Zamkati
- Pamene mawu ayima
- Pamene simungathe kudutsa nkhani imodzi ija
- Mukakhala osakhulupirika
- Mumakhala osiyanasiyana
- Funsani mlangizi wa mabanja
Chikondi ndi chakhungu, monga akunena.
Chabwino, sikuti chikondi ndi chakhungu; ndikuti omwe ali mchikondi ali pafupi kwambiri ndi mavuto awo kuti awone njira yowazungulira. Zimatengera winawake yemwe amatha kuwona mavuto kuchokera kunja - omwe ali ndi malingaliro - kuti apeze njira zothetsera mavuto omwe amadzionetsa m'mabanja ambiri.
Kaya ndi mlangizi wazokwatirana kapena wothandizira anu, ndikofunikira kuti mulingalire kuwona munthu yemwe angakupatseni malingaliro akunja ndikuthandizani kuwona zomwe zikuyenera kuthandizidwa. Izi zitanthauza kusiya pakhomo ndikukhala omasuka kuloleza wina kuti alowe nawo, koma zikuyenera kukhala pachiwopsezo.
Ndi nthawi yanji yoyenera kupempha thandizo kwa wina yemwe si chibwenzi chanu? Nthaŵi zambiri, zimakhala bwino msanga. M'malo mochita chochitika chomvetsa chisoni, khalani otanganidwa ndipo pempherani kathandizolo mikangano yanu yaying'ono isanakhale yayikulu.Tiyeni tiwone zina mwazizindikiro zakumaso komwe muyenera kukakumana ndi mlangizi kapena wothandizira posachedwa.
Pamene mawu ayima
Pali magawo awiri a mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo:
Pamene kufuula kuyambika ndi pamene kufuula kuyima.
Mukamakuwa ndi kukankha pamwamba m'mapapu anu chifukwa cha mkwiyo ndi kukhumudwa, zachidziwikire mumakwiya (ndipo muyenera komanso pezani thandizo). Koma mavuto omwe ali pachibwenzi chanu amakhala ovuta kuwathetsa ngati palibe amene akulankhula. Mukadzakhuta wina ndi mnzake kotero kuti simulankhula nawo konse.
Ngati ichi ndi chinthu chomwe mudakumana nacho, mumamvetsetsa momwe kupwetekako kumakhala kovuta komanso kovuta. Inu nonse mukudziwa zomwe ziyenera kunenedwa koma kukana kukhala munthu amene akunena.
Kubweretsa maso ndi makutu pazomwe zikuchitika kumapangitsa kuti zokambirana ziyambe kuyenda bwino. Simungazichotsere gawo limodzi, koma pamene zokambirana ziyamba, momwemonso machiritso.
Pamene simungathe kudutsa nkhani imodzi ija
Nthawi iliyonse mukasemphana ndi mnzanuyo zimawoneka kuti zikubwera.
Nthawi iliyonse pakakhala ndewu, imachita zamatsenga pokambirana.
Ngati pali vuto kapena kusagwirizana komwe inu ndi mnzanu mumangokhalira kumenyera ngati besi, ndi nthawi yoti mupeze kama wogona kuti mukhalepo.
Mwayesapo kuthana ndi vutoli panokha, koma sizinathandize. Musalole kuti chidwi chanu chizikulepheretsani kulemba ntchito munthu wina kuti akuthandizeni kuyenda m'madzi othetsa kusamvana. Malingaliro omwe mlangizi angapereke amathetsa vutoli mwachangu kwambiri kuposa anthu awiri omwe adayambitsa vutolo. Apatseni mwayi wolowererapo ndikuthandizani kuwona momwe mungathetsere vutolo.
Mukakhala osakhulupirika
Koma kusakhulupirika si basi za zochitika zathupi. Mutha kukhala osakhulupirika ndi zomwe mumamva. Mutha kukhala osakhulupirika m'mawu anu. Mutha kukhala osakhulupirika ndi ndalama zanu.
Mukakwatirana ndi mnzanu, nonse mumayika chikhulupiriro wina ndi mnzake kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza ubalewo. Chilichonse chomwe mungachite chomwe sichingafanane ndi chikhulupiriro chimenecho ndiye osakhulupirika.
Mukaona kuti mukumangocheza ndi mnzanu wa kuntchito m'njira yosayenera, mukukhala osakhulupirika.
Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zanu nonse mwachinsinsi pazinthu zomwe mukudziwa kuti simuyenera kuchita, mukudziwa kuti ndinu osakhulupirika.
O, ndipo ngati mukugona maliseche pafupi ndi munthu yemwe si mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu pamene mukuwerenga izi, mukukhala osakhulupirika.
Musanachite chilichonse chosakhulupirika mwatsatanetsatane kupatulika kwaukwati wanu, pezani mlangizi kapena wothandizira yemwe ali ndi zida zokwanira kuti athetsere zopwetekazo. Ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri kwa inu ndi mnzanu.
Mumakhala osiyanasiyana
Chikondi chimakupatsani inu palimodzi, koma sichingakhale chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimakusungani pamodzi.
Mukayamba moyo wanu wachikondi ndi wokondedwa wanu, padzakhala zochitika zambiri m'moyo zomwe mumakumana nazo limodzi. Zochitika m'moyo uno zimakhala madalitso nthawi zambiri, koma nthawi zina, zimamupweteka mutu. Kaya ndi osiyana zipembedzo, malingaliro, kapena kungotengera malingaliro, inu ndi mnzanuyo mungakule pachibwenzi.
Tangoganizirani za Myuda ndi mkazi wachikatolika akuyesera kuyenda panyengo ya tchuthi m'nyengo yozizira. Ngati onse ali odzipereka kuzipembedzo zawo, angapeze bwanji mgwirizano m'nyumba zawo? Kodi angakonde bwanji maholide awiriwa omwe amatanthauza zambiri pachikhalidwe cha wina ndi mnzake?
Amatha kuyesa. Koma zitha kukhala zosavuta ngati akanakhala ndi wina wakunja amene akuwapatsa mawonekedwe. Ndi zochitika ngati izi kuti kufunikira kwa othandizira kapena othandizira kungakhale chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pabanja lililonse. Apanso, kusiyana kumbuyo sikuyenera kukhala chipembedzo. Kusamvana kulikonse komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha zikhulupiriro zozikika kumayendetsedwa mosavuta ndi liwu lalingaliro kuchokera kunja kwaubwenzi
Funsani mlangizi wa mabanja
Mlangizi wazokwatirana amagwiranso ntchito ngati dokotala, kupatula kuyang'anira ndikuwongolera thanzi la banja lanu m'malo mthupi lanu. Monga dokotala wanu, simukufuna kumangogwiritsa ntchito mlangizi wanu wazokwatirana ukwati wanu uli pafupi kufa.
Pitani mukawawone pafupipafupi. Lowani muofesi yawo kuti mukayendere pafupipafupi ndi kukayendera. Musadikire kuti muchite mochedwa kuti mupeze chithandizo chomwe inu ndi mnzanu mukusowa kwambiri. Adzakhala gwero lalikulu kwambiri lomwe mungadalire banja lanu likakhala pamavuto.