Zamkati
- 1. Chemistry
- 2. Musathamangire kuchita izi
- 3. Pambuyo pa 26
- 4.Kugwirizana
- 5. Kuphatikizana
- 6. Pewani kunyalanyaza zikhulupiriro zanu
- 7. Kufunika kwa chipembedzo, chikhalidwe, mtundu komanso kalasi
- 8. Maganizo ochepa okhudza chibwenzi pa intaneti
- 9. Kukonza bwino nthawi yachiwiri
- Mapeto
M'malo anga ophunzitsa, othandizira maanja, ofufuza komanso wansembe wokwatiwa zaka makumi anayi zapitazi, ndakhala ndi mwayi wolangiza mabanja mazana ambiri.
Zomwe ndapeza kuchokera pantchito yonseyi ndikuti maukwati abwino samangobwera chifukwa chongokhala chete. Kupeza chikondi cha moyo wanu kumadalira pazinthu zosiyanasiyana.
Mwazina, maukwati abwino amadalira kwambiri zisankho zomwe anthu amapanga asanalowe m'banja komanso panthawi yopanga zibwenzi.
Zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukwaniritse chikondi cha moyo wanu nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta komanso zowonekera mukadziwa zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana.
Chifukwa chake ngati mukudabwa kuti ndi ziti zomwe mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse chikondi cha moyo wanu kapena zisonyezo kuti mwapeza chikondi cha moyo wanu.
Ndiye nazi malangizo 9 omwe angakuthandizeni mvetsetsani zinsinsi zopezera chikondi chenicheni ndi momwe mungapezere chikondi cha moyo wanu.
1. Chemistry
Zimakhala kuti anthu amakwatirana pazifukwa zamitundu mitundu, zomwe zazing'onozo zimakhudzana kwambiri ndikupeza chikondi cha moyo wanu. Inemwini, sindingalimbikitse kuti aliyense amene ali pachibwenzi aganizirepo za chibwenzi ndi ukwati ngati sakukondana.
2. Musathamangire kuchita izi
Nthawi zonse ndikakumana mwamseri ndi mabanja omwe ali mkangano, nthawi ina poyesetsa kuti ndiwadziwe ndimatha kufunsa kuti adakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji asanaganize zokwatirana.
Ndizodabwitsa kwa ine kuti ndi angati omwe akuwonetsa kuti adakhala pachibwenzi pasanathe chaka. Ena akhoza kundiuza zosakwana miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti Zimatenga pafupifupi zaka ziwiri kuti mumudziwe bwino bwenzi lanu.
Kotero, musafulumire kuyamba chibwenzi, ndipo ngati mupeza china chake chomwe simumakonda, musaganize kuti chimasowa. Mwayi wake ndikuti, sichitha pambuyo paukwati ndipo mungotengeka ndi chiyembekezo chopeza chikondi cha moyo wanu.
3. Pambuyo pa 26
Zambiri zikuwonetsanso izi anthu omwe amadikirira mpaka atakwanitsa zaka makumi awiri amakulitsa mwayi wawo wopeza chikondi cha moyo wanu, kukhala osangalala m'banja, ndikukhalabe osangalala m'banja.
Chifukwa chiyani? M'malo mwake, sizovuta kwenikweni kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake izi zitha kukhala zowona.
Anthu omwe amadikirira mpaka atafika zaka zapakati pa makumi awiri mpaka makumi awiri amatha kukhala okhazikika, pantchito, komanso okhwima kuposa anzawo.
4.Kugwirizana
Kodi mgwirizano wanu ndi wotani? Mwanjira ina, ndi kufanana kotani komwe mumagawana ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Kodi mumakhala ndi malingaliro ofananawo pankhani zandalama, abwenzi, apongozi, zolinga zakutsogolo, zosangalatsa, zogonana komanso kulera ana?
Nanga bwanji chikhalidwe chanu, fuko lanu komanso chipembedzo chanu? Kodi ndizoyenerana bwanji? Ndiye, umunthu wanu ndi wofanana bwanji?
Kodi ndinu mtundu wa A, ndipo ndi mtundu wa B, kapena mosemphanitsa?
Kodi mumakonda kukangana mwamphamvu, koma mnzanuyo ndiwopewa yemwe sakonda kuchita nawo mikangano yayikulu komanso yovuta? Kodi ndi wolowerera, ndipo inunso ndinu odziwa zambiri?
Pulogalamu ya momwe anthu awiri amagwirizirana ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti banja lanu likhale bwino lero ndi mtsogolo.
Chifukwa chake, pomwe mukudziwa mnzanu, musachite manyazi kufunsa mafunso okhudzana ndi izi komanso zina zofunika.
5. Kuphatikizana
Chowonadi ndichakuti, maanja ambiri amathera nthawi akuyesera kuti awone ngati ali oyenerana, koma owerengeka amawononga nthawi yofanana kuyesa kudziwa momwe alili osiyana.
Mawu omalizawa akhoza kukusokonezani, koma ndapeza kuti maanja omwe amathera nthawi kuyesera kudziwa momwe alili, akuyeneranso kuthera nthawi yochulukirapo kuyesera kuti amvetsetse kusiyana kwawo.
Makamaka pazinthu zazikulu monga, ndalama, abwenzi, azilamu, zolinga zakuntchito, mitundu yotsutsana, zosangalatsa, nthawi yopuma, kugonana, kulera, mitundu komanso zipembedzo komanso kusiyana kwamakhalidwe.
6. Pewani kunyalanyaza zikhulupiriro zanu
Ndinu zomwe mumakhulupirira. Kotero, osanyalanyaza zikhulupiriro zanu zoyambirira komanso zomwe mumakhulupirira. Ndakumanapo ndi maanja ambiri omwe adasiya zomwe amakhulupirira kuti akondweretse wokondedwa wawo, kapena abale awo ena, ndikudandaula za chisankhochi atakwatirana.
Kotero, chitani chilungamo kwa inu nokha ndi mnzanu. Anthu amene amanyengerera zomwe amafuna ndikukhulupirira nthawi zambiri amamva chisoni chifukwa chochita izi atakwatirana.
Ndipo choyipa kuposa kudzimvera chisoni ndikutsalira kwa mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo zomwe zimatsatira. Maganizo amenewa nthawi zambiri amapangitsa kuti banja likhale losangalala komanso kukhazikika m'banja.
7. Kufunika kwa chipembedzo, chikhalidwe, mtundu komanso kalasi
Izi zimakhudza kwambiri momwe timawonera dziko lapansi ndikupeza chikondi cha moyo wanu. Chifukwa chake, ngati zingatheke, khalani ndi nthawi yabwino panthawi yopanga zibwenzi, komanso musanalowe m'banja, kuyankhula zakusiyana kwanu pachipembedzo, chikhalidwe, fuko, mtundu komanso magulu komanso momwe zingasokonezere kukhutira ndi umodzi wam'banja.
8. Maganizo ochepa okhudza chibwenzi pa intaneti
Chibwenzi pa intaneti chafala kwambiri kotero kuti 35% ya anthu aku America, kafukufuku wina, akuti adakumana ndi akazi awo pa intaneti.
Komabe, Chibwenzi pa intaneti sichikhala ndi zoopsa. Pafupifupi 43% mwa omwe adachita nawo kafukufuku wina anena kuti zibwenzi pa intaneti zimakhudza chiopsezo.
Ophunzira atero Mbiri zingakhale ndi zonamizira. Kutsata, chinyengo komanso ziwawa zogonana zitha kuphatikizidwanso ndi omwe amadana nawo pa intaneti.
Malamulo aboma, milandu yaposachedwa, komanso kufalitsa nkhani zaumbanda wokhudzana ndi milanduwa zachenjeza anthu za zoopsa izi, ndipo zathandiza kuti zibwenzi izi zikhale zotetezeka.
9. Kukonza bwino nthawi yachiwiri
Anthu omwe anasudzulana ndipo ali kulingalira za kukwatiranso nthawi zambiri kumakumana ndi zovuta zina zambiri izi ndizosiyana ndi zovuta zomwe anthu amakumana nazo akakwatirana koyamba.
Ichi ndiye chifukwa chachikulu chomwe chisudzulo pakati pa anthu okwatirana chikuwonjezeka kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mavuto ena omwe angakhalepo okhudzana ndi zovuta zomwe mabanja opeza amakumana nazo ndizoyesetsa kuti aphatikize.
Ena ndi achibale a yemwe adakwatirana naye momwe angachitire naye. Zina ndizokhudzana ndiukwati pambuyo pa 50, ndi zovuta zapadera zomwe maanja amakumana nazo munthawi imeneyi.
Mapeto
Chibwenzi chingakhale nthawi yopindulitsa kwambiri komanso yosangalatsa pamoyo wamunthu. Komanso ndi ntchito yovuta. Omwe amasangalala ndi ulendowu, koma amalephera kutenga nawo mbali pazokweza zina zomwe ndalongosola sangapeze chikondi cha moyo wawo.
Mosiyana ndi izi, iwo omwe amasangalala ndikukwera, ndikukweza zolemetsa ndizotheka kuti apeze chikondi cha moyo wawo ndipo khazikitsani maziko olimba omangira moyo limodzi.