Zamkati
- Kuponderezedwa: Ambiri a ife timabwerera m'mbuyo tikamakhala ndi banja lathu lochokera
- Wodzilamulira: Banja lanu lochokeranso limatha kukuponderezani
- Kuchotsedwa: Ostracism wa mnzake watsopano ndi banja lochokera
- 1. Ndandanda yopuma
- 2. Konzani zolowa m'maganizo
- 3. Dziwani kuyandikira kwa thupi
- 4. Lankhulani ngati kuti ndinu gulu
- 5. Nthawi zonse phatikizani ngakhale ndi zithunzi
- 6. Khalani ndi msana wa mnzanu
“Kodi mungatuluke pachithunzichi chonde? Tikungofuna chithunzi cha banja lathu. ” Umu ndi momwe kuchezera kwa kasitomala wanga kwaposachedwa kwa apongozi ake kunayamba. Apongozi ake adapempha mwamantha kuti atuluke pachithunzi cha banja lomwe anali kukonzekera kutenga. Amangofuna chithunzi cha banja lawo. Wogula kasitomala wanga, akumva kuwawa komanso kusokonezeka ndi machitidwe awo onse, amamuwona mwamuna wake wazaka 5 atakhazikika pakati pa mlongo wake ndi mchimwene wake, akusekerera ngati anali ndi zaka 3 kachiwiri.
Adaganiza kuti ndi m'modzi wa banja la amuna awo pomwe adakwatirana zaka 5 zapitazo. Tsopano, adamva kuti banja lake lalemba mzere mumchenga.
Choyipa chachikulu, zimawoneka kuti mwamuna wake sanaganize kuti chithunzi cha banja chokhacho ndichinthu chachikulu. Banja Langa Latsopano? Ambiri aife timayembekezera kuti tikakwatirana ndi anzathu tidzakumbatiridwa ndi mabanja awo, kuvomerezedwa kwathunthu ndikuphatikizidwa nawo. Mwachidziwikire, sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Mabanja ena, achidziwikire kapena ayi, akuwoneka kuti akhazikitsa malire pakati pa banja lomwe adachokera ndi mnzake watsopano. Satha kapena sakufuna kuwona membala watsopanoyo ngati wawo.
Kudziwidwa ndi kuphatikiza kwamabanja akale ndi atsopano kumatha kuyambitsa mikangano, mavuto kapena kungopeweratu.
Nayi machitidwe akulu osagwira omwe amalepheretsa kuphatikiza kwamtendere kwa mabanja:
Kuponderezedwa: Ambiri a ife timabwerera m'mbuyo tikamakhala ndi banja lathu lochokera
Udindo wathu waubwana ndiwodziwika bwino kotero kuti timayambiranso monga chikhalidwe chachiwiri. Banja lathu lochokera lingatithandizenso mosazindikira kukhala kwathu ngati mwana. Kuyesayesa kulikonse kokana kuponderezedwa kwa mwana wanu wazaka 15 kumatha kubweretsa zoyipa zambiri kubanja loyambira monga kunyoza ngati mwana ("unkakonda kusangalala"), kupewa kapena kusamvana. Kusamvana pakati pa mabanja anu akale ndi atsopano kumatha kukupangitsani kumva ngati Jekyll ndi Hyde. Ndi banja lanu kapena komwe mumachokera, mumakonda kusewera mwana wosangalala, komabe muli ndi banja lanu latsopanoli, ndinu ovuta kwambiri komanso oyang'anira. Maudindo awiriwa amatsutsana wina ndi mnzake zomwe zingakhale zovuta kuti onse azivomereze.
Wodzilamulira: Banja lanu lochokeranso limatha kukuponderezani
Banja lanu lochokera komweko lingakupatseni mwayi wolamulira nokha m'maganizo ndi mwakuthupi ndikusiya mnzanu akumva kuti akusungulumwa. Mmodzi mwa makasitomala anga adandiuza momwe adakhumudwira pomwe samatha kukhala pafupi ndi mkazi wake akakhala ndi banja lake. Nthawi zonse ankazunguliridwa ndi azilongo ake osamusiyira malo. Achibale omwe ali pachiyambi amathanso kulamulira malo okangalika pakupitilira kukambirana mokhazikika, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zovuta za mnzake kutenga nawo mbali.
Kuchotsedwa: Ostracism wa mnzake watsopano ndi banja lochokera
Khalidwe lowopsa kwambiri komanso lowononga ndikupatula mwadala kapena kunyalanyaza mnzake watsopano ndi banja lochokera. Chithunzi cha banja chokhacho chikuwonetsa momveka bwino zakusiyidwa mwadala. Zitsanzo zina zankhanza chabe ndi monga zonena zabodza zopangidwa ndi abale am'banja lachiyambi monga, "sitidzakuwonaninso ... tsopano," komanso "Ndikusowa momwe zinthu zidakhalira."
Momwe mungasamalire kusakanikirana kwa mabanja akale ndi atsopano atha kukhala okhumudwitsa, koma pali njira zabwino komanso zothandiza zomwe mabanja ndi mabanja angayendetsere maulendo awo.
Nazi njira 6 zosamalira maulendo apongozi:
1. Ndandanda yopuma
Tengani zopumira munyumba yabanja kuti mugwirizanenso ndi kukhazikitsanso bwenzi lanu. Izi zitha kukhala zosavuta monga kuyenda mphindi 10 kapena kupeza malo opanda phokoso.
2. Konzani zolowa m'maganizo
Kokani mnzanu pambali kwakanthawi kuti muwone momwe akukhalira.
3. Dziwani kuyandikira kwa thupi
Mukawona kuti mwazunguliridwa ndi abale anu ndipo mnzanu ali kutsidya lina la chipinda, yesetsani kuwaphatikizira.
4. Lankhulani ngati kuti ndinu gulu
Gwiritsani ntchito matchulidwe ife ndi ife, kwambiri!
5. Nthawi zonse phatikizani ngakhale ndi zithunzi
Pokhapokha mutakhala ndi chiwonetsero chofanana ndi cha Kardashians palibe chifukwa chazithunzi zapa banja zojambulidwa.
6. Khalani ndi msana wa mnzanu
Konzani zolankhula zabodza kapena zabodza zokhudza wokondedwa wanu ndi banja lanu lochokera. Cholinga chachikulu ndichakuti inuyo ndi mnzanuyo mupange malire ndi banja lomwe mudachokera ndikupanga njira zothanirana zomwe zingalimbikitse mgwirizano wamtendere pakati pa mabanja onsewa. Mukamayesetsa kutsatira zomwe inu ndi mnzanu mumachita, nthawi zambiri mabanja onse amakonzanso zinthu m'njira zomwe zingathandize kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba.