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Zamkati
- Fupa la mkangano pakati pa mabanja awiriwa m'banja
- Chikondi chachinyengo kuchokera kwa kholo lopeza sichokwanira
- Kusavomerezeka kuchokera kwa ana kwa ana enawo
- Kukulitsa malingaliro ampikisano
- Ukwati ukhoza kusokonekera
- Ana omwe ali ndi pakati palimodzi amatha kuyambitsa nsanje mwa abale awo onse
- Ana okondana amawasokoneza
- Kunyalanyaza kuchokera kumapeto onse nthawi zina
- Khalidwe loipa la ana obadwa nawo
- Sanalandire chidwi
Ndizofala kuwona munthu wopatukana ndi ana ochokera m'banja loyamba akukwatiranso. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, pali wokondedwa m'modzi womangiriza mfundo muukwati 40%, ndipo onse awiri akwatiranso m'mabanja 20%.
Mabanja ophatikizika amakhalapo pamene anthu awiri omwe kale makolo akukwatiranso.
Poyamba, ndizosangalatsa kukhala ndi anthu atsopano ocheza nawo. Ndizosangalatsa kulandira mamembala atsopano kubanjali. Pambuyo pake, imatha kukhala tsoka lomwe silinachenjezedwe. Banja lophatikizidwa la ana limatanthauza kukhala ndi kholo lopeza, abale ake, agogo, agogo aamuna, ndi amalume opeza. Pali dziko limodzi lokha lomwe mukusunthamo.
Fupa la mkangano pakati pa mabanja awiriwa m'banja
Mavuto omwe banja lomwe limakumana nawo ndi osiyanasiyana.
Ana omwe ali m'mabanja osakanikirana samanyalanyaza komanso kumangodandaula kuchokera kwa kholo lawo lopeza komanso abale awo.
Atha kukhala momwemonso kwa gulu linalo. Pakhoza kukhala chosowa pakati pa mamembala.
Chikondi chachinyengo kuchokera kwa kholo lopeza sichokwanira
Mwana sangapeze kutentha komweku kuchokera kwa kholo lawo lopeza lomwe amalandira kuchokera kwa kholo lawo lobadwa. Mwachitsanzo, mwana amatha kumangokhala yekha ali wokhumudwa pantchito yabanja kapena kuponyedwa ndi kholo lopeza. Mwanayo amadzimva ngati wotayika pamikhalidwe yotere.
Kusavomerezeka kuchokera kwa ana kwa ana enawo
Zili ngati mabanja awiri omwe amakhala pansi pa denga limodzi. Banja limodzi lingayese kulamulira banjali komanso mosemphanitsa. Ana sangakhale ndi mwayi wocheza wina ndi mnzake. Amakhala osakondana wina ndi mnzake nthawi zambiri, ngati sichoncho. Itha kukhala fungulo kuti muyambe mkangano.
Kukulitsa malingaliro ampikisano
Ana amatha kukulitsa malingaliro ampikisano kwa abale ndi abambo.
Kuchokera pakulimbana pazinthu zazing'ono monga 'ndani atenge chidole chodzaza' kumikangano yayikulu monga kugawa katundu ndi katundu wabanja - chilichonse chingayambitse nkhondo yabanja. Zinthu zambiri zitha kulimbitsa magawano.
Ukwati ukhoza kusokonekera
Ngati onse awiri sagwirizana ndi ana anzawo, nawonso akhoza kudana. Ukwati ukhoza kukhala pangozi nthawi iliyonse posachedwa, chifukwa chamavuto abanja.
Onse awiri mwamuna ndi mkazi sakanatha kusangalala nthawi yawo yabwino ndi chipwirikiti m'nyumba. Amatha kusiya kukondana wina ndi mnzake ndikukhala osimidwa. Atha kukhalabe okwatirana okondana.
Ana omwe ali ndi pakati palimodzi amatha kuyambitsa nsanje mwa abale awo onse
Ana obadwa a makolo onse awiri amakondedwa komanso kupembedzedwa kuchokera kumapeto onse. Adzakhala anthu okondwerera kwambiri mnyumba. Zitha kubweretsa nsanje komanso kudzidalira mwa ana ena. Amatha kumva kuwawa kunyalanyazidwa ndi m'modzi wa makolowo.
Ana okondana amawasokoneza
Akadakhala kuti amaganiza kuti ndi zachizolowezi, mwachitsanzo, atha kunamizidwa ndi kholo lawo lakubereka kuti kholo lomwe likupeza silimalankhula mokwanira kuti lisonyeze chikondi chawo kwa inu komanso akawona zovuta zikuchitika kwa ana osaphunzitsidwa , samatenga mokoma.
Kunyalanyaza kuchokera kumapeto onse nthawi zina
Mukadawonera TV yotchuka kuyambira 2004, Drake ndi Josh, mutha kumvetsetsa mosavuta chilichonse chomwe chanenedwa pamwambapa. Drake ndi Josh anali sitcom yochokera kwa anyamata awiri ochokera kubanja losakanikirana. Ngakhale zikuwonetsa ubale wapamtima pakati pa abale opeza, zikuwonetsanso momwe makolo awo onse amawasiyira.
Khalidwe loipa la ana obadwa nawo
Abale oterewa amalamulidwa ndi mlongo wawo yekhayo, Megan, wobadwa ndi makolo onse awiri. Ngakhale zonse zomwe zidawonedwazi zidawonetsedwa mopepuka, zimakhudzana kwambiri ndi zenizeni za moyo.
Megan anali wopambana kwa onse awiri. Ana opeza samvera kapena kupatsidwa mwayi woyamba. Nthawi zambiri amabwera pambuyo pa ana ngati Megan. Mwanjira imeneyi, ana ngati Drake ndi Josh amatha kukhala ndi moyo wosauka m'moyo weniweni.
Sanalandire chidwi
Zikuwonetsa kuti Drake ndi Josh alibe mwayi wokhala ndi makolo awo. Iwo samayendera kawirikawiri makolo awo. Amathandizana pomwe makolo onse ali otanganidwa kusangalala ndi moyo wawo. Ali otanganidwa kwambiri kwakuti sangathe kuwawona. Amangoyenera kulipira ngongole ndipo ndizokhudza.
Palibe chomwe chingalongosole malingaliro abanja labwino ngati chiwonetserochi. Kwambiri pafupi ndi zomwe zenizeni zili.