Zamkati
- Zolinga zazikulu zakubanja
- Kusintha kwa ntchito
- Zofunikira paukwati
- Ndondomeko yamaphunziro
- Dongosolo lokula
- Onani zinthu moyenera
- Gwiritsani ntchito zolinga zanu kumbuyo
Mutha kuziona ngati zoseketsa, koma ambiri omwe amatchedwa maanja azibwenzi alibe zolinga zazitali pazomwe akufuna kuchokera pachibwenzi chawo.
Alangizi a mabanja ndi othandizira maubwenzi amavomereza kuti ambiri mwa mabanja ali limodzi chifukwa chakuti amakondana komanso amasangalala kukhala limodzi. Palibe china choposa icho.
Kulephera kwa zolinga za banja ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zothetsera banja. Amayi ambiri ali ndi mlandu kuti cholinga chawo chachikulu muukwati ndikungokwatirana, pomwe amuna ena ndi osazolowera, amangofuna ufulu wokhawo ku thupi la wokondedwa wawo. Izi zitha kukhala zokwanira kuyambitsa chibwenzi, koma sizikhala zokwanira kuti chibwenzi chikhale.
Zolinga zazikulu zakubanja
Zolinga zimakhala zosiyana ndi maloto.
Zolinga ndi zolinga zomwe zidakonzedweratu zomwe zimakwaniritsidwa ndi malingaliro amomwe angakwaniritsire. Maloto ndichinthu chomwe chimachitika mukamagona kapena ulesi kwambiri kuti mugwire ntchito pazolinga zanu - ndizofanana ndi kugona inunso.
Mabanja akhama ali ndi ndondomeko yogwira ntchito moyenera komanso moyenera momwe angafikire kumapeto kwa moyo wawo limodzi. Sizimatha akakwatirana kapena agonana.
Izi ndi zochitika zazikulu zokha zaubwenzi, ndipo pali zambiri zofunika kwambiri, monga chaka chawo cha 50th kapena kumaliza maphunziro a Koleji kwa ana awo omaliza.
Izi ndi zolinga za maubwenzi omwe ali ndi chidwi chopita ku gawo lina lakale pogonana limodzi.
Kusintha kwa ntchito
Ngati m'modzi mwa omwe akufuna kukhala msirikali wantchito ndipo adzapatsidwa gawo m'malo osiyanasiyana padziko lapansi chifukwa cha ntchitoyo, pomwe winayo akufuna mpanda wazoyera mzitawuni yaying'ono pomwe akuchita bizinesi yaying'ono yophika buledi, ndiye kuti chabwino. Koma mvetsetsani kuti potero, atha maubwenzi awo ambiri kupatula wina ndi mnzake.
Ngati m'modzi kapena winayo ali ndi vuto nazo, ndiye kuti wina ayenera kupereka.
Zofunikira paukwati
Ndikosavuta kukwatirana, Pitani ku Vegas kuti mukwaniritse ola limodzi. Ngati simukufuna kupita ku Vegas, holo ya City ikhoza kuchita mtengo. Koma sikuti mfundo yake ndiyi, zinthu zina ziyenera kuchitika banja lisanalankhulepo za kumangiriza mfundozo.
Nawu mndandanda wopanda tsankho.
- Nyumba yoyenera kulera ana (A bachelor's loft does not count)
- Khola limodzi
- Madalitso a makolo
- Malo okwatirana omwe ana awo angakule ndikukula (A warzone in Africa does not count -for humansitarian)
- Ndondomeko ya inshuwaransi ya moyo
Sindiwo mndandanda wokwanira, koma kukhala ndi zonsezi pamwambapa ndi njira yabwino yoyambira banja. Ukwati ndi kugonana pamapeto pake zimadzetsa ana, ndipo ana amavutitsa zinthu zambiri.
Ndondomeko yamaphunziro
Mayiko ambiri oyamba padziko lapansi amapereka maphunziro aulere, koma sizitanthauza kuti maphunziro omwe boma limapereka ndiabwino kwa ana anu. Ngati mungakhale ndi anzeru kapena ana operewera m'maganizo payenera kukhala dongosolo lomwe lingagwire momwe angachitire ndi izi pakukula kwawo.
Dongosolo lokula
Si ana anu okha omwe amafunika kukula ndikukula.
Kukwera kwamitengo ndi zenizeni zidzafika msanga ngati makolo alibe njira yakukula ndi chitukuko cha iwo eni. Zolinga za maanja siziyenera kutha mukangokhala limodzi.
Kukhala ndi moyo kumatanthauza kuti moyo umapitilirabe, ndipo moyo umaponya mipira yambiri yamakolo. Kukhala patsogolo pawo limodzi kapena awiri kumathandiza kuti banja lanu lisasokonekere.
Onani zinthu moyenera
Chimodzi mwazolinga zodabwitsachi ndikuganiza kuti gulu lachiwawa lomwe inu ndi mnzanu mumakonda komanso kulimbikitsa kulimbana ndi umbombo wamakampani ndilabwino. Ndizachikondi, mpaka mutakhala ndi ana.
Kulera ana mdera lachi Amish kumveka ngati kumamatira kwa mwamunayo, komanso mukulepheretsa mwana wanu kukula kuti akhale mwamunayo. Dziko lasintha, asanu ndi awiri mwa olemera kwambiri a Forbes padziko lapansi sanabadwe m'mabanja olemera.
Kukhulupirira kuti Mulungu akupatsani kapena Deus Ex Machina wina atha kulowa m'malo kuti banja lanu likhale langwiro sichinthu chanzeru. Mutha kukumana ndi Lamulo la Murphy kuposa chipulumutso cha Mulungu.
Gwiritsani ntchito zolinga zanu kumbuyo
Zikumveka kukhala zazikulu kukonzekera moyo wanu wonse zinthu zitasintha chaka ndi chaka, ndipo simudziwa kuti Zombies zidzalanda liti dziko lapansi.
Ichi ndi chowiringula chomwe anthu aulesi amati, chifukwa chake sayenera kuchita. Madongosolo amatha kusintha ndikusinthasintha ndi gawo la kukhwima komanso kuchita bwino.
Zolinga zenizeni potsatira zomwe mabanja ali nazo zimapangitsa kuti banja lawo likhale lolimba. Pogwira ntchito limodzi, ndikuwona komwe akufuna kupita, ndi momwe angafikire kumeneko, kumalimbitsa mgwirizano wa gulu lirilonse la anthu, mabanja apabanja aphatikizidwe.
Mufilimu ya Disney UP, banjali likufuna kukhala ndikupuma limodzi ku Paradise Falls (kutengera malo enieni otchedwa Angel Falls ku Venezuela). Zolinga zawo zidasintha pomwe samatha kutenga pakati, koma adazigwiritsa ntchito mpaka zidachitika. Kusandutsa nyumba yawo kukhala buluni yotentha kwambiri ndizoseketsa, koma ndichinthu chofunikira kuti mufike kumeneko.
Zolinga zonse zazikuluzikulu ziyenera kukhala zofanana. Sankhani malo omaliza oti inu ndi banja lanu mupite. (Tikukhulupirira, osati nyumba yosamalira okalamba ku Florida). Kenako pezani zomwe mukufuna kuti mufike kumeneko. Ngati inu kapena mnzanu mukufuna kukhala masiku anu onse pachilumba ku Greece kapena Malta. Google momwe zingawonongere, ndiye ganizirani momwe zingawonongere zaka 30-40.
Kuchokera pamenepo, muli ndi cholinga china, tinene kuti zimawononga ndalama zokwana madola mamiliyoni khumi (ndalama zowonongedwa), konzekerani zomwe zingapange ndalamazo ndikusunga zaka 30 mpaka 40 zikubwerazi. Ndi maluso ati omwe mukufunikira kuti muchite izi? Kenako zimakutsogolerani ku cholinga china chosiyana.
Ndi maphunziro, luso, maphunziro ati omwe inu ndi mnzanu mukufunika kuti mukhale ndi maluso amenewo. Kenako zimabweretsa cholinga chakanthawi kochepa. Kodi mukhala kuti padakali pano? Ndi ndalama zingati zomwe mungapeze, kugwiritsa ntchito, ndikusunga moyo wamtundu winawake?
Muzimutsuka ndi kubwereza mpaka mutafika pomwe mwakonzeka kale kuchita gawo lotsatira. Kungoganiza kuti mudakonza zonsezi ndi wokondedwa wanu, tsopano muli ndi cholinga chenicheni komanso chotheka chomwe chibwenzi chilichonse chiyenera kukhala nacho.