Zamkati
Akatswiri amatanthauzira kuti ukwati ndi mgwirizano komanso mgwirizano wofanana pakati pa mkazi ndi mwamuna.
Zimabwera kwa ife kuchokera mdzanja la Mulungu, yemwe adapanga m'chifanizo chake, wamwamuna ndi wamkazi. Iwo, nawonso, ndi thupi limodzi ndipo adzakhala achonde ndikugawa. Kuvomerezana kosatsutsika pakati pa omwe amakhala nawo pabanja kumapangitsa banja kukhala labwino.
Kuchokera pakuvomereza uku komanso kuchokera pakukwaniritsidwa kwakugonana banja limakhala lolumikizana pakati pa awiriwa. Mgwirizanowu ndi wokhalitsa, wapadera komanso wokongola. Ubale wapaderawu wakhazikitsidwa ndi Mulungu; motero sizingasweke mosavuta.
Kodi cholinga chokwatirana ndi chiyani?
Kukhalitsa, kukhala wokhazikika, ndi kudzipereka ndizofunikira kwambiri m'banja popeza zimalimbikitsa ndi kuteteza zifukwa ziwiri zofananira.Zifukwa ziwirizi zomwe zidalipo ndikukula kwa chikondi chogawana pakati pa omwe amakhala nawo (osagwirizana) ndi kulera ana (kubereka).
Anthu nthawi zambiri amalephera kumvetsetsa kuti cholinga chaukwati ndi chiyani. Chikondi chogawana cha anthu okwatirana ndiye muzu wa pachimake cha moyo wabwino patsogolo.
Kulemekezana komanso kuyanjana ziyenera kukhazikika poyamba. Ndikofunikira kuti maanja azindikire ukwati wawo womwe umatibweretsa pamodzi. Ndi mgwirizano womwe umapangidwa kuti ukhale nthawi yayitali kwambiri m'moyo wamunthu. Mofananamo, ukwati ndi chiyani ngati sungagwirizanitse miyoyo iwiri osati matupi awiri.
Ukwati m'njira yololezedwa
Funso tsopano ladzuka kuti chiphaso chaukwati ndi chiyani ndipo ndichifukwa chiyani mukufunika? Lingaliro lonse laukwati limazungulira pakupeza chilolezo chokwatirana.
Ripoti loperekedwa ndi wamkulu wapamwamba lomwe limapangitsa anthu awiri kukwatirana. Kupeza chiphaso chaukwati kumangotanthauza kuti mukuloledwa kuloledwa kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene mwasankha, osati kuti ndinu okwatiranadi.
Kuti alandire laisensi iyi, azimayiwo ayenera kupita ku ofesi ya komwe amakhala kuti akwatirane. Nthawi zambiri amabwera ndi mtengo wokwana madola 36 ndi $ 115 ngati mutakhala ndi ukwati wopita, lembani izi zisanafike tsiku lalikulu.
Osatengera kubadwa kwanu, mutha kupeza chiphaso ku boma lomwe mudzakhale.
Mulimonsemo, zolembedwa zonse zimasiyanasiyana malinga ndi mayiko. Onetsetsani kuti simukudzipeza nokha momwe mungafunikire kuthamanga zinthu. Chilolezo chokwatirana ndichachidziwikire kwa nthawi yayitali — mwina masiku 30 okha. Komabe, ma layisensi angapo akuti ndiofunika chaka chonse. Mayiko ochepa amakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chiphaso chaukwati tsiku lofananira ndi ukwati wanu; ena amakhala ndi nthawi yosunga mwina ya maola 72 kapena kupitilira apo.
Mukamapeza chilolezo chokwatirana, bweretsani umboni wowona.
Madera osiyanasiyana kale amafuna kuyezetsa magazi kuti atenge chilolezo chokwatirana; Komabe, sizowona m'ma 49. Ku Montana, azimayi onse azaka zosakwana 50 ayenera kuwonetsa mayeso a magazi a Rubella kapena chilolezo choletsa kubereka. Mbali inayi, chikalata chimasainidwa pakati pa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi chomwe chimapewa izi nthawi yomweyo.
Kodi ndi chiyani?
Pali mafunso ena omwe sakudziwikabe kwa anthu omwe akuwopa udindo womwe umadza ndi banja.
Kodi ukwati umatanthauza chiyani ndipo cholinga cha ukwati ndi chiyani?
Mafunso otere amawapangitsa kulephera kumvetsetsa chomwe ukwati ndi chofunikira chake. Chofunika kwambiri chimakhala pamalingaliro omwe agawana, maudindo, thandizo ndi chisamaliro cha okwatirana.
Maubwenzi omwe amafika pamlingo wokwatirana amawoneka kuti akukula nthawi iliyonse. Cholinga cha ubalewu ndikutsimikizira zofunikira zomwe zimachitika mgwirizanowu ukapangidwa. Anthu omwe ali ndi banja lokwatirana, nthawi ina, amagawana zodalira zambiri. Kudalira uku ndiko maziko a mgwirizano wosasweka. M'malo mwake, ukwati ndi womwe umatibweretsa pamodzi.
Chigamulo
Ndikosavuta kuzindikira chomwe ukwati ndi cholinga chake, komanso mzimu wake.
Chifukwa chomwe anthu amalephera kukwaniritsa ubalewu ndi kukakamizidwa kwa ntchito zomwe zimadza nawo. Komabe, chithunzi chokulirapo chikuwonetsa mawonekedwe osiyana kwambiri. Ikuwonetsa kusintha komwe ukwati umabweretsa m'moyo wamunthu. Ndiwo ubale womwe umapanga nyumba, nyumba.