Zamkati
- Zizindikiro zakulankhulana koyipa muubwenzi
- 1. Zokambirana zanu sizakuya
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- 2. Simufunsana za tsiku lawo
- 3. Zolankhula zanu zonse kuposa kumvera
- 4. Mumachedwa kupsa mtima
- 5. Pali zovuta zambiri
- Momwe mungathetsere kusayankhulana muubwenzi
Nthawi zina maubale amatha kumva ngati ntchito yovuta kwambiri. Zomwe kale zinali zosangalatsa komanso zosavuta kuchita ndi kuchitirana chifundo wina ndi mnzake zitha kukhala kusinthana kotopetsa kwamikangano ndi madandaulo komanso chisangalalo ndi kusowa.
Izi zimachitika chifukwa cha kulumikizana m'banja. Anthu ambiri sakudziwa momwe mungapulumutsire banja lanu zinthu zikayamba kuyipa. Nthawi zambiri, banja limasokonekera ngati kulumikizana kuli koyenera pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kulumikizana.
Kuti musinthe kuyanjana koyipa kukhala koyenera kuti mupulumutse banja lanu, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakonzere kulumikizana muubwenzi, pitirizani kuwerenga nkhaniyi.
Zizindikiro zakulankhulana koyipa muubwenzi
Musanaphunzire zovuta zamayankhulidwe ndi mayankho ake, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto chifukwa cha a kusayankhulana mchibwenzi.
Zomwe zanenedwa pansipa ndizizindikiro zakulankhulana molakwika:
1. Zokambirana zanu sizakuya
Kodi mumakumbukira masiku ndi usiku womwe mumakhala pafoni ndi munthu wina kwa maola ambiri koma mumamvanso ngati mukufuna kuyankhula zambiri?
Kutaya mitu yoti mungakambirane ndikukhala opanda zokambirana zakuipa ndi koyipa kuposa kusayankhulana m'banja.
Ngati mukumva kuti mumalankhula ndi mnzanu ngati wamakhalidwe aulemu kugolosale, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kubwezera zomwe zimayambitsa chibwenzi chanu.
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2. Simufunsana za tsiku lawo
“Lero lakhala bwanji lero?” ndi funso losavuta kufunsa okondedwa anu ndipo ndi mafunso omwe akuwonetsa chikondi ndi chisamaliro onse.
Izi zikuwonetsa kuti mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zomwe amachita pomwe sali nanu, komanso zimakupatsaninso kena koti mukambirane. Osati kufunsa za tsiku la mnzanu ndi a vuto lolumikizana wamba lero.
3. Zolankhula zanu zonse kuposa kumvera
Sikoipa kumvedwa, makamaka ngati mnzanu amachita zonse amangonena za iye kapena kupitiriza.
Komabe, izi zitha kukhala ziwiri, ndipo mwina mnzanuyo amamva motere za inu chifukwa chake simungathe kusunga zachilengedwe, ndipo simungakwanitse kuchita izi mukakhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndikukankhira zolinga zanu patsogolo.
4. Mumachedwa kupsa mtima
Chizindikiro chovuta kwambiri cha kulumikizana molakwika m'banja ndikuti funso lirilonse lofunsidwa ndi wokondedwa wanu limayankha mwachangu komanso molakwika zomwe zitha kuyambitsa kukambirana.
Kuyankha kumeneku kungachitike chifukwa choti inu ndi mnzanu mukusungirana chakukhosi cha ubale wanu.
Ngati mukukwiyitsidwa nthawi zonse, ndiye kuti pali china chake cholakwika pamtima paubwenzi wanu.
5. Pali zovuta zambiri
Kutaya mtima pa chinthu chaching'ono ndikoyipa, koma ndi nkhani yosiyana kwambiri ndi kusiya njira yanu ndikuyendetsa mtengo pang'ono ndikungodandaula.
Sikoyenera kukangana, ndipo ichi ndiye chachikulu cholepheretsa kulankhulana bwino m'banja.
Momwe mungathetsere kusayankhulana muubwenzi
Ubale wopanda kulumikizana siubwenzi; ndi anthu awiri okha osunga malonjezo awo ndikusokoneza chimwemwe chawo.
Kuti muthe kusintha mayendedwe anu kukhala abwino kuti mupulumutse banja lanu, mutha kuyamba kulumikizana kwambiri.
Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kutsatira malangizo omwe atchulidwa pansipa:
- Kupewa ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite paubwenzi wanu. Kuyambira pachiyambi, onetsetsani kuti mwayesetsa kuti mukwaniritse zochitikazo ndikukambirana.
- Yambirani pazokambirana zazing'ono, funsani mnzanu ngati ali wokondwa ndi chibwenzicho ndipo ngati muwona china chake chomwe chakukhumudwitsani anene.
- Funsani mafunso ngati njira yabwino yopangira mnzanu kumasuka ndikufunsa funso loyenera. Mafunso awa akuphatikizaponso, ndinakukhumudwitsani? Kodi ndidachita chinthu chomwe chimakusowetsani mtendere? Etc.
- Osazitenga mopepuka ngati mnzanu wakukwiyirani. Apatseni malo omwe akufunikira ndikufunsani nthawi yomwe mtima wawo ukhazikike.
- Yesetsani kulankhulana pamitu yakuya pafupipafupi; kambiranani zamtsogolo, malingaliro omwe muli nawo, ndikukonzekera maulendo kuti muchoke pantchito yotanganidwa.
- Pezani zomwe zimayambitsa mnzanuyo ndikupewa kuchita izi
Ndi zidule pamwambapa, mutha konzani kusowa kwa kulumikizana mbanja nthawi yomweyo. Mvetsetsani mnzanuyo kenako onetsetsani kuti mukupewa zinthu zomwe zingawakankhe.
Ukwati ndi bizinesi yovuta, ndipo muyenera kuyiyambitsa koyambirira kuti zinthu zikhale zosangalatsa kwamuyaya. Ndi nkhaniyi, mutha kusintha mayendedwe olakwika kukhala abwino kuti apulumutse banja lanu.