Zamkati
- Mungasinthe kwenikweni pamoyo wamwana
- Ndi chikumbutso chabwino champhamvu zanu
- Muyenera kuyesetsa
- Muphunzira mgwirizano
- Zithandizira kulumikizana
- Mudzakhazikitsa mfundo zofunikira pabanja
Zimadziwika kwambiri kuti a Ukwati wabwino sichinthu chomwe chimangochitika, ndichinthu chomwe muyenera kuyesetsa. Mabanja akayamba chizolowezi, kudandaula kofala ndikuti amayamba kumva ngati kukhala ndi mnzanu m'malo mokhala ndi bwenzi lawo.
Kugwira ntchito padera ndikukhala moyo wosiyana ndikwabwino kuti mukhalebe odziyimira panokha. Koma ana akangoyenda chisa, zimakhala zovuta kuti mupeze chidwi chofanana kuti mubwererenso limodzi. Ngakhale maanja omwe alibe ana atha kukumana ndi zotere m'banja lawo. Nthawi zambiri zimatha kumva kuti banja silikuyenda pomwe kwenikweni palibe cholakwika chilichonse.
Ndiye, mungatani kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino? Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino?
Kwa maanja omwe akufuna vuto limodzi kuti achite limodzi, Kulimbikitsana kungapereke mwayi wosankha zomwe zingakupangitseni kuyandikana. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazisankho zabwino komanso zanzeru zamomwe mungalimbitsire banja lanu.
Kuthana ndi mavuto limodzi kungathandize kulimbitsa banja lanu. Amakumbutsa anthu awiri zifukwa zomwe adakondana wina ndi mnzake.
Kodi kulera ana kungalimbitse banja lanu? Nazi zifukwa zisanu ndi chimodzi zomwe muyenera kuganizira zolimbikitsira banja lanu:
Mungasinthe kwenikweni pamoyo wamwana
Palibe kukayika kuti kulera ana ndi chifukwa chabwino. Pali ana ambiri omwe akusowa padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo pomwe anthu ambiri amatenga lingaliro lakulera mwana asanatengere, iyi si njira yomwe muyenera kutsatira nthawi zonse.
Kulimbikitsa kumatha kukhala m'njira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza kwakanthawi, kupuma, komanso kukonzekera kwakanthawi. Ngati simukuwona kuti mutha kudzipereka kuti mukhale ndi mwana nthawi zonse, mutha kudzipereka nthawi zonse kusamalira ana mosayembekezereka, kapena kupuma kwa ana omwe ali ndi zosowa zapadera kuti apatse makolo awo mwayi wowonjezeranso mabatire awo.
Ndi chikumbutso chabwino champhamvu zanu
Nthawi zambiri timakopeka ndi anthu omwe ali osiyana ndi ife eni, ndipo pakapita nthawi kusiyana kumeneku kumatha kuwoneka ngati wamba. Kulera mwana ndichovuta kwambiri chomwe chimafunikira maphunziro, kulimbikira, komanso kulimba mtima.
Kupita limodzi paulendowu kungathandize kukumbutsa maubwenzi za okondedwa awo komanso kuthandizira kukonzanso chikondi chawo. Ngakhale kulera ana sikuyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yothetsera ukwati wachangu, ngati ndi zomwe mudaganizirapo m'mbuyomu, ndibwino kuti muziyambiranso.
Muyenera kuyesetsa
Mukakhala kholo kapena olera ana, muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino limodzi. Sizingachitike pokhapokha mutazipangitsa kuti zichitike, choncho mupeza gawo latsopano ku banja lanu mukazindikira kuti mukufunadi nthawi yocheza. Kupeza nthawi yolankhula za china chilichonse kupatula kulera ana kapena bungwe lanu lolera nokha ndizothandiza, ndipo kusungitsa malo olera ana mwezi uliwonse kukupangitsani kuti tsiku lanu likhale lofunika kwambiri kuposa kale.
Monga tanenera kale, kulera ndi vuto lalikulu, chifukwa chake, sayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kukonza banja lomwe latha, koma mutha kuwona kuti kupita limodzi limodzi kungathandize kulimbitsa banja lanu kuposa kale.
Muphunzira mgwirizano
Njira imodzi yomwe mungalimbikitsire banja lanu ndikukhala kholo lolera ndikuphunzira kuyanjana. Kukongola kwa banja labwino kumagona muzinthu zake zazing'ono. Kulera ana kumathandiza kuti chikondi chikhalebe chokhazikika m'banja.
Kuchita zinthu mogwirizana kumalimbikitsa kusirira, ulemu, ndi chisomo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pakusamalira olera, nonse mudzalakwitsa, mudzakumana ndi zolephera, mudzakhala ndi 'wow', ndikugawana chisangalalo chamtundu uliwonse. Izi zidzakuthandizani kulimbitsa banja lanu.
Mukamagwira ntchito limodzi kukhala makolo olera, mudzachita izi:
- Kondweranani wina ndi mnzake
- Muzithandizana
- Kusamalirana
Zithandizira kulumikizana
Kulankhulana ndi kumvetsetsa ndizofunikira kwambiri pakulimbitsa banja lanu. Kulankhulana bwino kumabweretsa chisangalalo m'banja. Makamaka paukwati wa kholo, zimachitika chifukwa mumatha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu, zisangalalo zanu, ndi zokhumudwitsa zanu momasuka.
Pomwe banja lanu komanso kulera kwanu kumayendera limodzi, mumaphunziranso kukulitsa luso lomvera mnzanu. Mumalumikizana kuti muyamikire osati kudandaula. Kuphatikiza apo, mumaphunziranso kuthetsa kusiyana pakati panu mwa kuchita zabwino.
Mudzakhazikitsa mfundo zofunikira pabanja
Momwe muliri muukwati komanso kulera ana, mudzakhazikitsa mfundo zazikuluzikulu zothandiza kulimbitsa banja lanu ndikuthandizira kulera mwanayo bwino.
Makhalidwe abwino ali ngati kachitidwe komwe kangayendetsere zochita ndi zoyeserera za banjali pamlingo woyenera. Mfundozi zimakhudza chisankho cha banja. Zina mwazofunikira zomwe zingathandize mwana ndikulimbitsa banja ndi izi:
- Umphumphu: Zimatanthauza kuyamikira kudzipereka ndikukhala osasunthika pachikhalidwe
- Kudzilemekeza: Zimatanthauza kumvetsetsa kufunika kwanu kudziko lapansi osakhazikika pazotsika mtengo
- Kulimbika: Zimangotanthauza kuti muli wofunitsitsa kuyimirira bwino komanso kukhala ndi mphamvu zochitira zinthu zovuta
- Mgwirizano: Kuthandiza anthu am'banja lanu, anzanu, komanso okondedwa anu
Mutha kupanga mndandanda wazikhalidwe zomwe zimayendetsa moyo wanu ndi zomwe mukufuna kupereka kwa mwana wanu. Konzani mndandanda wazikhalidwe zazikulu ndikusankha mfundo zisanu zofunika kwambiri kapena zofunika kwambiri pabanja.
Mu kanema pansipa, a Jan Stassen amalankhula zakufunika kwamakhalidwe oyambira. Akuti zikhalidwe zimatanthauzira momwe tikufunira kupitiliza kukhala ndi moyo. Ndiomwe angathandizire pazisankho. Dziwani zambiri za izi pansipa:
Veronica Pembleton
Nkhaniyi idalembedwa ndi Veronica Pembleton. Pogwira ntchito ndi mabungwe othandiza angapo, mabungwe olamulira, ndi akatswiri pakulimbikitsa ku Liverpool, Veronica amagwiritsa ntchito utolankhani wake kuwunikira zomwe anthu samalankhula zokwanira.