Zamkati
- Kuphatika mtima- kodi kutanthauzirana kumatanthauza chiyani?
- Kuyanjana sikumangokhala ndi anthu okha
- Kukondana ndi anthu
- Mgwirizano wapamtima ndi chikondi
- Kodi mungakhale bwanji osangalala ndikumangika kwambiri?
Ndikosavuta kwambiri ndipo sikungapeweke kukondana naye nthawi ina m'moyo wanu. Izi zitha kutchulidwa ngati kukondana kwamalingaliro.
Kuphatika mtima- kodi kutanthauzirana kumatanthauza chiyani?
Komabe, tanthauzo lenileni lamaphatikizidwe ndi liti?
Kuphatika mtima kumatanthauza kumamatira kuzikhulupiriro, katundu, mikhalidwe, ndi anthu. Zimatanthauza kudziphatika kwa anthu ndikulephera kuwasiya.
Komanso, pamlingo wina, zitha kutanthauza kusowa kwa ufulu chifukwa mumadzimangiriza kwa anthu mwamalingaliro, kumamatira kwa iwo, zizolowezi zawo, ndikupanga moyo wanu mozungulira iwo. Ngati mutaya anthu amenewo, mumakhala ndi nkhawa.
Mutha kukhala achisoni ndipo nthawi zina, ngakhale kukhumudwa. Gawo lamavutoli limachitika mabanja akasiyana.
Kuyanjana sikumangokhala ndi anthu okha
Zimakhudzana kwambiri ndi zomwe anthu ali nazo.
Anthu amakonda chuma chawo ndipo sataya, ndikuumirira kuti asunge zinthu zawo chifukwa choti amazikonda kwambiri. Amakundika ndi kusunga zinthu ngakhale atakhala kuti sakugwiritsa ntchito kwenikweni.
Nthawi zina m'moyo, Mutha kuzindikira ndikuzindikira kukonda kwanu panthawi yomwe mukufuna kusintha kwambiri moyo wanu. Izi zingatanthauze kusintha zovala zanu zonse, kusintha kadyedwe, kusamukira kumalo atsopano, kusamutsa ntchito yanu kudera lina, kapena kulowa maubale atsopano.
Anthu omwe safuna kusintha kusintha akhoza kukumana ndi zovuta zambiri pakuthana ndi zosinthazi pomwe ali okhudzidwa kale ndi zinthu zina.
Kukondana ndi anthu
Pali kuthekera kwakukulu kuti mutha kuzolowera kukhala ndi anthu ena m'moyo wanu, ndikumva chisoni mukamachoka. Zonsezi ndizachilengedwe, ndipo mwina muyenera kuthana mwamphamvu ndi zoterezi.
Ngati tikulankhula za maanja, samangozolowera kukhala nyumba imodzi koma amatengakonso zogonana komanso kukondana. Kuposa kugonana, kupsompsonana, ndi kukondana, nawonso, kulumikizana kwakukulu!
Ndimakonda kwambiri okondedwa anu, mumawadziwitsa zinsinsi zonse za moyo wanu, mavuto anu, kupsinjika kwanu, nkhawa zanu, komanso zovuta zanu. Komabe, muyenera kusamala kuti kuphatikana kwambiri kumatha kubweretsa nsanje, kusamvana kwambiri ndi mnzanu, ndewu, komanso kukwiya.
Mgwirizano wapamtima ndi chikondi
Anthu nthawi zina amalephera kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa kukondana ndi chikondi.
Kuphatikana kumatha kukhala ndi chilichonse, munthu kapena chinthu china chilichonse. Kuphatikana kumatha kukhala kwakuthupi komanso kwakuthupi. Komabe, chikondi ndicho chomangira champhamvu kwambiri komanso chopindulitsa. Izi sizongokhudza kudziphatika kwa winawake, ndipo pomwe kulumikizana kumatha kuthetsedwa nthawi ina, chikondi ndi chamuyaya.
Mgwirizano wapamtima ndi chikondi ukhoza kukhala wofanana nthawi zambiri. Komabe, amakhalanso osiyana kwambiri.
Anthu sachedwa kutengeka ndi zinthu zambiri zowazungulira. Mumakonda anthu chifukwa amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu apadera ndipo mumayamikiranso zoyesayesa zanu. Kuphatika ndi chinthu chachilendo kwambiri ndipo sikukuletsani kapena kukuperekani kwa winawake.
Chikondi, kumbali inayo, chimafuna kudzipereka ndipo chimakhala champhamvu, ndipo nthawi zina chimakhala chosayenera.
Ngakhale chikondi ndi kukondana zimayendera limodzi nthawi zambiri, palinso kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa awiriwa. Ndipo muyenera kuvomereza ndikumvetsetsa kusiyanaku kuti mukhalebe ndiubwenzi wabwino m'moyo.
Tsopano ngati tikulankhula za chikondi, ndikumverera komwe mumakondera munthu wina. Anthu amafunikira kwambiri chikondi, ndipo popanda chikondi, moyo wawo ndiwosakwanira. Chitsanzo chimodzi cha chikondi ndi banja lathu. Titha kuchitira chilichonse banja lathu, ndipo kukonda banja lanu ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yolumikizirana.
Kodi mungakhale bwanji osangalala ndikumangika kwambiri?
Ndizowona kuti timakonda kwambiri zinthu zambiri zotizungulira kuphatikizapo anthu.
Komabe, kodi tidayamba tadzifunsapo za lingaliro ili kuti kukondana ndikotani? Nthawi zambiri timatenga mawuwa mopepuka, pomwe, kwenikweni, sichoncho.
Kumverera kwa kulakalaka, kukondedwa, kukonda munthu wina kuposa china chilichonse padziko lonse lapansi, kudzimva kosasiya, mawu onsewa amakhala ogwirizana.
Kukhala wokondana ndi munthu kapena chinthu kulibe vuto lililonse. Komabe, zitha kukhala zowopsa komanso zowopsa ngati mungapitirire ndi cholumikizacho.
Kuti mukhale osangalala komanso ochita bwino, nthawi zina mumayenera kusiya ndikuphunzira momwe mungasiyire zosavuta.
Ngati kukondana kumakokomeza, ndizofanana ndi maunyolo omwe angakumangireni ndikutha ufulu wanu. Muyenera kukhala ndi moyo pano, muziganizira kwambiri za moyo wanu, komanso kuti mupindule kwambiri ndi moyo wanu pakadali pano.