Zamkati
- 1. CHIYEMBEKEZO: Wokondedwa wanga andimaliza! Ndi theka langa lina!
- ZOONA: Ndine munthu ndekha
- 2. CHIYEMBEKEZO: Ndiyenera kukhala pakati pa dziko la wokondedwa wanga
- ZOONA: Mnzanga ndi ine tili ndi moyo wathunthu, wokwaniritsa womwe tili nawo
- 3. ZOYEMBEKEZERA: Ubwenzi wabwino uyenera kukhala wosavuta nthawi zonse
- ZOONA: Moyo umakhala ndi zotsika, koma ine ndi mnzanga timatha kuwathana nawo
- 4. ZOyembekezereka: Ngati wokondedwa wanga amandikonda akhoza kusintha
- Zenizeni: Ndimakonda wokondedwa wanga chifukwa cha omwe ali komanso omwe akukhala
Tikukhala pagulu lomwe limayang'ana kwambiri kupeza chibwenzi "choyenera". Kuchokera pamafilimu mpaka pawailesi yakanema mpaka m'mawu a nyimbo, timakhudzidwa ndi mauthenga okhudza momwe chikondi chiyenera kuwonekera, zomwe tiyenera kuyembekezera kuchokera kwa anzathu, komanso tanthauzo lake ngati ubale wathu sukuchita mogwirizana ndi ziyembekezozi.
Koma aliyense amene wakhala pachibwenzi amadziwa kuti zowonadi nthawi zambiri zimawoneka mosiyana kwambiri ndi nkhani zachikondi zangwiro zomwe timaziwona komanso kuzimva ponseponse. Zingatisiye kudabwa zomwe tili ndi ufulu kuyembekezera komanso ngati maubale athu ndiabwino komanso athanzi konse? Ndipo ndikofunikira kudziwa zenizeni za ziyembekezo vs zenizeni muubwenzi ngati tikufuna kukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino.
Pemphani kuti mudziwe zambiri za chiyembekezo chachikulu kwambiri motsutsana ndi zenizeni pamalingaliro olakwika muubwenzi komanso chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kuzichotsa.
1. CHIYEMBEKEZO: Wokondedwa wanga andimaliza! Ndi theka langa lina!
Poyembekezera izi, pamene tidzakumana ndi "m'modzi", tidzakhala amphumphu, osangalala, komanso osangalala. Mnzathu woyenerayu adzakwaniritsa zosowa zathu zonse ndikupanga zolakwa zathu, ndipo tidzachitanso chimodzimodzi kwa iwo.
ZOONA: Ndine munthu ndekha
Zikumveka pang'ono, koma simungapeze munthu woyenera kuti mumukonde ngati simuli bwino. Izi sizitanthauza kuti mulibe zovuta kapena ntchito yoti muchite nokha, koma kuti muziyang'ana nokha kukwaniritsa zosowa zanu zofunika kwambiri.
Simudalira munthu wina kuti akupangitseni kumva kuti ndinu oyenera komanso oyenera - mutha kupeza kumverera kotere mkati mwanu komanso m'moyo womwe mwadzipangira.
2. CHIYEMBEKEZO: Ndiyenera kukhala pakati pa dziko la wokondedwa wanga
Uku ndiye kupitilira kwa chiyembekezo cha "andimaliza". Pakuyembekezera uku, mnzanu amasintha moyo wawo wonse kuti azingoganizira za inu ndi zomwe ali nazo.
Sasowa abwenzi akunja, zokonda zakunja, kapena nthawi yoti akhale okha - kapena, osachepera, amafunikira zinthu izi zochepa kwambiri.
ZOONA: Mnzanga ndi ine tili ndi moyo wathunthu, wokwaniritsa womwe tili nawo
Inu nonse munali ndi moyo musanakumane, ndipo muyenera kupitiliza kukhala ndi miyoyoyo ngakhale muli limodzi tsopano. Palibe aliyense wa inu amene angafunike kuti wina akhale wangwiro. M'malo mwake, muli limodzi chifukwa chibwenzi chimasintha miyoyo yanu.
Mnzanu yemwe akuyembekezerani kusiya zonse zakunja ndi zibwenzi kuti muziyang'ana kwambiri ndi mnzanu yemwe amafuna kuwongolera, ndipo izi sizabwino kapena ayi!
M'malo mwake, muubwenzi wabwino, othandizana anzawo amathandizira zokonda za anzawo komanso anzawo ngakhale akumanga banja limodzi.
3. ZOYEMBEKEZERA: Ubwenzi wabwino uyenera kukhala wosavuta nthawi zonse
Izi zitha kufotokozedwanso mwachidule kuti "chikondi chimagonjetsa onse." Poyembekezera izi, ubale "woyenera" nthawi zonse umakhala wosavuta, wopanda mikangano, komanso womasuka. Inu ndi mnzanu simukugwirizana kapena muyenera kukambirana kapena kunyengerera.
ZOONA: Moyo umakhala ndi zotsika, koma ine ndi mnzanga timatha kuwathana nawo
Palibe chilichonse m'moyo chosavuta nthawi zonse, ndipo izi ndi zoona makamaka paubwenzi. Kukhulupirira kuti ubale wanu udzawonongeka pachiwonetsero choyamba chavuto kapena kusamvana kumayika pachiwopsezo chothetsa chibwenzi chomwe chingakhale chabwino kwa inu! Ngakhale ziwawa ndi mikangano yambiri ndi mbendera zofiira, chowonadi ndichakuti paubwenzi uliwonse pamakhala kusagwirizana, kusamvana, komanso nthawi zomwe muyenera kukambirana kapena kukambirana.
Sikuti kupezeka kwa mikangano kumakhalapo koma ndi momwe inu ndi mnzanuyo mumayendetserare zomwe zimatsimikizira momwe ubale wanu ungakhalire wabwino.
Kuphunzira kukambirana, kugwiritsa ntchito luso lotha kuthetsa kusamvana, ndikusintha ndizofunikira pakupanga ubale wabwino, wokhalitsa.
4. ZOyembekezereka: Ngati wokondedwa wanga amandikonda akhoza kusintha
Chiyembekezo ichi chimalimbikitsa kuti titha kulimbikitsa munthu amene timamukonda kuti asinthe mwanjira zina ndikuti kufunitsitsa kwawo kutero kumawonetsa momwe chikondi chawo chilili champhamvu.
Nthawi zina izi zimabwera potengera kusankha mnzathu yemwe timamutenga ngati “projekiti” - wina amene amakhulupirira kapena amachita zinthu zomwe zimawavuta, koma amene timakhulupirira kuti tingamusinthe kukhala "wabwino". Pali zitsanzo za izi pachikhalidwe chonse cha pop, ndipo azimayi makamaka amalimbikitsidwa kuti asankhe amuna omwe angawasinthe kapena kuwapanga okondedwa.
Zenizeni: Ndimakonda wokondedwa wanga chifukwa cha omwe ali komanso omwe akukhala
Anthu adzasintha pakapita nthawi, sizowona. Ndipo ndikofunikira kuthandizira anzathu pakupanga zosintha pamoyo zomwe zingadzipindulitse okha komanso kulimbitsa ubale wathu.
Koma ngati mukulephera kukonda mnzanu monga momwe aliri mu mphindi yapadera, ndipo m'malo mwake khulupirirani kuti kuwakonda kwambiri kuwapangitsa kuti asinthe, ndiye kuti mwakhumudwa.
Kulandila mnzanu kuti ndi ndani ndichofunikira pakumanga thanzi.
Kuyembekezera kuti mnzanu asinthe ngati "umboni" wachikondi - kapena, mosiyana, kuyembekeza kuti sangakule ndikusintha - ndikunyoza mnzanu, ubale wanu, komanso inunso.