Zamkati
- 1. Kuyang'ana kwambiri za ubale
- 2. Kupeza tsamba limodzi kapena kudziwa kusiyana kwanu
- 3. Kupanga dongosolo lamasewera
- 4. Kumvetsetsa pazamauthenga apabanja
- 5. Kuyika ndalama muukwati wanu
Monga mlangizi wa maubwenzi komanso mphunzitsi, ndimaona kuti ndizosangalatsa kuti anthu ali ofunitsitsa kuwononga ndalama, nthawi, ndi nyonga zambiri paukwati. Koma zikafika paukwati, amayamba kutaya chidwi ndikuwononga ndalama m'banja.
Tili ndi ukwati wokondwerera ukwatiwo osangokhala ndi phwando lalikulu, sichoncho? Ngati mukukwatira, pangani upangiri musanakwatirane mbali zonse za bajeti ndi ukwati wanu. Kuyika ndalama muubwenzi wanu kumatha kukhala ndi phindu lokhutira ndi banja lanu.
Pali anthu omwe amaganiza, “Payenera kukhala mavuto” makamaka ngati awiriwo apita kukalandira uphungu asanakwatirane! Uphungu umasalidwa kwambiri mpaka pano. Koma upangiri wa maanja ndi malo ophunzirira ndikusintha maubwenzi.
Maubwenzi amatengera sayansi ndipo ambiri aife sitinaphunzitsidwepo (kuphatikiza ine ndekha kufikira nditaphunzitsidwa ngati mlangizi wa maanja) momwe tingachitire ndi maubwenzi. Izi zikadachitika, anthu ambiri akadapita kukalandira uphungu zinthu zisanachitike "zoipa".
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
Kodi mumadziwa kuti maanja amadikirira zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi kuti alandire upangiri wina atapempha kaye? Kodi mungaganizire kuyenda mozungulira ndi mkono wosweka kwa zaka 6, ouch!
Uphungu asanakwatirane ndi chinthu chomwe anthu ochepa amachita, osadziwa kuti chingakhale chothandiza kwambiri.
Tiyeni tiwone maubwino asanu omwe mungapeze kuchokera ku upangiri usanakwatirane:
1. Kuyang'ana kwambiri za ubale
Musanalowe m'banja, nthawi yanu yambiri imakhala pazokonzekera ukwati osati kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Pali zambiri zomwe zikukhudzidwa komanso zambiri zofunika kuziganizira, kukonzekera ndikusankha. Izi zimapangitsa ubalewo kukhala wowotchera kumbuyo. Mukasunthira kuubwenzi womwe mumalumikizananso ndi mnzanu pazomwe zili zofunika kwa nonse.
2. Kupeza tsamba limodzi kapena kudziwa kusiyana kwanu
Mabanja ambiri amaganiza kuti ali patsamba limodzi zikafika pazinthu zofunika paubwenzi. Komabe kukankha sikukhala choncho nthawi zonse.
Maubwenzi amatha kukhala ovuta ndipo mukakwatirana ndi banja la wina, zinthu nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zovuta. Mabanja samawonana pa chilichonse. Makolo anu atha kukupemphani kuti muzikhala nawo pa Khrisimasi iliyonse ndipo makolo a mnzanuyo angafune kuchita zomwezo.
Kusankha momwe mungagawire nthawi patchuthi ndi imodzi mwamitu (zachuma, chisamaliro cha ana, momwe mungalerere ana, momwe mungasamalire makolo okalamba, ntchito zapakhomo, maudindo, ndi zina zambiri) mutha kuyamba kufufuza ndikuwongolera popereka uphungu asanakwatirane.
3. Kupanga dongosolo lamasewera
Gulu lirilonse labwino lazamasewera limakhala ndi mphunzitsi komanso mapulani amasewera motero ukwati uliwonse wabwino. Phungu wanu wamabanja ndiye amakuphunzitsani, kukutsogolerani inu ndi mnzanu kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino.
Amuna ndi akazi ambiri amati, “Ndikulakalaka ndikanadziwa zimenezo tisanakwatirane.” Upangiri wapabanja umakonzekeretsa maanja mkuntho ndi ndondomeko yamasewera isanakwane pokambirana zinthu zomwe maanja angakumane nazo monga ulova kapena zovuta zosayembekezereka mwadzidzidzi.
Mukakhala ndi pulani yabwino yamasewera momwe mungachitire zochitikazo, mumadziwa njira zomwe mungachite ndi momwe mungayankhire, m'malo mochita.
4. Kumvetsetsa pazamauthenga apabanja
Tonsefe tidakula tikulandila mauthenga amtundu wina wokhudza maukwati ndi maubale, kaya makolo athu anali okwatirana, osudzulana, kapena osakwatira. Tidatenga zonse ndi ife zabwino, zoyipa kapena zopanda chidwi.
Uphungu musanalowe m'banja umakupatsani mwayi wowunika zomwe mumabweretsa muukwati wanu ndi momwe zikugwirizanira ndi zomwe bwenzi lanu limabweretsa muukwati. Mukamapanga kuzindikira uthengawu wobisika kapena kuwonekera bwino mumayenera kusankha momwe mukufuna kuti banja lanu likhale.
5. Kuyika ndalama muukwati wanu
Monga momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito ndalama zanu zamakono komanso zamtsogolo, onetsetsani kuti mukugulitsa banja lanu. Ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zamtengo wapatali kwambiri zomwe muli nazo. Tikapanikizika ndi ubale wathu moyo umakhala wovuta kwambiri. Tikakhala achimwemwe mu ubale wathu moyo umakhala wabwino.
Kugwira ntchito ndi mlangizi wa mabanja musanakwatirane kumakupatsani mwayi wofufuza zomwe mungapange muubwenzi wanu wa nkhumba, kaya ndi usiku umodzi kamodzi pamwezi, kuchitira zabwino wina ndi mnzake, kukwaniritsa maloto limodzi kapena kungomvera kwanu.