Zamkati
- Mabanja olumikizana bwino
- Kodi ubwenzi wapamtima nchiyani?
- 1. Yendetsani madzulo madzulo kwa mphindi 20 mutayandikana
- 2. Muzipatsana mphindi 10 zakuthambo musanagone
- 3. Kuthana ndi thaulo limodzi paki
- 4. Tumizani uthenga wamaliseche kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo
- 5. Tengani mphindi 20 mphindi yopuma pokambirana
- 6. Kuphika chakudya chamadzulo limodzi
Pali lingaliro lomwe limawoneka lachilendo, koma lamphamvu kwambiri loti kusagonana kumatha kukhala machitidwe okondana kwambiri kwa maanja. Tsopano, izi zitha kumveka ngati zopenga kwa ambiri, ndiponsotu, chodabwitsa kwambiri ndi chiyani kuposa kugonana? Nanga bwanji za chiopsezo cha banja maukwatiwo atha? Ngati ndinu amene mukutsutsana ndi lingaliroli, mwina mungakhale munthu amene mungapindule ndi machitidwe okondana okwatirana.
Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kugonana ndi chibwenzi ndipo chimodzi chimakhala chinsinsi chachitetezo chaubwenzi wanthawi yayitali.
Mabanja olumikizana bwino
Nthawi ikamadutsa kutengeka ndi kugonana kumatha kuchepa, monga tonse tikudziwa, ndipo ndi nthawi ino, ngati tili ndi mwayi, kuti titha kusintha mosavuta mayendedwe atsopano, kapena titha kuyamba kumva kuti mwina pangakhale chosowa kuchokera pachibwenzi.
Ngati zikukuvutani kuzolowera mayendedwe atsopanowa muubwenzi wanu, mwina mwina mukuyeseza (ngakhale simukuzindikira) zaubwenzi wapamtima wina ndi mnzake. Mwinanso mwachilengedwe mwapeza njira yolankhulirana yomwe imatsimikizira kuti ndinu olumikizidwa bwino; zomwe ziwonetsetsanso kuti mukhale ndiubwenzi wosangalala, wathanzi komanso wotetezeka wina ndi mnzake, ndi chiopsezo chochepa chogonana chitha.
Kumbali inayi, banja mwina silinakule mwachilengedwe mpaka gawo logwirizana. M'malo mwake, kusowa kwa chiwerewere kumatha kubweretsa nkhawa, kapena kusatsimikizika, kapena kusakwaniritsidwa, kusasangalatsa, kapena kusasangalatsa muubwenzi wanu. Izi ndichifukwa choti ngati banja mwina simunakule mwachibadwa muubwenzi wokondana. Ndipo ngati simukuyambitsa kukondana wina ndi mnzake, ndiye kuti ili ndi vuto lomwe lingabuke lomwe lingakusiyeni nonse kumverera kuti ubale wanu sunayenera kukhala, ngakhale izi sizingakhale zoona.
Kuphunzira kulumikizana ndi mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu ndikosavuta mukamayeserera kukondana kwa maanja. Umu ndi momwe mumakhalira ndi ubale weniweni ndipo ndiye chinsinsi cha ubale wosangalala komanso wopambana.
Kodi ubwenzi wapamtima nchiyani?
Kukondana ndi kusamalirana, kusamalirana, kulumikizana, kukhulupirirana, kusilira, kuyamika, kukhudza, kupsompsonana, kulumikizana, kupepesana, kugwirana, kukumbatirana, kukhala pachiwopsezo komanso kudalira mnzanu kuti athetse mavuto anu ndi ulemu, chikondi, ndi chisamaliro. Ngati muli ndi chiwerewere chonsechi mumakhala gawo lake komanso chimakwaniritsa zina. Kukula ndi kulumikizana komwe mudzakwaniritse ngati banja, chifukwa cha kulumikizaku kudzakhala kwakukulu.
Zochita zachikondi za maanja zokuthandizani kulumikizana:
1. Yendetsani madzulo madzulo kwa mphindi 20 mutayandikana
Izi zitha kumveka ngati lingaliro losavuta, koma nthawi zonse zimakhala zinthu zosavuta zomwe zimapangitsa kusiyana kwakukulu. Mukhala ndi mwayi wodziyesa nokha, kuwomba ma cobwebs kuchokera ku psyche yanu ndi kuyankhula, mukapitilizabe kulumikizana mwakuthupi. Kachitidwe kosavuta kameneka kangakuthandizeni kuti mukhale olimba ngati banja ndipo zidzakhala zosangalatsa pa thanzi lanu komanso thanzi lanu.
2. Muzipatsana mphindi 10 zakuthambo musanagone
Iyi ndi njira ina yosavuta yolumikizirana, kukhudza ndikukhala limodzi popanda kufunika kokakamizidwa, kapena kugonana. Ngati mutayesetsa kutikita minofuyo ndi mtima wonse (ngakhale mutakhala kuti ndinu masseuse) mphotho zake zazing'onozi, zachikondi kuubwenzi wanu zidzakubwezerani kakhumi.
3. Kuthana ndi thaulo limodzi paki
O, ndizosangalatsa bwanji kuwona banja litakhala limodzi paki, akusangalala ndi dzuwa ndikukhala 'munthawiyo', atakutidwa ndi chopukutira. Ngati sizachikondi, sitikudziwa. Ndi chinthu china chosavuta kuchita maubwenzi apabanja chomwe mungachite nthawi yomweyo.
4. Tumizani uthenga wamaliseche kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo
Tumizani meseji ya flirty kuti mulimbikitse chiyembekezo, ndipo mulole mnzanu adziwe kuti mukuganiza za iye.
Palibe chabwino kuposa kuyembekezera kubwerera kwanu kwa munthu amene mumamukonda mukudziwa kuti ali osangalala komanso kuti mudzakhala ndi madzulo abwino limodzi. Komanso aliyense amafuna kudziwa kuti munthu amene amamukonda akuwaganizira. Ichi ndi chizolowezi chosavuta komanso chosasangalatsa cha maanja omwe angathe kuchitidwa mosavuta m'moyo wanu.
5. Tengani mphindi 20 mphindi yopuma pokambirana
Ichi ndi chinthu china chosavuta kuchita, koma zomwe mwina sitikuganiza kuti tichite, ndipo ndi njira yanji yabwinoko yomwe mungaganizire kuyimitsa, kupumula ndikulekanitsa tsiku logwirira ntchito kuyambira madzulo anu limodzi?
6. Kuphika chakudya chamadzulo limodzi
Kuyimilira limodzi, kuthandizana pulojekiti yomwe imalimbikitsana wina ndi mnzake pamene mukucheza, kuvina, ndi kumwa vinyo mukamagwira ntchito ndi machitidwe abwino kwambiri okondana kwa maanja omwe amakhalanso ndi phokoso lamadzulo abwino.