Zamkati
Inde, banja lililonse losasangalala silili lokondwa munjira yake, ndipo banja lililonse lozunza lili ndi malingaliro opanda malire.
Aliyense atha kuchitiridwa nkhanza m'banja, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu wake, kugonana, msinkhu wamaphunziro, zachuma - mosatengera mawonekedwe amunthu aliyense, mwachidule. Ziwawazi zimathandizira kusintha kwakanthawi muubwenzi, ndipo ndizovuta monga aliyense amene akukhudzidwa.
Mphamvuzi zimakhala zolemetsa kwathunthu kwa onse m'banjamo, komanso ndizosatheka kusiya. Cholinga chagona pamasewera olimbikitsa mphamvu ndi kuwongolera.
Kuzungulira kowononga
Ngakhale banja limodzi lomwe limazunza silofanana, pali zina zomwe zimachitika pachibwenzi chotere.
Kuzunza kumachitika nthawi zambiri. Banja limadutsa munthawi yamkuntho mphepo yamkuntho isanakwane, pomwe, ngakhale zinthu zili mwamtendere panja, mikangano imakulirakulira ndipo nthawi yayikulu yakuzunzidwa komanso nkhanza sizingapeweke.
Kuphatikiza ndi njira zowonongera zotsimikizira mphamvu kwa omwe achitiridwa nkhanza m'mabanja, malo oyipa ngati awa nthawi zambiri amadzetsa kukayikira konse, kutopa kwamaganizidwe, ndi mantha.
Masewera a mphamvu ndi kuwongolera, (osafuna) kusewera ndi aliyense m'banjamo, amasungidwa ndi kusatetezeka. Omwe amazunzidwa komanso omwe amamuzunza samadzidalira ndipo amafunikira kwambiri wina ndi mnzake. Wopondereza amawopa kuti awonetsa momwe aliri osatetezeka ndipo amaopa kuwoneka ofooka. Komabe, (m) amakhulupiliranso kuti iye samakondedwa. Mbali inayi, wozunzidwayo amachita mantha kuti sakondedwa aliyense komanso wokondedwayo.
Chifukwa chake, onse amavomereza kusayembekezereka kwa ubale wawo - zosemphana zosagwirizana komanso chikondi chosagwirizana. Komabe, pakuwoneka mopanda tanthauzo, maubwenzi olimba modabwitsa amapangidwa, ndipo nthawi zambiri timawona mabanja omwe amachitira nkhanza kwambiri mamembala awo akuwoneka kuti sangathe kupatukana ndi kukhazikitsa malire.
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Momwe masewera a mphamvu ndi kuwongolera amasewera
Masewera owopsa amphamvu ndikuwongolera nthawi zambiri amaseweredwa ndi wozunza pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana kuti awalamulire, ndipo wovutitsidwayo akumugonjera chifukwa choopa kukanidwa ndi kusakondedwa. Izi zimasandutsa kuthamangitsidwa kosavomerezeka ndi kukondana, komwe kumabwera mwanjira yosasintha, kutopetsa mphamvu ndi chisangalalo cha wozunzidwayo.
Zina mwazomwe anthu omwe amazunza anzawo amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito pofuna kutsimikizira kuti hegemony ndi awa -
- Kuopseza: kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowopsa zosiyanasiyana, kugwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe, mawu kapena manja kuti achititse mantha, kuwonetsa kuti chikondi chimakhazikika chifukwa cha "zolondola" za wozunzidwayo, ndi zina; Komanso, njira yapadera yowopsezera komanso kuzunza imachitika pamene wozunza akuwopseza (poyera kapena mobisa) kuti adzipha, kusiya, kapena kuvulazidwa mwanjira iliyonse, ngati wozunzidwayo sachita mwanjira inayake.
- Kuzunzidwa: kupangitsa wozunzidwayo kudziona wolakwa komanso womuzunza, kumunyoza, kumuchititsa manyazi, kumutchula mayina, kumupangitsa kudzimva wosadzidalira, wosakwanira, komanso wopanda thandizo, ndi zina zambiri.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito chuma: kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama ndi katundu kuti wozunzidwayo agonjere ("... mukadali pansi panga ...", "... mungafe ndi njala popanda kulipira kwanga!")
- Kupatula wovutikayo kuchokera kunja: Izi siziyenera kukhala kudzipatula kwathunthu, koma kulekanitsa wovutikayo mwakuthupi kapena mwamaganizidwe kuchokera kwa iye kapena abwenzi ake, abale ake ena, kapena zina zakunja kumatsimikizira kuti iye adzawopa kwambiri kutaya chikondi cha omwe akukuzunzani komanso koposa atengeke ndi chilichonse chomwe womuzunzayo amamuuza.
Inde, machenjerero onsewa amaphatikizapo njira zina zobisika za nkhanza. Mitundu yankhanza kwambiri yakuzunza ndi kuchitira nkhanza mabanja (nkhanza kapena nkhanza) imagwera chimodzimodzi ndipo siyosiyana kwenikweni pamaziko awo. Izi ndizowonetseratu zowopsa komanso zowopsa zakusowa komweko komanso kusowa chitetezo.
Komabe, ngakhale nkhanza zosadziwika bwino zitha kubweretsa mavuto akulu, ndipo siziyenera kutengedwa mopepuka chifukwa choti kuvulala kwamthupi sikunachitike. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuzindikira ndikuyesera kusintha njira zoyipa zabanja.
Kukhala m'banja lankhanza nthawi zambiri kumakhala kovuta monga kupeza njira zosinthira.
Kuchitira umboni kapena kuchitiridwa nkhanza m'banja mozunzidwa kumatha kuvulaza ana azaka zosavuta. Mphamvu zakuluzikuluzo ndizovuta kwambiri ndikuti sizingakhalepo kuti mamembala awiri am'banja amangochita chibwenzi chosayenera. Membala aliyense ali ndi gawo lake pakusunga kusinthana kwamatenda, zambiri zomwe ndizoyankha mwangozi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kusintha nthawi zambiri kumakhala kosatheka ngati sichophatikizana, nthawi zambiri kutsogozedwa ndi othandizira.
Komabe, ndi khama loyenera nthawi yathu ndi mphamvu zathu, chifukwa mabanja ambiri amatha kusintha ndikukhala malo achikondi ndi chitetezo.
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