Zamkati
- 1. Konzani china chosiyana
- 2. Chitani bwino polankhula
- 3. Palibe zokambirana
- 4. Pukuta bedi lako
- 5. Pewani satin
- 6. Osayang'ana foni yanu
- 7. Chidaliro ndichofunikira
- 8. Dziwani mbendera zanu zofiira
Kukhala pachibwenzi sikophweka monga kale.
Ndi mapulogalamu, masamba awebusayiti ndi mizati ya akatswiri, nthawi zokondana zokondana zomwe kale zimasilira tsopano ndizosowa. Komabe, malamulo abwenzi amakhalabe, ochulukirapo, ofanana. Makhalidwe omwe kale adafotokoza za njonda adakalipobe.
Pali mafunso osiyanasiyana omwe amabuka komabe, ndi zochitika zamasiku ano pachibwenzi? Ndani amalipira tsikulo? Kodi mumamutsegulira chitseko? Mumavala chiyani? Mukuganiza momwe mungasangalalire mtsikana patsiku loyamba?
Apa, tikuphwanya maupangiri 8 osavuta ochezera omwe angapangitse mtima wake kugwedezeka.
1. Konzani china chosiyana
Mukuyang'ana njira zokongola kuti mumusangalatse tsiku loyamba?
Kumbukirani ziwonetsero zoyambirira! Osangokhala zomwe mumavala kapena mawonekedwe anu, koma zomwe mudakonzekeranso. Sitikukufunsani kuti mukonze chakudya chamaphunziro atatu chodyera mumaresitilanti apamwamba kumapeto kwa tawuni.
Koma, pitani kupitirira pazenera. Ndinu abwino kuposa pamenepo! Pali zochitika zambiri zosangalatsa tsiku lililonse zomwe zimapangitsa tsiku loyamba labwino.
Usiku woyimilira, usiku wotseguka wa mic, sewero, msika wa mlimi, chipinda chothawira, kusewera ndi ayezi kapena mpikisano wothamanga. Zosankha zopitilira muyeso ndizosatha.
Ngati sichinthu chilichonse, zimapanga nkhani yosangalatsa ya tsiku lotsatira.
2. Chitani bwino polankhula
Palibe choipa kuposa munthu wodziyanjana naye pachibwenzi.
Kumbukirani, ndi tsiku, osati gawo lothandizira.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kuchita patsiku loyamba ndikupanga chithunzi chabwino. Muloleni iye alankhule ndipo ngati ali wamanyazi, mufunseni mafunso kuti atsegule pang'ono. Kukambirana kwabwino ndi kokhudza kupatsa ndi kutenga.
Palibe chifukwa chokhalira ndi zokambirana tsiku lisanafike ndipo ndibwino kuti zokambiranazo zikuyende nanu.
Komabe, ngati muli ndi nkhawa pagulu, sizimapweteka kukhala ndi zolankhula zingapo mthumba lanu lakumbuyo kuti muzikwapula pakagwa tsoka.
3. Palibe zokambirana
Inde, mumabwera ndi katundu, koma chimenecho si chifukwa chowonongera tsiku labwino.
Chimodzi mwamaubwenzi okukumbukira ndikuti ngakhale mutakhala wamkulu bwanji kapena woopsa bwanji, siyani zakale.
Ngakhale kutchulidwako kungakhale koyenera bwino ngati mukukambirana zomwe mudakumana nazo, yesetsani kupitiliza kukulitsa mbiri yanu.
Chimodzi mwamalangizo a chibwenzi ndikuti mukhale ndi ulemu. Osalira kapena kukuwa m'maso chifukwa cha yemwe adathawa.
Chimodzi mwamaupangiri apamwamba azibwenzi kwa amuna ndicho kuyang'ana pazomwe zilipo ndikupatsa chidwi chanu kwa mayi yemwe ali patsogolo panu.
4. Pukuta bedi lako
Ngati tsikulo likuyenda bwino ndipo avomera kuti abwere kunyumba kwanu kuti adzagonepo usiku, onetsetsani kuti akubwera kunyumba yoyera komanso yaukhondo. Nyumba yokopa ndichizindikiro chachikulu cha kukula kwanu kwamalingaliro.
Matiresi odzaza ndi madontho ndi akasupe otayirira siabwino kwambiri.
Ndi zida zapamwamba monga cashmere zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito matiresi, zopangidwa ngati Dreamcloud zatsimikizira kuti chibwenzi chanu ndi A-Okay. Simungachepetse kuyamikiridwa komwe mkazi amakhala nako kwa munthu yemwe samakhala monga momwe angakhalire pamwambo wanyimbo. Osanenapo, matiresi oyenera atha kukuthandizani ndi gawo la 'pambuyo pa tsiku' la zonsezi.
5. Pewani satin
Ngakhale ma sheet ofiyira ofiira amawoneka bwino mzaka za m'ma 80, mwina sizomwe mayi aliyense amafuna kuwona mchipinda chanu tsopano. Mumalandira mapepala okongola a thonje ochokera ku Nectar omwe ndi ofewa komanso apamwamba kwambiri.
Ngakhale mtunduwo ndi wabwino, zopangazi zikuwonetsetsa kuti simuyenera kutulutsa ndalama zambiri. Kukongola sikukuyesa kwambiri; ndikukhala osachita khama.
6. Osayang'ana foni yanu
Mmodzi mwa nsonga za chibwenzi pamwambapa ndikuti muzikumbukira kusangobisalira (kuyimba foni) tsiku lanu.
Ngakhale zingakhale zokopa kuti muwone zomwe wakale akuchita pa Instagram, mungafune kuyika foni yanu pansi ndikuyang'ana kwambiri kwa mayi yemwe wakhala patsogolo panu.
Zowonadi, tikukhala m'nthawi yapa media media, koma kulumikizana kwa m'modzi m'modzi kulibe kanthu pakulimbitsa ubale ndi kulumikizana kwamphamvu.
Mungafune kuyika foni yanu chete ndikuyiyika pamasiku anu ndikumvera zomwe akukuuzani. Mutha kukumana ndi zamisala komanso zamwano mukapanda kutero.
7. Chidaliro ndichofunikira
Kukhala osatetezeka ndi chinthu china, kudziderera ndi china. Kulimba mtima ndi njira imodzi yofunika kwambiri yoti amuna azitsatira.
Chidaliro ndiachigololo chatsopano kapena kwakhala kukuchitika. Chifukwa chiyani anyamata 'abwino' amaganiza kuti azimayi amapita kukalimbana nawo? Sichifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe amakhala mu masewera olimbitsa thupi koma chifukwa chodzidalira komwe amakhala nako.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti muli ndi vuto lodzidalira, mwina muyenera kugunda gawo lodzithandizira kaye m'malo mochita chibwenzi.
8. Dziwani mbendera zanu zofiira
Sikuti aliyense amene mumakumana naye adzakhala wangwiro.
Ena atha kukhala opanda misala yosangalatsa. Ndikofunika kuzindikira mbendera zofiira zomwe zingayambitse mutu wake mukamacheza. Mkazi akakuwuzani kuti ndiwotsogola, amakhala ndi nsanje modabwitsa ndipo amakusowani nthawi zonse, ingotengani mawu ake ndikupitilira.
Chinsinsi cha moyo wopambana pachibwenzi ndikuyesa, yesani ndikuyesanso zina. Ndiwo amodzi mwa malangizo omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mupulumuke.
Kutsata chikondi kapena ngakhale kucheza nawo kumafuna khama, koma kumapangitsa kuti kukhale kopindulitsa kwambiri. Ngakhale zingakhale zokopa kuponyera chopukutira, ganizirani za omwe adzakhale nanu zaka 10 kumapeto, mukamakonzekera kudya kwambiri kuti muwone pulogalamu yatsopano pa Netflix. Chifukwa chake, swiping and suit up!