Dziwani: Amayi ndi abambo amachitilidwa nkhanza m'maganizo komanso mthupi. Munkhanizi, wamwamuna akuti ndi amene amamuzunza ndikuzindikira kuti mkazi amathanso kukhala wozunza komanso wamwamuna wochitiridwa nkhanza.
Mu Greek Mythology, a Sirens anali atatu onyansa (koma okopa mwachinyengo) nymphs am'nyanja omwe adakopa oyenda kunyanja pachilumba ndi mawu awo okongola. Zikafika pafupi kwambiri, zombozo zimakumana ndi miyala yosongoka yomwe ili pansi pamadzi. Ngalawa itasweka, adawakokera kumtunda mpaka kufa ndi njala. Maubwenzi ankhanza nthawi zambiri amayamba ndikutha motere: pamakhala kulira kwa sireni, kukopeka ndi ubale wachimwemwe, kukambirana kosangalatsa komanso koseketsa, kukondana, kumvetsetsa, kutentha, ndi kuseka - koma kenako ubalewo umatha momvetsa chisoni, ndimaganizo ndipo nthawi zina kuthupi kuzunza.
Kuzunza mtima kumayambira ndi ma jabs ooneka ngati oseketsa omwe amaperekedwa ndikumwetulira "mwachikondi" ndi kuseka kapena kuseka pang'ono:
- Tayang'anani m'chiuno mwawo ... amawoneka ngati matope omata!
- Kavalidwe kameneka kamawonetseratu zomwe mumachita ndi chikondi!
- Zikuwoneka ngati wazaka 10 adasindikiza malaya anga!
- Mwayatsanso madzi?
Wanzeru msanga komanso chithumwa chomwe chimakopa mnzake chimakhala ndi zida pang'onopang'ono, mozama komanso nthawi zina mwadala. Ngati mnzakeyo akukayikira zazing'ono, amauzidwa kuti amangotengeka mpaka atayamba kukhulupirira — ndipotu, nthawi zambiri amamva kuti amamukonda. Amapepesa mwachangu, koma kuti apereke diresi lina pambuyo pake:
- Mukudziwa, mukapeza botox, zimakupangitsani kuti muwoneke ngati chokwawa!
- Zomwe mukuganiza kapena kumva sizilibe kanthu chifukwa ndinu openga!
- Kodi muli pachibwenzi? Hu, ndimalankhula ndi ndani?
- Mukudziwa, chifukwa chomwe ndimapangira izi ndichifukwa ndimakukondani, ndipo kupatula apo, palibe wina aliyense amene angakusamalireni momwe ndimachitira. Ndiwe mwayi ndili pano chifukwa cha iwe ... Ndili ndi nsana wako!
- Zatheka bwanji kuti nthawi zonse umasowa? Ndiwe wachifundo kwambiri!
- Ndakupatsani $ 30 dzulo, mwagwiritsa ntchito chiyani? Kodi risiti ili kuti, ndikufuna ndiyang'ane.
Ndipo kotero dongosolo limayamba, ndipo mgwirizano wachilendo, wophatikizana pakati pa chikondi, ubwenzi ndi chipongwe zimasintha pang'onopang'ono ndikukhazikika muubwenzi.
M'kupita kwanthawi, kunyozako kumakhala kofunika kwambiri - osati kunyoza kwakukulu, koma zomwe zimamudula mnzanuyo mochenjera. Kenako, mwina paphwando loyandikana nawo, ndemanga ina yodula idzawonekera, komanso pamaso pa oyandikana nawo:
- Inde, muyenera kuwona momwe amayeretsera nyumba, amangokankhira chilichonse mchipinda ndi pansi pa kama, ngati kuti kuthana ndi vuto lathu (ndikutsatira kuseka ndi kuphethira).
- Akuigwiritsa ntchito mwachangu kuposa momwe ndingakwaniritsire ... amayenera kugula zovala zatsopano sabata yatha, china chokhudza kunenepa. Akudyera nthawi zonse kukhitchini. Amandiuza kuti ali ndi vuto la chithokomiro, koma amaponyera pansi mkate wa adyo ngati mayi wamphanga!
Nthawi zina, nkhanza zimatha kukhala zowopsa, makamaka pankhani yokhudza kugonana. Adzafunsa zogonana, koma watopa kwambiri kuyambira tsiku la maola 14. Wokwiyira kukanidwa, atha kunena kuti:
- Dziwani vuto lanu, ndinu achimwemwe. Wozizira pabedi! Zili ngati kupanga chikondi pa bolodi! Ngati sindingathe kuzipeza kunyumba, mwina ndikazipeza kwina!
- Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani ndimakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yolankhula ndi Jess, mnzake wa Brad? Chifukwa amandimvera, ndiye kuti pali wina amene akumvetsera ine! Mwina adzandipeza pamene simudzatero!
- Lembali (lokhala ndi zolaula kapena chithunzi) sizitanthauza zomwe mukuganiza, ndinu openga. Limenelo ndi vuto lako, ndiwe wamisala komanso wamtopola, ngakhale makolo ako anandiuza kuti wapenga ndisanakwatire!
- Mukandisudzula (kapena kuchoka), nditenga anawo ndipo simudzawawona!
- Ndi vuto lanu ... kwenikweni, mikangano yathu yonse imayamba chifukwa mumangokhalira kukangana (kapena kuthamanga mozungulira ndi anzanu, ndi zina zambiri)!
Ndipo nthawi zina, ndemanga zimakhala zowopseza kwambiri, monga pomwe kasitomala amawonetsa kuti mwamuna wake, mlonda wa Taser, adamuyandikira pamaso pa ana awo atatu, ndikuyamba kutulutsa chipangizocho. Anamugwirizira pakona, ndikupukusa Taser patsogolo pa chifuwa chake, nthawi yonseyi akuseka kwambiri, kenako adamuwuza kuti anali wamisala atafuula chifukwa chovutika.
Nthawi zambiri, kuzunzidwa kumawoneka ndi momwe mumamvera kapena kuganiza muubwenzi:
- Kodi mumakhulupirira kapena mumamva ngati mukufuna chilolezo kuti mupange zisankho?
- Kodi mumakhulupirira kapena kumva ngati zivute zitani, simungasangalatse mnzanu?
- Kodi mumapezeka kuti mukuyesera kufotokoza kapena kupereka zifukwa za khalidwe la mnzanu kwa inu kwa abwenzi kapena abwenzi omwe amakayikira zomwe zikuchitika?
- Kodi mumamva kukhala opsinjika kwambiri, otopa, kuda nkhawa kapena osatanganidwa, makamaka kuyambira pomwe ubale udasinthiratu?
- Kodi mumadzipeza nokha kukhala osungulumwa kapena kudzipatula kwa anzanu ndi / kapena abale?
- Kodi kudzidalira kwanu kwatsika mpaka kufika poti mukudzifunsa nokha?
M'magawo amodzi ndi makasitomala, ndafunsa:
- Katswiri: "Monica, kodi izi zikuwoneka ngati chikondi kwa iwe? Kodi ndi zomwe umaganizira pomwe umaganiza zokondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa ndi amuna ako? ”
- Monica (monyinyirika): “Koma ndikuganiza kuti amandikondadi, amangokhala ndi vuto lowonetsa, ndipo nthawi zina amatengeka. Dzulo usiku adaphika chakudya ndikutsuka pambuyo pake. Adandigwiranso dzanja ndikamawona sitcom ... kenako tinagonana. ”
- Katswiri (osamutsutsa, koma kumufunsa kuti ayang'ane pafupi): "Monica, podziwa zomwe tikudziwa lero, ngati palibe chomwe chingasinthe, ukuganiza kuti izi zidzakhala kuti chaka chimodzi? Zaka zisanu? ”
- Monica (kupuma pang'ono, akugwetsa misozi m'maso mwake momwe amavomereza chowonadi): “Zaipa kwambiri kapena tasudzulana? Ndikuganiza kuti mwina achita chibwenzi, kapena ndidzatero, kapena ndingomusiya. ”
Pazithandizo, ndapeza kuti abambo ndi amai ambiri sangathe kufotokoza kapena kuzindikira kuzunzidwa, makamaka kukambirana. Amafunsa ngati amangotengeka kapena kufunafuna chipongwe, potero amakhala chete. Mofanana ndi khansa, ndi wakupha mwakachetechete kuubwenzi. Ndipo chifukwa palibe zipsera zakuthupi pathupi (zipsera, mikwingwirima, mafupa osweka), nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kuchepetsa kuwonongeka komwe kumachitika. Vuto lalikulu lomwe limalepheretsa kuzindikira kapena kukambirana zakupwetekedwa mtima ndichikhulupiriro choti achibale, abwenzi komanso akatswiri sangazitengere mozama.