Zamkati
- Mumathera nthawi yochulukirapo kusiyana ndi limodzi
- Kupanda kulumikizana
- Nkhondo zanu nthawi zonse zimakhala za zinthu zofanana
- Simungayime banja la mnzanu
- Wokondedwa wanu ali ndi zoipa zomwe simukuzikonda
- Zoyendetsa zanu zogonana sizogwirizana
Ngakhale Hollywood ipanga makanema omwe nthawi zambiri amawapangitsa kuti asawonekere, aliyense amene ali pachibwenzi amakumana ndi zovuta.
Mwanjira ina, palibe ubale wabwino pazithunzi, ndi mwamuna wokongola yemwe amabweretsa maluwa kunyumba sabata iliyonse, amachita mokwanira ntchito zonse zapakhomo, ndipo amakumbukira tsiku lobadwa la amayi anu nthawi zonse.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti pali mfundo zina zofananira pamaubwenzi onse; kusamvana komwe mabanja ambiri amakumana m'malo osiyanasiyana munthawi ya chibwenzi.
Tiyeni tiwone zomwe izi ndizovuta, ndikuwona malingaliro amomwe mungakonzere zinthu
Mumathera nthawi yochulukirapo kusiyana ndi limodzi
Kumbukirani masiku oyambirira a chibwenzi chanu, pomwe simumatha kudikirira kuti mucheze ndi wokondedwa wanu, kupatula nthawi yomwe mumakhala mumacheza ndi anzanu, zosangalatsa komanso zolimbitsa thupi kuti mucheze nawo?
Zachidziwikire kuti khalidweli silikhalitsa, chomwe ndi chinthu chabwino, koma tsopano mumapezeka kumapeto kwina, kumathera nthawi yochulukirapo kusiyana ndi mnzanu.
Mwina izi ndi chifukwa cha moyo wanu waluso, kodi mukukwera pamakampani ambiri?, Kapena mwina mukutenga ubale wanu mopepuka.
Zifukwa zilizonse, osanyalanyaza kufunikira kwakupatula nthawi yodzipereka limodzi.
Kupanda kulumikizana
Ngakhale zili bwino kukhala ndi zokhumba zanu, muyenera kulimbitsa mgwirizano wa banja lanu posankha nthawi yoti mulumikizane. Kungakhale usiku, kapena kungogwirira limodzi masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndikutenga sauna yabwino pambuyo pake, koma yesetsani kulumikizana mwadala kamodzi pa sabata ngati mukufuna kupewa zovuta zaubwenzi.
Nkhondo zanu nthawi zonse zimakhala za zinthu zofanana
Inu ndi mnzanu mukuwoneka kuti mumabwerera kumitu imodzimodzi nthawi zonse mukamakangana. Mukukumana ndi vuto lalikulu laubwenzi pano.
Kusalinganika kwa yemwe amachita zinthu zapakhomo, kusadziŵa kwake kapena simudzachotsa tsitsi losamba; Kutembenukira kwake ndikutengera ana ku mpira, kapena zizolowezi za winawake pa intaneti. Iyi si mikangano yayikulu, yokhudza moyo, koma imangobwerezabwereza.
Kodi mungaletse bwanji mkangano wolimbana ndi ubalewu?
Pali mayankho angapo pa izi. Choyamba ndikuzindikira kuti palibe chimodzi mwazinthu izi ndichinthu chachikulu, ndikungovomereza kuti umu ndi momwe zinthu ziliri.
Kodi kulimbana kwa maubwenzi kumeneku kuyenera kuthetsedwa?
Ngati yankho lanu ndi inde, mungakonde kuyeretsa madera awa muubwenzi wanu, ndiye khalani ndi nthawi yoti mukhale pansi ndikukambirana momwe nkhaniyi ilili yofunika kwa inu komanso momwe mungafunire mnzanuyo akhale nawo pachisankho .
Onetsetsani kuti zokambirana zanu zachitika modekha, kupewa kupsetsana mtima.
Afunseni kuti afotokoze njira yothetsera kusamvana kwa ntchito zapakhomo, mwina tchati chomwe chikuwonetsa omwe ali ndiudindo sabata iliyonse? Zomwezi ndi omwe akuyendetsa ana kuti azichita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikukhala otseguka pamalingaliro awo, kapena osavomerezeka, zindikirani kutengapo gawo pazokambirana.
Simungayime banja la mnzanu
Kaya ndi makolo awo, kapena mlamu wawo, osamverera pafupi ndi apongozi anu amadandaula.
Izi ndizovuta chifukwa awa ndi anthu omwe mumakakamizidwa kuyanjana nawo ndipo zimayambitsa mavuto ena pachibwenzi.
Mukufuna kuti zonse zizikhala zosangalatsa chifukwa cha mnzanu, komanso zanu komanso ana anu. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazomwe mungafune kutenga mseu wapamwamba, kuchita ngati "zonse zili bwino.
Ngati apongozi anu ndi okonda kusankhana mitundu, akunena zinthu zomwe mukuzinyansa, mutha kunena mwakachetechete kuti mumalemekeza malingaliro awo koma simukugwirizana nawo kutsindika "malingaliro ake" osati "iwo" - musamapange zaumwini kapena samangonyalanyaza zonyansa zake.
Palinso mwayi wosapezeka pamisonkhano pomwe munthu wolakwayo amapezeka.
Ngati mukumva kuti azilamu aziona kuti ndi zothandiza, kuwulutsa madandaulo moona mtima kumatha kusintha, koma zokambirana ziyenera kuyang'aniridwa ndi luso lomvera.
Dzifunseni ngati angathe kutenga nawo mbali pazokambirana izi musanakhazikitse. Mulimonsemo, chitonthozani podziwa kuti simuli nokha.
Wokondedwa wanu ali ndi zoipa zomwe simukuzikonda
Mwina mnzanu wayamba kumwa mowa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kapena amatha madzulo aliwonse akusewera World of Warcraft.
Mwinamwake ali ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana chomwe chimakhudza moyo wanu wogonana.
Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire zoipa, mumakwiya chifukwa cha malo omwe akutenga mu ubale wanu. Kodi pali yankho pa izi? Izi ndizovuta, chifukwa pamene wina ali ndi vuto lakumwa, samawona zinthu ngati zovuta mpaka zikafika pansi.
Muyenera kudzisamalira.
Choyamba, kambiranani ndi mnzanuyo. Yambani mokoma mtima: “Mukuwoneka kuti mumakondadi masewera amakanema omwe mumasewera usiku uliwonse. Koma ndimaona kuti andinyalanyaza. Kodi pali njira yodziwira momwe ndingasamalire mokwanira ndipo mutha kuchita nawo zosangalatsa zanu za World of Warcraft? ”
Kwa omwe amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mutha kupeza zambiri ndikuthandizidwa ndi magulu monga AA ndi NA komanso misonkhano yawo yapadera yamabanja omwe akhudzidwa ndi vutoli.
Zoyendetsa zanu zogonana sizogwirizana
Mukufuna kugonana kwambiri kuposa mnzanu, ndipo ikukhala nkhani yeniyeni. Mabanja onse amapita kuzipululu zogonana kapena nthawi zomwe mnzake sanamve.
Dzifunseni ngati izi ndi zakanthawi kochepa. Mwina mnzanuyo akupanikizika pantchito. Mwina pali vuto lazachipatala lomwe likukhudza libido, monga mankhwala opatsirana pogonana kapena mankhwala a kuthamanga kwa magazi.
Kukalamba kumatha kuyambitsa vuto lachiwerewere. Onetsetsani kuti nonse mukuyang'ana chithunzichi chachikulu ndikukambirana zomwe zingakhale zikuchitika musanapange chisankho chosintha pamoyo monga kusiya, kapena kukhala ndi chibwenzi.