Zamkati
- Yambani pang'onopang'ono
- Apatseni nthawi
- Awoneni ngati gawo la banja
- Apatseni mwayi kuti amveke
- Yesetsani kukulitsa chidaliro
- Yang'anirani mawu anu
- Chitirani ana anu onse chimodzimodzi
- Patulani nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu
Kodi ndinu kholo lopeza, kapena mukufuna kukhala mmodzi? Ngati mungakhale pachibwenzi chachikulu ndi munthu yemwe ali kale ndi ana awo, kholo lopeza lili pafupi. Kukhala kholo lopeza kumakhala ndi zovuta zambiri, koma osataya chiyembekezo: M'kupita kwa nthawi ubale wanu ndi ana anu opeza ungakhale wabwino komanso wathanzi, koma pamafunika kuleza mtima kuti mufike pamenepo.
Ngati muli ndi ana opeza pamoyo wanu, nazi malangizo othandiza kukuthandizani kuti muchepetse ubale wanu watsopano ndi nkhawa zochepa.
Yambani pang'onopang'ono
Kuyesera kuti mukwaniritse miyoyo ya ana anu opeza, kapena kuwakwanira anu, zonse mwakamodzi zimabweretsa kupsinjika mbali zonse. M'malo mwake, yambani ubale wanu watsopano pang'onopang'ono ndi msonkhano wawufupi, wamwamwayi.
Musadzipanikizire nokha kapena ana anu opeza. Ingotengani zinthu pang'onopang'ono komanso kuti misonkhano yanu yoyamba ikhale yosavuta komanso yotsika. Asungeni pambali yaying'ono (ingoganizirani ola limodzi osati masana) ndikuwasunga m'malo omasuka, makamaka omwe ana anu opeza amadziwa.
Apatseni nthawi
Ana anu opeza amafunikira nthawi yolira ndi kusintha kusintha komwe kunachitika m'miyoyo yawo makolo awo atasiyana. Kuvomereza kuti makolo awo sangayanjane, ndikuti ali ndi kholo lopeza m'miyoyo yawo, ndizovuta kwa ana. Angakuwoneni kuti ndinu kholo lopeza loipa poyambira pomwe - ndizachilengedwe.
Osayesa kuthamangira kapena kukankhira ubale wanu nawo. Ingokhalani achilungamo komanso osasinthasintha ndipo awadziwitseni kuti muli nawo. Auzeni momveka bwino kuti simukuyesa kulowa kholo lawo.
Awoneni ngati gawo la banja
Mutha kuyesedwa kuti mupatse ana anu opeza ana chithandizo chapadera kuti asonyeze kuti mukufuna kuti iwo akhale osangalala - koma pewani! Chithandizo chapadera chithandizira chidwi cha moyo wanu watsopano ndikuwapangitsa kuti azimva kuti ndi obiriwira komanso osawoneka bwino.
M'malo mowapatsa chithandizo chapadera, aphatikizeni machitidwe anu apabanja. Afunseni kuti athandizire patebulopo, kapena apatseni ntchito zina. Apatseni thandizo pa homuweki, kapena mwayi wopeza ndalama pothandizira pakhomo. Gwiritsani ntchito malamulo omwewo monga momwe mungakhalire ndi banja lanu.
Apatseni mwayi kuti amveke
Ngati ana anu opeza samva kuti ali ndi mwayi womveredwa, amakukhumudwitsani. Kuwona makolo awo akulekana ndikudziwa kuti alibe mphamvu yosintha zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwa mwana aliyense. Yesetsani kuwapatsa mawu ndi mwayi woti afotokoze malingaliro awo.
Limbikitsani kholo lawo lobadwa kuti likhale doko lawo loyamba kuti athe kukambirana nawo nkhawa zawo mofatsa komanso osawopseza. Kenako, nonse nonse mutha kutenga nawo mbali pazokambiranazi. Auzeni ana anu opeza kuti mumawadera nkhawa.
Yesetsani kukulitsa chidaliro
Kudalira sikufika mwadzidzidzi. Tengani nthawi yolimbitsa chikhulupiriro chanu ndi ana anu opeza kuti mudzakhale ndiubwenzi wolimba mtsogolo.
Yambani pomvetsera mwatcheru pamene akulankhula nanu. Nthawi iliyonse akakulankhulani kapena akupemphani kuti muwathandize ndi chisonyezero chaching'ono choti akhoza kukukhulupirirani. Lemekezani izi powamvera ndikuwatsimikizira. Athandizeni kuphunzira kukukhulupirirani mwa kulemekeza malingaliro awo, ndi chinsinsi chawo.
Yang'anirani mawu anu
Kukhala kholo lopeza kumadzaza ndi nkhawa ndipo nkhawa zimatha kuthamanga mbali zonse. Ana anu opeza akugwira ntchito zina zovuta, ndipo mosalephera amakankha mabatani anu nthawi ndi nthawi pamene akonza zinthu.
Nthawi zina mumamva kuwawa komanso mkwiyo momwe amalankhulira nanu, ndipo amayesayesa kukankhira malire. Ndikofunika kuti mukhale odekha ndikuwonetsetsa mawu anu ngakhale mutamva chiyani. Mukamalalatira ana opeza kapena kuwalankhula mokwiya kapena mokwiya, amakukhumudwitsani ndipo mwayi wanu wokhala paubwenzi umachepa kwambiri.
Chitirani ana anu onse chimodzimodzi
Ngati muli ndi ana anu, mudzapeza kuti mukukhala banja losakanikirana - ndipo sizovuta! Koma ndikofunikira kuti muzichitira ana anu onse chimodzimodzi, ndipo ana anu opeza akakhala kwanu, onse ndi ana anu.
Lankhulani ndi bwenzi lanu ndipo pangani malamulo oyenera kuchita, kenako nkumagwirira ntchito limodzi kuti mugwiritse ntchito malamulowo kwa ana anu onse. Osapatsa ana ako obadwa nawo mwayi wapadera. Ndi njira yotsimikizika yopezera mkwiyo ndi ana anu opeza ndikuwononga ubale wanu.
Patulani nthawi yocheza ndi banja lanu
Pangani nthawi yabanja kukhala gawo wamba sabata iliyonse. Izi zimapangitsa ana anu ndi ana opeza kuti adziwe kuti nonsenu ndinu banja tsopano, ndipo nthawi yoti mukhale pamodzi ndiyofunika. Mwinamwake Lachisanu lirilonse lidzakhala usiku wa kanema, kapena Lamlungu lirilonse lidzasambira lotsatiridwa ndi agalu otentha. Yesetsani kusankha china chake chomwe mukudziwa kuti ana anu opeza amakondweretsadi kuti asakukakamizeni.
Mutha kukumana ndi kukana koyamba, koma kukhazikitsa nthawi yabanja ngati gawo losasinthasintha la zomwe mumachita sabata iliyonse kumakupatsani nthawi yolumikizana ndikulimbikitsa lingaliro loti mumafuna kucheza ndi ana anu opeza.
Kukhala kholo lopeza ndi kovuta. Njira yopita kuubwenzi wabwino ndi ana anu opeza ingawoneke ngati yayitali, ndipo pali zovuta zambiri panjira. Koma ngati mupitiliza kuleza mtima ndikudzipereka kwanu, mutha kukhazikitsa ubale wolimba womwe ungakulire ndikudziwana.