Zamkati
Anthu awiri akaganiza zokhala limodzi moyo wawo wonse, zimangokhala zaukwati wabwino ndi diresi lokongola kwambiri, malo abwino, nyimbo zabwino ndi chakudya. Anthu amakonda kunyalanyaza zomwe zikubwera pambuyo pake zomwe ndizokwatirana chaka choyamba. Ubale wovomerezeka ndiukwati womwewo umadza ndi zovuta zingapo, ndipo chovuta kwambiri komabe chokongola ndichokukwatira chaka choyamba.
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi asankhe kukhala limodzi nthawi zonse pamavuto ndi pamavuto. Amafuna chilimbikitso chimenecho, chikondi ndi chikhumbo chokhala pamodzi zabwino zomwe zingakhale zoyambitsa ukwati wachimwemwe, wopambana.
Tamaliza malangizowo kwa omwe adakwatirana chaka choyamba, omwe athandize maanja atsopano kudziwa zomwe ayenera kuyembekezera komanso momwe angachitire ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Tiyeni tiwapeze!
Pangani njira yatsopano
Ngati simuli m'modzi mwa mabanja omwe adakhalira limodzi asanakwatirane zimatha kutenga milungu ingapo kuti muzolowere kupezeka ndi ndandanda wa wina ndi mnzake. Mwina mukukhala pachibwenzi ndi theka lanu labwino kwanthawi yayitali, koma anthu awiri akayamba kukhalira limodzi, zinthu zimasiyana pang'ono.
Ndizabwinobwino ngati chizolowezi chanu chimakhala chosokoneza kwakanthawi chifukwa zinthu zidzakhazikika. Kusintha kuyenera kupangidwa limodzi ndi kunyengerera kuti mupeze mbali yatsopano ya munthu amene mwakwatirana naye tsopano.
Bajeti
Chaka choyamba chokwatirana ndi chovuta, makamaka pankhaniyi. Mukakhala osakwatira, mumadzipangira nokha kuti muzitha kugwiritsa ntchito chilichonse chomwe mungafune- koma osatinso. Tsopano, kukambirana ndi wina wanu zofunika ndikofunikira musanagule tikiti yayikulu.
Ndalama ndiye maziko azokangana zambiri pakati pa omwe angokwatirana kumene. Pofuna kupewa sewero losafunikira komanso chisokonezo, ndibwino kukhala limodzi ndikukambirana moyenera za ndalama zomwe zimaperekedwa mwezi uliwonse kuphatikiza kulipira galimoto, ngongole, ndi zina zambiri. Mutha kusankha zomwe mungakonde posunga ndalama. Mwina nonse mutha kutenga gawo lanu ndikupeza chilichonse chomwe mukufuna kapena kukonzekera tchuthi kapena china chilichonse.
Kulankhulana ndikofunika
Sindingathe kutsindika kufunikira kwa kulumikizana mchaka choyamba chaukwati. Nonse muyenera kutenga nthawi mosatengera kuti tsiku lanu limakhala lotanganidwa bwanji komanso mumalankhulanadi. Kulankhulana kumatha kuthana ndi mavuto ndi mikangano ndipo kumakupatsani mwayi woyandikira mnzanu. Sikofunikira kungolankhula komanso kumvetsera. Nonse muyenera kutsegulirana mitima yanu ndikulankhulana.
Mwachilengedwe, nonse awiri mudzakhala ndi masiku ovuta kaya ndi akatswiri kapena moyo waumwini koma kuti mnzanuyo adzakhalapo kuti amvetsere zikhala bwino. Tikhulupirireni tikanena izi. Kuphatikiza apo, momwe mungathetsere kusamvana kwanu ndi kusamvana kwanu mchaka choyamba chaukwati zidzakupatsani chidziwitso cha momwe zaka zanu zonse zakwatirane zidzakhalire.
Mugwerananso mchikondi
Osadabwa, ndizowona. Mudzagweranso mchaka choyamba chaukwati koma ndi ena anu okha. Tsiku lililonse likadutsa, mupeza china chatsopano chokhudza mnzanu; muphunzira zambiri za zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda - zonsezi zikukukumbutsani nthawi zonse chifukwa chomwe mudasankhira kukwatira munthu ameneyu tsopano ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Izi ziwonetsetsa kuti nonse mukondane kwamuyaya. Nthawi zonse muzikumbukira izi.
Banja lililonse limakhala lapadera palokha
Banja lililonse lili ndi mtundu wina wamatsenga, pali zinthu zina zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osiyana ndi ena ndipo chaka chokwatirana ndi pomwe mumazindikira zinthu izi. Yesetsani kupereka mtima wanu ndi moyo wanu ngakhale thambo limawoneka lotuwa pang'ono chifukwa mukapachikika pamenepo, dzuwa lidzawala. Palibe chomwe chingakulepheretseni inu nonse kukhala ndi banja losangalala ngati nonse muli ndi chidwi choti muchite bwino. Zabwino zonse!