Zamkati
- 1. Sinthani nthawi zonse zogonana
- 2. Sewerani mphindi zomwe mumakonda kwambiri
- 3. Kukambirana zogonana kumakhala kopambana
- 4. Yambani kusewera
- 5. Pezani njira zosangalatsa zokhumudwitsa kapena zochititsa chidwi mnzanuyo pogonana
- 6. Yesetsani kuchita chilichonse
Foreplay ndichinthu chosangalatsa m'miyoyo yathu yogonana chomwe chimapangitsa kuti zokumana nazozo zizikhala zazitali.
Zimalimbikitsanso kukhulupirirana, kukondana, komanso chisangalalo pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu kapena mnzanu. Chifukwa chake ngakhale simukuvutitsidwa nthawi zonse ndi preplay, ino ndi nthawi yokonza njira zanu kuti muthe kupeza zabwino zomwe zingakubwezereni kakhumi. Kuwonetseratu kwa okwatirana ndi chida chamtengo wapatali chomwe chingathandize kuswa chilolezo m'chipinda chogona. Pali malingaliro ambiri otsogola omwe angakuthandizeni kukulitsa chilakolako chanu chogonana komanso kukupatseni nonse nonse.
Mukuganiza zokometsera moyo wanu wogonana kapena kumufunira malingaliro amtsogolo? Osadandaula ngati mulibe malingaliro amtsogolo chifukwa tatsala pang'ono kugawana zina zomwe zingakupatseni chidwi.
Chiwerengero chamalingaliro am'mbuyomu cha okwatirana ndichopanda malire, kotero kuti zikuthandizireni, nazi malingaliro osangalatsa komanso owoneka bwino omwe angapangitse kuti timadziti tomwe timapanga komanso tomwe timagonana, komanso tokometsera chipinda chogona.
1. Sinthani nthawi zonse zogonana
Kuyembekezera ndichinthu chilichonse pankhani yakugonana.
Nthawi zonse timakhala tikulimbikitsa mpaka nthawi yayikulu. Nthawi zambiri maanja amakhala ndi chizolowezi choyambitsa zogonana kuchipinda.
Kupangitsa zinthu kukhala zachilendo komanso zachiwerewere zimayambitsa kugonana kwina kulikonse koma m'chipinda chogona. Kuyesera kuwonetseratu kutsogolo kulikonse komanso pakona panyumba ndi imodzi mwazosangalatsa zomwe zingapangitse chidwi chanu chogonana.
Ngakhale mutadikirira kaye musanachoke limodzi, pitirizani kulimbikitsana ndi zolankhula zonyansa, kukhudza zonyansa komanso kuyang'anitsana pang'ono kuti mukapeza nthawi yocheza, zinthu zimatha kulira.
Limodzi mwamaganizidwe osangalatsa ndi kuyesa kuyambitsa zogonana kuchokera kulikonse ngodya ya nyumba yanu. Zinthu zikakhala zokometsera, mutha kugonana kumeneko nthawi imeneyo, kapena mupite ndi mnzanu kuchipinda.
2. Sewerani mphindi zomwe mumakonda kwambiri
Kubweretsanso zokumbukira zakale ndi njira yabwino yolimbitsira chilakolako chomwe mudali nacho koyambirira kwanu ubale.
Muthanso kusangalala ndi zikumbukiro zomwe zinali zabwino kwambiri kuti sizingachitike kamodzi kokha m'moyo. Ganizirani za usiku umodzi wabwino kwambiri womwe mudagonana, ndikuyamba madzulo momwemo momwe mudachitira nthawi imeneyo.
Bweretsani zovala zomwe mudavala ndikuchotsa zomwe mudachita kale. Masewerawa amakonzekeretsani mpira kuti ukhale gawo lotentha, losalala.
Pakadali pano, fotokozerani momwe mumafunira nthawiyo koma simunathe chifukwa munali amanyazi, kapena simunadziwane bwino.
3. Kukambirana zogonana kumakhala kopambana
Kulankhula zauve nthawi zonse kumakuthandizani nonse kutseguka, makamaka ngati mwaphunzira kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena mnzanu momwe amakondera. Kulankhula zauve ndi imodzi mwamaganizidwe olosera zamtsogolo omwe amatsimikizira kuti padzakhala thumba lotentha.
Musaiwale kuwonjezera kutumizirana mameseji, kutumizirana mauthenga ogonana kudzera pa imelo, zolemba, ndi mauthenga achinsinsi pazanema kuti musakanizike ndi kinky foreplay.
Simuyenera kuchita kuzipangitsa kukhala zovuta, mungomuuza kuti adziwe zomwe mukufuna, kapena zomwe mukuganiza, ndipo zidzakhala zokwanira kununkhira moyo wakugonana.
4. Yambani kusewera
Kuchita zongopeka sikungakhale kwa aliyense.
Pakhoza kukhala njira yoti muphatikizire lingaliro losangalatsali ngakhale mutakhala kuti simuli omasuka ndi lingaliro lonse lakuchita. Mutha kuchita izi posewera masewera omwe adagulidwa kale omwe akuphatikizira malingaliro am'malingaliro kudzera muma playplay.
Kapena, pangani masewera. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamalangizo omwe angakuthandizeni inu ndi mnzanu kuti muchepetse ziwonetserozo ndikuwululira zokonda zanu zobisika.
Muuzeni alembe zikhulupiriro ndi malingaliro azakugonana omwe amawakonda, pamapepala osiyana, ndiyeno muwonetse maloto akewo kuti mukometse moyo wogonana. Limodzi mwamaganizidwe osangalatsa amakono, uyu ndi wopambana.
Pangani kukayikira kuti kuzikhala motalikirapo posachita nthawi yomweyo, m'malo mwake muziyanjane ndi chiwonetsero chazakugonana, pomunyezimiritsa chovalacho ndikumuuza Kuvala motentha ndi imodzi mwamaganizidwe opambana kwambiri ogonana, simungalakwitse nawo!
5. Pezani njira zosangalatsa zokhumudwitsa kapena zochititsa chidwi mnzanuyo pogonana
Ndiye, kodi mumununkhize bwanji kuchipinda kwake? Njira imodzi yodzikometsera banja lanu pogonana ndikulankhula nkhani zonyansa.
Ngati mukukhala mukuwonera kanema wawayilesi, ingokambiraninso nkhani zoyipa zazomwe mukufuna kuti mnzanu akuchitireni.
Ngakhale sizomwe mumachita kawirikawiri, ndipo mumazichita mosaganizira bwino zimangosiya nsagwada pansi.
Yesani izi m'malo onse omwe simukuyenera kutero, kuti mupitirize kupanga njira zochepa zodabwitsira mnzanu. Ndi lingaliro losangalatsa lomwe ndilo masewera okhalitsa.
Zikhala zosangalatsa kuwona mawonekedwe akudabwitsidwa kenako ndikukhumba nkhope ya mnzanu.
6. Yesetsani kuchita chilichonse
Momwe mungakometse moyo wachikondi chanu? Chinsinsi chake chimakhala mosiyanasiyana. Yesani zinthu zosiyanasiyana kuti mukometse moyo wogonana. Malingaliro osiyanasiyana otsogola nthawi iliyonse amapangitsa kuti makina anu azing'ambika komanso mapepala akuyaka.
Yesetsani kuwunika momwe kumverera kwa zokumana nazo zosiyanasiyana kumamverera, kapena kuthandizira kukulitsa kugonana kwanu.
M'malo moganiza za malingaliro apambuyo, yambani kulingalira za momwe china chingamvere ndikuwunika limodzi ngati mawonekedwe. Yesetsani kutentha, madera osiyanasiyana, nyengo, zoika pachiwopsezo (chomwe mumakhala nacho), zoseweretsa, momwe mumalankhulirana, ngakhale kuwona malo osiyanasiyana ogonana. Malingaliro oyeserera ogonana awa akuthandizani kuti musangalale ndi moyo wogonana kwanthawi yayitali.
Sinthani zokumana nazo kuchokera ku zachiwerewere zoseketsa, zakuthupi kukhala kinky, omasuka pachiwopsezo, okonda kusewera.
Ngati mukuganiza zamaganizidwe amtsogolo, kupanga chidziwitso pogwiritsa ntchito zodabwitsa, kapangidwe, kupanga zokumana nazo, kukulitsa kukondana kudzera pakukhulupirika ndi kudalirana, kuyika pachiwopsezo pamodzi, ndikukonzekera zokumana nazo zatsopano, zitha kukuthandizirani nthawi zonse. Malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana angakuthandizeni kupewa kukhazikika kuti musakwerere m'moyo wanu wogonana.
Kenako, simudzatha malingaliro a kinky foreplay omwe amathandizanso kukometsa zogonana. Kusewera malingaliro achiwerewerewa, kuyesa malangizo othandiza pawotchi, komanso kuwunika mosalekeza malingaliro atsopano zidzakupangitsani inu ndi mnzanu kukhala ndi usiku wamphepo umodzi, osakhala ndi usiku wosasangalatsa konse!