Zamkati
- Mumatani pamene zomwe zimakusangalatsani pang'onopang'ono zasandulika kukhala peeve
- Kodi mungapeze bwanji ufulu muubwenzi?
- Dzifunseni nokha, kodi ubale wanu umakhala ndi ufulu?
- Kugwira ntchito molimbika kumapindulitsa
- Palibe chomwe chimamverera kukhala chotetezeka kuposa kukhala mbali ya makina odzola mafuta
Nditakhala gawo labwino la masabata apitawa, ndikugwira ntchito yokonzanso nyumba yathu patatha nthawi yayitali ikukonzanso, ndimakhala ndikuganiza zaufulu.
Ndakhala maola ambiri ndikusankha makabati azovala, zida zanyumba ndi madengu, ndikuzisonkhanitsa 'mpaka m'mawa, ndikusunthira ndikuyika zinthu zapakhomo. Chifukwa chake chinthu chokha chomwe ndikufuna ndikumasulidwa kuntchito iyi yomwe imamveka yopanda malire.
Ndikugwira ntchito limodzi ndi amuna anga, ndimalota za momwe nyumba yathu idzawonekera pamene ntchito yayikulu yakwaniritsidwa. Kugwira ntchito bwino bwanji tikhala? Kupeza zomwe tikufunikira pakung'amba kwa zala zathu, m'malo mofufuzira tating'onoting'ono tomwe tinkadzipanikiziramo.
Ndikulingalira momwe zidzakhalire zosangalatsa zonse zikakhala ndi malo ake ndipo tonse tili ndi malo ambiri. Ndimapuma pang'ono podziwa kuti ngakhale tinakhala maola ambiri pantchito yomwe ikuwoneka ngati yopanda malire, tsopano ndikutha kuwona kumaliza. Zinandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti kupwetekako kuyenera kuti kunali koyenera.
Makasitomala anga akamapeza munthu yemwe akhala akumufuna moyo wawo wonse, amapuma pang'ono. Zaka zonsezo za chibwenzi zatsogolera panthawiyi.
Pamene anali pachibwenzi (ndipo ndimafotokozadi), zowawa zakuyatsa chithumwa, mobwerezabwereza, chibadwire, zidakhala zopanda malire.
Mumatani pamene zomwe zimakusangalatsani pang'onopang'ono zasandulika kukhala peeve
Kukumana ndi munthu watsopano; osadziwa ngati mungalumikizane; kumva kusatsimikizika ngati angawapatsenso mwayi wina; kudandaula kuti safuna kutero; pakuwononga miyezi yakudziwana ndi wina - Ndi ntchito yovuta.
Koma zitatha izi, mutagwirizana komanso mwina kukwatira, mutha kupitiliza kuzindikira kuti zinthu zonse zomwe poyamba zidakusangalatsani, tsopano zakukhumudwitsani!
Mtima wawo wosasamala tsopano umakhala wamwano komanso wosasamala. Luso lawo labwino pantchito tsopano limatchedwa kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso. Mvula yawo imatenga nthawi yayitali kwambiri kotero amawononga madzi onse otentha, kapena amasamba mobwerezabwereza ndipo B.O awo akukupandukirani.
Ndipo, patangotha miyezi ingapo komanso ngakhale zaka zopezera njira yolankhulirana, ndipamene mumazindikira kuti ntchito zonse zomwe mwapanga kuti mumvetsetse zatha, ndipo mutha kuyamba kupuma mosavuta komanso kumva kwaulere.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji ufulu muubwenzi?
Chinthucho ndi chomwe ambiri mwa anthu amafuna kukhala omasuka muubwenzi ndipo amafunafuna njira zopezera ufulu muubwenzi.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo moyesetsa kuti amvetsetsane koyambirira kwa chibwenzi chawo, amayamwa momwe akumvera poganiza kuti zinthu zikhala bwino paokha. Amatha kukhulupirira kuti akufunsira anzawo ochulukirapo kapena ali ndi ziyembekezo zapadera, zomwe mwina sizingakhale choncho. Koma ngati mukumva kuti sakumvetsetsani, osakondedwa, kapena osatetezeka, uku sikumverera komwe mukufuna kukhala nawo.
Dzifunseni nokha, kodi ubale wanu umakhala ndi ufulu?
Anthu ambiri ali ndi chikhulupiriro chabodza chakuti ngati mumakondadi munthu amene muli naye, ndipo ngati mutakwatirana naye, zonse ziyenera kungogwirizana. Chowonadi cha nkhaniyi ndikuti sizingakhale choncho.
Ngati mukumva kuti mukugwira ntchito molimbika, ndiye kuti ndikuvulirani chipewa. Pali nthawi m'miyoyo yathu momwe zimakhalira. Ndikunena izi ngati wothandizira maukwati komanso ngati mkazi wokwatiwa wazaka pafupifupi 19.
Kugwira ntchito molimbika kumapindulitsa
Mnzanu akaona kuti mukuyesetsa kwambiri, nthawi zambiri zimawalimbikitsa kuti nawonso ayambe kuyanjana ndipo kenako umakhala ubale womasula. Chibwenzi chomwe chimapereka ufulu ndipo sichimakuponyani m'ndende kuti mukhale chomwe mukufuna kukhala.
Palibe chomwe chimamverera kukhala chotetezeka kuposa kukhala mbali ya makina odzola mafuta
Pomwe ine ndi amuna anga sitigwirizana pazonse, kukwanitsa kugwira ntchito moyenera panthawi yovuta kwambiri kwakhala kuphunzira bwino kwambiri komanso kwalimbikitsa kukula.
Ndingakonde kumva momwe mukuthana ndi mavuto anu m'moyo. Ndipo kwa inu omwe muli pachibwenzi ndipo mukuyembekeza kuti tsiku lina mudzakwatirana, kodi mumatha kukhalabe omasuka ndikufunafuna theka lina lanu?