Zamkati
- Kudzipangira nokha
- Kusiyanitsa pakati pa kudzisamalira ndi kudzikonda
- Kusamalira nokha kumayamba ndi malingaliro anu kwa inu nokha
Anthu ambiri amamvetsetsa ndipo amavomereza kuti kukhala pachibwenzi ndiko kusonkhanitsa zidziwitso. Kodi munthu amene ndimakopeka naye angakhale kholo labwino? Kodi angakhale munthu amene ndingamudalire kuti akhalebe wokhulupirika? Kodi angakhale akundithandiza ngati ndikufuna kusintha ntchito? Kodi angalandire magawo onse a ine, abwino, oyipa, ndi o ooneka ngati oyipa?
Mafunso awa amawoneka omveka polingalira madeti ofunikira onse oyamba ndi wina watsopano. Kuphatikiza apo, uwu ndi mzere wokhazikika wofunsidwa kwa anzathu titakhala limodzi kwazaka zambiri. "Nanga iwe?" Mukufuna chiyani?" Kodi mukufuna kupita kuti mukadye chakudya chamadzulo? Ine? Zili ndi inu. Ndilandira zomwe muli nazo. ”
Koma bwanji ngati mafunso oti mufunse sanali okhudzana ndi munthu amene wakhala pafupi nanu pamasiku amenewo kapena ana ali ndi sitter, kapena apita ku koleji? Bwanji ngati mafunsowa amafunika kufunsidwa ndi munthu yemwe ali pakalilole ... PAMENE nthawi isanakwane inu ndi mnzanu?
Mu ntchito yanga yothandizira ndi maanja amitundu yonse, makulidwe, zikhalidwe, mafuko, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, malingaliro azakugonana, komanso zipembedzo ndapeza kuti kuderalo anthu akuwoneka kuti satenga nthawi yokwanira kuyankha mafunso awa (ndi ena ambiri ) WAWO WOKHALA asanapange chibwenzi, kapena patatha zaka limodzi .... osadzipereka kaye kudzipereka kapena kukhazikitsanso kudzipereka kwanthawi yayitali yogwirizana.
Kudzipangira nokha
Ngati tingapangitse anthu omwe ali pachiwopsezo kukhala chinthu choyambirira, ngati tingaganizire zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa ife kuposa maluso aubereki, kutonthoza koma osasunthika pamalingaliro kapena ngakhale chidaliro choyera cha kukhulupirika. Inde, ngati titayang'ana NDI mopyola mawonekedwe, maakaunti aku banki kapena kuthekera kokhala ndi moyo ... maphunziro ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo pamoyo wanga komanso ukatswiri wanga zikuwonetsa kuti pali kuchuluka kwakukulu kwa mabanja omwe akukhala bwino osangokhala okwatirana, komanso kukhalabe achimwemwe m'banja .
Izi, zachidziwikire, sizingokhala zovuta komanso zotsutsana. Kodi ndimangoyang'ana pa ine popanda kuzipanga ZONSE za ine kapena kutchedwa munthu wodzikonda wonyada .... munthu?! Kodi ndingawone bwanji zosowa za mnzanga ndi zanga popanda kumva ngati ndikufika kumapeto kwa chibwenzi ?! Umu ... nayi motere: ndi momwe zimaganiziridwira, ndikufotokozeranso tanthauzo la kukhala "wodzikonda."
Kusiyanitsa pakati pa kudzisamalira ndi kudzikonda
Ah ndikudziwa ... uli ngati, chiyani? Bwerezani, chonde. Hu? Bweraninso! Chabwino, taganizirani izi: Kukhala wodzikonda ndi: Kudziganizira wekha osati kuganizira ena mozama. Pomwe kulingalira ena mutakhala ndi nthawi yodziwa momwe mumamvera poyamba, kuli ngati ... mukudziwa momwe mungayendere pandege kulikonse, amakuwuzani ngati mwadzidzidzi muyenera kuyika zigoba za oxygen musanayike mwana ameneyo ali m'manja mwanu. ”
Popanda kutenga nthawi, khama, chidwi chofuna kudziwa kuti ndinu ndani, makamaka momwe mumamvera (momwe timapezera zomwe tili .. koma gawo lina) ... tingadziwe bwanji kwa omwe tikudzipereka ? Kodi tingakhale bwanji otsimikiza kuti munthu amene tamusankha ndiye munthu wathu ... kwamuyaya? Tiyeni tiwonjezerepo ... mumadziwa bwanji kuti CHIFUKWA chiyani mumakopeka ndi munthuyu? .... Zili m'manja mwanu.
Kudzisamalira ndi mawu abodza omwe afala (thokozani zabwino) mu lexicon ya anthu wamba, koma (mwa lingaliro langa lodzichepetsa) sanakhale b-r-o-k-e-n d-o-w-n. Yasweka m'njira yomwe ingatithandizire kumvetsetsa ndi chifukwa chake o .. chofunikira .. CHOFUNIKA KWAMBIRI ... kuzonse m'moyo wathu wamaubale.
Kulumikiza omwe mumasankha kukwatira kapena kukhala nawo ndi lingaliro lodzisamalira kumawoneka ngati kwanthawi yayitali, koma ndimvereni.
Kusamalira nokha kumayamba ndi malingaliro anu kwa inu nokha
Zinthu zomwe timadziuza tokha zomwe palibe wina amazimva ... buuuut aliyense amaziona ndikumva! Inde, aliyense amadziwa.
Tikamadzilankhulira tokha tikukhazikitsa muyezo womwe aliyense amene tili naye pachibwenzi azitsatira. Chifukwa chake, bwanji munthu amene timadzipeza atakopeka naye, munthu yemwe tikufuna kupereka kapena kuvomera pempholo; munthu m'modzi yemwe timalonjeza kuti tidzakhala limodzi kwamuyaya pokwatirana kapena kuvomerezana naye, kutichitira china chilichonse kupatula momwe ife tilili?
Onani, sikuti zomwe timauza ana kukhala mawu awo amkati, koma timakhala pachibwenzi pamlingo wodzidalira. Chifukwa chake ngati titakhala ndi nthawi yophunzira za, kuyamikira ndikukhazikitsa njira yodzichitira tokha, sikuti tidzangopeza ndikusunga bwenzi lathu lofananira, tidzatha kupititsa chiyembekezo chathu kwa ana athu omwe, ana a ena ndipo kwenikweni kwa ana aliwonse omwe timakumana nawo. Makamaka mkati mwathu.
Sinthani momwe mumvetsetsa za kudzikonda kwanu, ndipo mumasintha momwe kupambana muubwenzi kumakhalira kwanu .... m'mayanjano onse. #Zolinga Zachibale