwatirana. Tikukhulupirira, kuzindikira m'nkhaniyi kukuthandizani kuyankha funsoli, kodi mwakonzeka kukwatira.
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